Men: Oral sex tricks?

[nakdraven]

Everyone's different, but for me, hen I'm close, my wife runs her tongue back and forth over my cock head and that always results in a mouthful of cum.

 

[Athalia]

Everyone's different, but for me, hen I'm close, my wife runs her tongue back and forth over my cock head and that always results in a mouthful of cum.

Another zombie thread comes back to life!

Well, it is something we need to know.

My only contribution may have been covered years ago, but I don't have the time to read all the entries. It was that men have told me to pay a lot of attention to the frenum, that part of the penis which is just on the bottom where the ridges of the penis meet. That spot, and the area an inch or so behind it, seem to be more sensitive than the rest.

So now you know.

 

[gtnlynn]

The best oral sex that my wife has given me has been when I didn't expect it. For instance, I was watching TV before bedtime, and she came in, knelt in front of me, pulled out my cock, and went to work on it. That led to some great sex on the couch.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Guys...

I'm curious...I want to do everything I can to make oral sex the best it can possibly be for my man. So...

What are some little tricks that women have used when they gave you oral, tricks that absolutely drove you through the ceiling?

Give all of us ladies pointers!

S.

Altoids,

Cocaine, (snow job)

I once experienced a blow job by a little oriental girl in a whore house down Louisville KY, when I was in the Army, she incorporated a straight razor into her theatrics and blowjob that was almost TOO FUCKING MUCH to endure. If I would had more sense, I woulda left that joint right then with her in tow.

 

[Buscando]

Gag's a drag

When it comes to suppressing the gag reflex, you may find, as many apparently have, that this is just one more way in which pot will enhance the whole experience.

It seems to help quite a bit with suppressing that reflex, and of course, since all the senses are so magnified, and sex is all about the senses, you'll find your whole sexual adventure to be far more enjoyable; especially your orgasms, which will be so much more powerful and long-lasting.

Lady Sativa loves you and wants you to be happy!

 

[Rstephens32301]

For me I do not like it when a woman yanks on me or has too tight of a grip. The hand is supposed to glide over the skin, not try and separate the cock from the body. I’m aware that it kinda looks like we are pulling it right off when we jerk it, but we’re not. I know this is about BJs, but hand work along with a BJ is pretty important, IMHO. A woman who pumps the cock into her mouth is FANTASTIC, if she has good hand technique. But above all the thing that gets me most excited about a BJ is when the woman is SUPER DUPER excited to do it. Like she is just living to suck this cock! Hard to explain what that means as it is more of an attitude than a particular movement or technique. Please don’t fake orgasms, but feel free to fake BJ enthusiasm.

Oh and plenty of saliva

 

[PapaDan]

Guys...

I'm curious...I want to do everything I can to make oral sex the best it can possibly be for my man. So...

What are some little tricks that women have used when they gave you oral, tricks that absolutely drove you through the ceiling?

Give all of us ladies pointers!

S.

Simple: Keep him on edge for as longs you can. The longer you edge, the more his cum builds up, and the harder he cums, the more intense his orgasm.

 

[DirtyOldMan64]

Agreeing with an earlier post regarding hot tea instead of cold, cold, cold.

I've used alternating ice cube and hot tea while going down on a woman. Always got a wonderful, sometimes quite explosive, reaction from the changes in extremes.

 

[jackstud]

For me I do not like it when a woman yanks on me or has too tight of a grip. The hand is supposed to glide over the skin, not try and separate the cock from the body. I’m aware that it kinda looks like we are pulling it right off when we jerk it, but we’re not. I know this is about BJs, but hand work along with a BJ is pretty important, IMHO. A woman who pumps the cock into her mouth is FANTASTIC, if she has good hand technique. But above all the thing that gets me most excited about a BJ is when the woman is SUPER DUPER excited to do it. Like she is just living to suck this cock! Hard to explain what that means as it is more of an attitude than a particular movement or technique. Please don’t fake orgasms, but feel free to fake BJ enthusiasm.

Oh and plenty of saliva

Yes some good advice

 

[N2outdoors]

Just enjoy doing it...that will ne enough. And ask her what she wants while your down there.

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[LAHomedog]

A lot of women think putting a cock in their mouth and rubbing the shaft is a blow job. Not really.

A good blow job involves your lips, your tongue, your mouth, saliva, hand, fingers, nails, and they all need to be in supporting of loving the guy's cock and loving to give him a blow job.

And don't forget the ridge of the head with your lips both going up and down.

 

[saysame]

The best answer is that there is no correct answer. Different guys are, (*gasp*) different! This thread can give you a variety of things to try, but don't depend on finding a single weird trick that always works. There isn't one.

Start by asking him what works for him and what doesn't. Look for tips that he doesn't mention and try those and the things he knows he likes. Pay attention to how he reacts. Not just once, but in different situations. For example, some people really like the danger of almost getting caught. Some will wilt at the possibility. Some get it if the risk is mild enough, but present.

Also keep in mind how much of each trick works for him. I'm a big fan of strong suction, but there can be too much, for example.

If you want to get that extra suction, my tip on sucking the most is to get as deep on his cock as you comfortably can. Close your lips airtight. Hold your breath at about half full. Try to breath in without letting air in. Move your mouth up and down while staying airtight. If he doesn't finish, take a breathing break and fill in with something else he likes; licking, ball rubbing, jerking, etc. before trying again. Or you could make the strong suction and try to maintain it as well as you can with just your mouth. See what works best for y'all.

Normal sucking is just pulling your tongue back. That increases the space for the air in your mouth, reducing the pressure. Your lungs are MUCH bigger than your tongue, so you can get a lot more sucktion. At least until you need to breathe. You might be able to build the suction with your lungs and then seal your throat and maintain most of the suction in your mouth.

*WARNING* This tip can be a problem if you are not careful! If you wait until he is about to blow, you could send him over the edge and end up trying to breath come, and that is not healthy! Start when he has at least a little time left, and just keep aware of how close he is.

 

[BellaBestia]

Two words: flavoured lube

This may only apply to a smallish group but at my age I happen to take a medication that dries my mouth and I don’t produce as much saliva these days required for those delightfully sloppy blowjobs. Also have come across men who don’t themselves produce very much precum to help lubricate things. Nothing worse than a dry bj. And the flavoured lube also helps with the taste of your partner’s spunk if he’s not drinking enough water or eating enough fruit to combat the alkalinity.

 

[magic_rat]

Just enjoy it. Enthusiasm is hot as fuck.

Do what's comfortable. If it feels good to go deep, fine. If you don't like the gagging feeling (I don't) then don't. You have to enjoy it as much as your guy does. Never let it become an ordeal.

And learn with your partner. There are things he likes that some don't, and vice versa. Explore. Talk. Share.

All the little tricks.. yeah, ok, can be fun but reduce the spontenaety. At the end of the day, the guy has his cock in your mouth and he's going to be happy.

 

[magic_rat]

The best answer is that there is no correct answer. Different guys are, (*gasp*) different! This thread can give you a variety of things to try, but don't depend on finding a single weird trick that always works. There isn't one.

Best advice.