Guys who Get a Grip: let's talk COCKRINGS, steel, silicone, leather, all

[Tallcajun]

*lurking*

'Cause, Simon.

A familiar face!

 

[Farawyn]

A familiar face!

OoooOOOoooh!
You're here, TC?

 

[Tallcajun]

OoooOOOoooh!
You're here, TC?

Simon did a great job with this thread. So informative.

 

[suckonsimon]

Day wear combo perfection!

Gotta tell you guys what I've been wearing alot these days for veery pleasant comfort and stud look effect. I got ahold of a 'turbine' silicone cockring from Oxballs. Boy is it deep! And I like how industrial it is too. But for me it's too comfy and squidgy to actually hold my balls out that distance without them at some stage getting sucked back through towards my body which is not good. So I went combo with the damn thing: a steel band on first, then the Turbine enclosing it. Holds me totally secure, way out, and the thick rim of the Turbine closest to my body tucks itself in and pushes the steel band out, so the steel band kinda plumps up and firms up my balls still more. Under denim it's a grand shape and a grander feel! Pics:

 

[crashD]

Day wear combo perfection!

Gotta tell you guys what I've been wearing alot these days for veery pleasant comfort and stud look effect. I got ahold of a 'turbine' silicone cockring from Oxballs. Boy is it deep! And I like how industrial it is too. But for me it's too comfy and squidgy to actually hold my balls out that distance without them at some stage getting sucked back through towards my body which is not good. So I went combo with the damn thing: a steel band on first, then the Turbine enclosing it. Holds me totally secure, way out, and the thick rim of the Turbine closest to my body tucks itself in and pushes the steel band out, so the steel band kinda plumps up and firms up my balls still more. Under denim it's a grand shape and a grander feel! Pics:

that is a highly effective combo simon

 

[applc]

Cock rings are an old trick for male dancers especially if going full nude. When doing those numbers a girl and I would have worked on the number for a bit. By the time you actually performed it a cock ring was more psychological than anything else. When I first began doing love shows the most challenging part was almost always the love scene. At our Club we had a fancy red velvet bed jammed right up against the rear stage mirrors. The love scene though is the last quarter of the act. Everything prior was stripping, seduction and intimate partnering. The trick to surviving the love scene was to put everything on the girl. I just left it to her on how intense she wanted things to get. With some girls though, things could get really intense and if you saw on the schedule that you were paired up with one of them then a cock ring was your lifeline. Also, a very tight supportive G would be additional insurance. With the dance part, erections were never an issue. Too much focus and responsibility.

 

[HighPlainsDrifter]

Is there any danger of doing permanent damage? I've never thought of wearing it all day. I might wear a "looser" one when I go out to the store, just to feel naughty and a bit aroused. But the tighter silicone ring, the one i used to get a hard as steel erection... makes my veins bulge and I'm a bit worried that if I wear it all day, something might go very wrong. Advice?

 

[suckonsimon]

Is there any danger of doing permanent damage? I've never thought of wearing it all day. I might wear a "looser" one when I go out to the store, just to feel naughty and a bit aroused. But the tighter silicone ring, the one i used to get a hard as steel erection... makes my veins bulge and I'm a bit worried that if I wear it all day, something might go very wrong. Advice?

I'd advise that any stretchy-and-tight ring is for the period of intercourse and then get the thing off. Likewise any kind of round-the-shaft-only restriction. The thing about a fixed diameter ring around cock and balls too, is that it doesn't squeeze, it's simply a cosy 'hold'. Of course that hold becomes an intense grip when you've got an erection, but it's a sensation quite different from the 'squeeze' of a tight stretchy.

The thing about a fixed diameter one is that even a couple of millimetres smaller than a guy's optimum size is too restricting and shouldn't be worn for any length of time. The alarming thing in that instance is that a guy cannot get if off until he's gone flaccid again and the ring is what's keeping the erection at full pelt.

The 'fine tune' test for optimum inner diameter with a metal ring, in my book, is whether you still feel comfortable in it in those moments just after ejaculationbut before any subsiding of girth and solidity. A too-tight fixed diameter ring and in those moments I feel 'oo heck I need this off'; a perfect diameter and I look at myself having spunked and still at full heft and the ring sensation is just fine and part of the post-ejaculation pleasure. That ring, I'm content to wear all day.

