EricForman
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prevent premature ejaculation. Any tips?
Get older. I've found that 30 years of aging does the trick nicely.
prevent premature ejaculation. Any tips?
Two suggestions:
1. As somebody else pointed out, get your first orgasm out of the way before you attempt serious love-making. I've jerked off guys in the shower, or given them blowjobs or hand-jobs, so they can last a bit longer the next time around. Keep it playful and fun, and don't think that the evening's over just because you got off. In my experience, a guy who has climaxed now has a head that's clear enough for him to pay attention to his lover, taking the time to please her orally and manually, and to be sensitive to her needs rather than his.
If, on the other hand, one good ejaculation is all you've got in you, then you might research artificial ways to keep hard enough for extended coitus. There are plenty of threads on that subject already.
2. Be honest with her. Any woman who's been intimate with more than a few men knows that this is not an uncommon problem. Suggest ways that she might alleviate the problem (see above). An occasional premature ejaculation isn't generally a deal-breaker. When it happens to my lover, I just say, "Wow! You really needed that, didn't you? I'm flattered!" and then give him time to re-charge. And then I insist on him pleasing me. After I've climaxed, I really don't care how long he lasts ... thirty seconds or thirty minutes, it's all good.
One more thing ...when this happens with my lovers, it's usually on their first few dates. After that, the problem tends to fade, once we have a bead on each other's expectations and can take each other's rhythms into account. Believe me, the girl who is dismayed if this happens probably isn't the kind of girl who is is patient and understanding enough to take your particular situation into account.