He wanted you to stop. It felt good enough he came. Stop over analyzing things. I know if someone keeps going on me it hurts.
Don't think porn is real. Pay attention to what your partner likes. Not what you think he should like.
How should I finish a handjob?
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He wanted you to stop. It felt good enough he came. Stop over analyzing things. I know if someone keeps going on me it hurts.
Don't think porn is real. Pay attention to what your partner likes. Not what you think he should like.
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Something helpful too might be to ask him to jack off while you watch. He knows what "works", so no need to recreate the wheel.
To that I will add that you should never underestimate the power of really good eye contact as it can be helpful for understanding what they are experiencing, and can make it more of an intimate act/connection than him just going through the motions or doing it on his own.
To that I will add that you should never underestimate the power of really good eye contact as it can be helpful for understanding what they are experiencing, and can make it more of an intimate act/connection than him just going through the motions or doing it on his own.
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For me, the answer would be "with either a blow job or full sex". I think there's something a bit ridiculous about hand jobs. It's the only sex act a woman can perform on me that I can actually do just as well, probably better, by myself. Your mileage may vary!
Your mileage may vary is correct. My wife's handjobs are amazing. I can't reproduce that on my own.
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The OP did mention what she had seen in porns as protocol. Porns are about as realistic as cartoons. If you talk to people who've tried filming themselves without benefit of director, choreographer, fluffers, make up, anesthetizing lubes, genital enhancing drugs, recreational drugs to overcome the ultimate stage fright, air brushing artist, and professional editing crew, they will tell you homemade sex is completely different. A big reason the men in porns are desperately jacking their wanks the whole time is that the drugs they use to enhance size negatively impact rigidity. In other words, now it's bigger, but soft.
Porns are good for comic relief and occasionally getting a few new ideas, or perhaps vicariously indulging a particular kink that may be problematic in real life, but they should never be taken seriously in any capacity
Porns are good for comic relief and occasionally getting a few new ideas, or perhaps vicariously indulging a particular kink that may be problematic in real life, but they should never be taken seriously in any capacity
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Now don't be knocking good clean porns.........
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...with a "Ta-Da!" followed by a pirouette and curtsey.
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My boyfriend likes me to keep stroking as he cums. Guys I was with in high school liked that too. I think it's different strokes for different folks (lol) in this regard, how they like their cock treated while they cum. And also where they want to cum - just in your hand, on your tits, in your mouth, on themselves (although most guys don't seem to like coming into contact with their own cum).
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Personally i like her to continue as I cum, but i want her to focus more at the top. Use the cum that's coming out as lube and continue full force. I get really sensitive when I cum and the cum/lube feels amazing. Doing this usually leaves me gripping the bedsheets and screaming at the top of my lungs until my orgasm subsides. 
I can't see wasting cum so gentle sucking taking the cum into my mouth then swallowing is what I do, if I was to give a hand job to begin with. Gently stroking the balls adds to it. Now, if you pull the balls out before orgasm, there's more feeling there because the cum travels further and the guy can feel it.
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perfect!
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Denny
A question with many answers.
As someone mentioned sometimes for me it hurts to keep pumping away. Other times just slow down, squeeze, drain, then repeat. No Ta-Da's needed.
The ultimate handjob from a woman is to aim my cock for her tits and shoot all over them.
Second choice aim at her spread pussy and watch it run down.
When a woman is willing stick it in her mouth and hope she swallows.
Slipping it into her vagina can never be a bad choice either.
Dollie------------ All of the above----^^^^^^^^
A question with many answers.
As someone mentioned sometimes for me it hurts to keep pumping away. Other times just slow down, squeeze, drain, then repeat. No Ta-Da's needed.
The ultimate handjob from a woman is to aim my cock for her tits and shoot all over them.
Second choice aim at her spread pussy and watch it run down.
When a woman is willing stick it in her mouth and hope she swallows.
Slipping it into her vagina can never be a bad choice either.
Dollie------------ All of the above----^^^^^^^^
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When my wife gives me a handjob she will pump me with one hand and, when she feels that I'm close to cumming, grab my balls and pull on them and squeeze them slightly. When she actually sees me start cumming she stops stroking my cock and squeezes my balls harder while I'm shooting. Always makes for a nice, big load.
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You haven't met the right women.
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Depends on a guy. You may be aware that after you cum your clit gets very sensitive for some time? Guys have this too.
Depending on a person, this may be a bearable sensation, or it may be so sensitive that it's actually closer to pain.
There's a fetish called POT, or Post-Orgasm torture. For women it's often called Forced Orgasms. It's a fetish when the stimulation is not stopped at all, and the sensitive clit of cock head is rubbed or vibrated throughout and after orgasm.
That's why he dislikes it.
About the porn you are referring to, there are several reasons.
1) Some people can tolerate light or wet touch. So it's ok to suck the head of the cock gently, or stroke the shaft (just not the head).
2) In porn they are after looks, not sensations. If it looks better, they will roll with it, even if the man feels discomfort. They don't often show his face during the cumshot scene.
it actually feels AMAZING to keep going gently while he's cumming, the orgasm is much more fulfilling and complete that way. Soft light storkes, not too fast, the entire length including the head. And it's not POT - this stuff starts after the orgasm ends. Get your partners to try it.
Just go with what your partner wants. If you want to go kinky, tie him up (or just get him to agree to try it and have him lie on his back with hands underneath him) - and keep going all the way through orgasm. To really give him hell full of pleasure, research palming. THat's devious.
POT is the closest way a man could get to mindshattering full-body female orgasms, and it's quite stupid not to experience that, IMO. WIth a right partner.
I have to chime in here. The head of my cock gets SO sensitive when I cum, I can't stand any touch, whatsoever. If it is inside a pussy, its OK. I never get the chance to cum in my wife's mouth so I don't know about that and if I am working with madam Palm I always move off of the head when the time comes. Pardon the pun. I often use a Tenga egg and with that I have to stop moving it on the head. It really is an instant change regarding the head. It's great until the moment of ejaculation.
If I had my choice I would like to be tied to prevent being able to stop her and have her take my load orally. If it's a hand job only, I like to have her pull down to my body and hold firmly but not too firmly.
If I had my choice I would like to be tied to prevent being able to stop her and have her take my load orally. If it's a hand job only, I like to have her pull down to my body and hold firmly but not too firmly.
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My favorite way to be finished also. My Ex was masterful at it!
Yeah personally definitely nice fast pumping right to the end with no slowing does it for me. It really enhances the orgasm and I believe women like that as well.
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This - and with a smile. I know this isn’t what you were asking about, but making your guy feel like you’ve enjoyed it too (as opposed to just performing a chore) is a Very Good Thing.
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There are two good options: With a surprise blowjob finish or nice and gently where the guy cums on his stomach. Classy is cleaning him up with a warm washcloth. Super cute is kissing him on the forehead while he takes a nap.
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The best way to finish him off is when he is just about at that point of no return when he is rock hard put your mouth on his dick and bury it all the way down your throat just as he is exploding. You will both have a pleasant surprise!
Personally, I continue stroking as I cum, but it isn’t nearly as intense as when you are approaching climax. I do think that is one thing some women don’t realize is that the guy’s penis is super sensitive after he cums. So anything really aggressive might be too much.
I’m sure every guy is a little bit different. It might be beneficial to ask him to masturbate once while you watch. You’ll probably learn more about how he specifically likes it that way, and do your best to emulate that. I don’t think asking what he likes would be a mood kill, it might actually make things hotter.
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I love getting a handjob so much and any way the woman finishes me is fine with me. I do like to shoot my load onto her, anyplace onto her.