Caviat: I know only my own body. There are significant variables at play here: if a guy's girth is much the same flaccid and erect, perhaps all day wear would be too restricting. If a guy's balls are always real close in with his body with no dangle at all, perhaps likewise. If a guy has so much horn about him that he will nearly constantly be erect if he wears a ring all day then perhaps he shouldn't. These things I don't know.

 

[stevey29er]

Nicely said Simon, and nice bulge with your new combo! That new ring is quite a chunk of rubber. Are the fins on it strictly cosmetic or are they intended for partner stimulation? Have you used it with your Lady, and if so does she get any sort of rub from it? Thanks for your continuing experimentation in the realm of rings!

 

[suckonsimon]

Nicely said Simon, and nice bulge with your new combo! That new ring is quite a chunk of rubber. Are the fins on it strictly cosmetic or are they intended for partner stimulation? Have you used it with your Lady, and if so does she get any sort of rub from it? Thanks for your continuing experimentation in the realm of rings!

Cheers mate.

I've not had sex with the Oxballs Turbine on me. Nor will I. While I [and she] like the 'handsome' of a metal ring, the Turbine on me looks just too damn kinky. A lot of fun for a gay orgy but not my scene! Also my steel ring enhances the look of my junk whereas the Turbine is so bulky it has a look all of its own I feel. So, for me it's simply for the day-wear look under denim as per those photos. Great thing about having a steel band on too underneath is that if occasion arises I can slip the Turbine off and wayhey plunge in there!

But the fins on it: seems to me they keep the shape and the depth of it intact under pants, while at the same time keeping the structure lightweight, I'd say.

Hey does reporting on this stuff big me up cruelly!

 

[Bigspurt]

I'd advise that any stretchy-and-tight ring is for the period of intercourse and then get the thing off. Likewise any kind of round-the-shaft-only restriction. The thing about a fixed diameter ring around cock and balls too, is that it doesn't squeeze, it's simply a cosy 'hold'. Of course that hold becomes an intense grip when you've got an erection, but it's a sensation quite different from the 'squeeze' of a tight stretchy.

The thing about a fixed diameter one is that even a couple of millimetres smaller than a guy's optimum size is too restricting and shouldn't be worn for any length of time. The alarming thing in that instance is that a guy cannot get if off until he's gone flaccid again and the ring is what's keeping the erection at full pelt.

The 'fine tune' test for optimum inner diameter with a metal ring, in my book, is whether you still feel comfortable in it in those moments just after ejaculationbut before any subsiding of girth and solidity. A too-tight fixed diameter ring and in those moments I feel 'oo heck I need this off'; a perfect diameter and I look at myself having spunked and still at full heft and the ring sensation is just fine and part of the post-ejaculation pleasure. That ring, I'm content to wear all day.

Caviat: I know only my own body. There are significant variables at play here: if a guy's girth is much the same flaccid and erect, perhaps all day wear would be too restricting. If a guy's balls are always real close in with his body with no dangle at all, perhaps likewise. If a guy has so much horn about him that he will nearly constantly be erect if he wears a ring all day then perhaps he shouldn't. These things I don't know.

My rule of thumb is that the ring should not be tight when flacid and not too tight when fully erect. I use two types. Both mentioned here prior. A 1/2 inch wide nylon webbing cat collar which is adjustable and removable at any time. The other is a silicone "O" ring. 1.875 ID. If I want additional restriction I can wear two or even three. With just one, I can wear it all day and not really notice it. As I become arroused I swell into it and the restriction begins to take effect. In "O" rings, the next size smaller is
1.75 and I have trouble getting my balls through, especially the second one. The silicone doesn't stretch. If I require removal it can be cut.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

*lurking*

'Cause, Simon.

Perv.

We got lurkers? [OK, maybe just one]. Best news I heard all year.

More than one! Be serious, what woman isn't going to enjoy listening to a bunch of men talk about their junk?

'Ooo, tell us again how you put one ball through... and then the other... and then your wang... '

Also, pictures!

 

[suckonsimon]

<snip> Also, pictures!

'Scuse me, gurly, we don't want the thread taken down because of your need for "pictures"! Just you go look at my pictures of denim and ... undress them in your head, darling! That'll have to do!

 

[blowit]

'Scuse me, gurly, we don't want the thread taken down because of your need for "pictures"! Just you go look at my pictures of denim and ... undress them in your head, darling! That'll have to do!

Such a spoil sport Simon

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

'Scuse me, gurly, we don't want the thread taken down because of your need for "pictures"! Just you go look at my pictures of denim and ... undress them in your head, darling! That'll have to do!

Oh I'm not making a request, simply expressing thanks for the pics that have already been shared.

Linked when appropriate, of course.

 

[suckonsimon]

Oh I'm not making a request, simply expressing thanks for the pics that have already been shared.

Linked when appropriate, of course.

Thrice shame upon me!

 

[suckonsimon]

Ok another picture. Just to show how the combo-for-er-shapeliness I posted about earlier looks when out shopping.

 

[HighPlainsDrifter]

I've been experimenting. Can we share links here? If not, see Drifters Gallery. I'd like some feedback and/or suggestions. Hope this is an appropriate post

 

[badonkadoku]

I've been experimenting. Can we share links here? If not, see Drifters Gallery. I'd like some feedback and/or suggestions. Hope this is an appropriate post

Maybe some shots with the ring doing what it does best?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Ok another picture. Just to show how the combo-for-er-shapeliness I posted about earlier looks when out shopping.

Handsome as ever!

 

[suckonsimon]

I've been experimenting. Can we share links here? If not, see Drifters Gallery. I'd like some feedback and/or suggestions. Hope this is an appropriate post

Hey Drifter, I like your Gallery!
Explicit is fine on the thread as long as it's a link to your pic hosted elsewhere and not a pic uploaded into Lit. That's my understanding anyway.
Your experiment: A lot going on there! Not really for me to comment as I personally don't like a ring on my shaft only, but - those look a tad tight? If so, was it just for a while, like 20 minutes you had them on? Did you get discomfort? Did you begin to get a bit blue? Did you ejaculate and was that ok through the restriction? Tell us more if you're willing, pal.

 

[suckonsimon]

I happened to be browsing the Gearessentials site and saw this statement on their blog:

"Experience the biggest single impact on your sex life: a Cockring.
Regardless of position, predilections and preferred sexual partners, there's no other single thing that can have as much of an impact on your sexual performance, satisfaction and pleasure than a cock ring."

For me, that is so IT.

 

[HighPlainsDrifter]

Hey Drifter, I like your Gallery!
Explicit is fine on the thread as long as it's a link to your pic hosted elsewhere and not a pic uploaded into Lit. That's my understanding anyway.
Your experiment: A lot going on there! Not really for me to comment as I personally don't like a ring on my shaft only, but - those look a tad tight? If so, was it just for a while, like 20 minutes you had them on? Did you get discomfort? Did you begin to get a bit blue? Did you ejaculate and was that ok through the restriction? Tell us more if you're willing, pal.

Here's a better view of the ring after a shave. https://imgur.com/a/wIvyH I've previously only used a ring on my shaft to help maintain an erection. But the "whole junk" ring was very arousing. Love the sensations. Really made my sac feel heavy and full and I remained semi-erect all the time. So the rings on my shaft in the early pic was just for the pic. During sex, I only wore the shaft ring (stretch blue one) for 20-30 minutes.
The red, less stretchy, "whole junk" ring I've worn off and on for the entire afternoon with very little discomfort.

And with everything slightly swollen, a shower with the hand sprayer on my junk, made me eventually ejaculate with no additional touching. Very nice.

 

[numeniusa]

I happened to be browsing the Gearessentials site and saw this statement on their blog:

"Experience the biggest single impact on your sex life: a Cockring.
Regardless of position, predilections and preferred sexual partners, there's no other single thing that can have as much of an impact on your sexual performance, satisfaction and pleasure than a cock ring."

For me, that is so IT.

I would have to agree, the introduction of a cockring into the sexual life of my man and me is the single biggest step change we've experienced. It looks so incredible, the effect is fantastic for him and for me. It's not always deployed when we fuck, and I like the variety of that, but when it is - wow, just wow...

I would not go back to a pre-steel world, no way.

 

[numeniusa]

Here's a better view of the ring after a shave. https://imgur.com/a/wIvyH I've previously only used a ring on my shaft to help maintain an erection. But the "whole junk" ring was very arousing. Love the sensations. Really made my sac feel heavy and full and I remained semi-erect all the time. So the rings on my shaft in the early pic was just for the pic. During sex, I only wore the shaft ring (stretch blue one) for 20-30 minutes.
The red, less stretchy, "whole junk" ring I've worn off and on for the entire afternoon with very little discomfort.

And with everything slightly swollen, a shower with the hand sprayer on my junk, made me eventually ejaculate with no additional touching. Very nice.

Have you tried steel, HPD? And did your partner like the effects of the rings you've used during sex so far?