I was wordering and hoping if any gentlemen or ladies could give me feedback on this topic. My partner and I have been together a little over six months (though we've known eachother quite a while) and we are both very much in love. The problem is, however, that he is 57 with stage 3 kidney disease and we haven't been able to have intercourse yet due to his inability to keep an erection once a condom goes on. I beleve that while the condom is part of the issue, there is possibly the kidney health at play too. He gets very aroused and maintains an erection and climaxes from oral so I know that he can indeed get hard. I had to go off my birth control pills for several reasons so unfortunately, we need that condom on.
He has considered getting a vastecomy done if it is just the condom creating the issue but with the kidney disease and prostate enlargement he had in the past (had a TURP procedure too), I can't help but feel that there is more medically stopping the erection. His health is much more important to me than anything but if there were safe methods to assist the situation, I'd certainly want them explored. I've read that pumps can be good options. Of course, he will also talk to his doctor.
Has anyone else had this issue and if so, what worked? Again, his health is top priority and foreplay is great but we'd both prefer the best lovemaking possible.
He has considered getting a vastecomy done if it is just the condom creating the issue but with the kidney disease and prostate enlargement he had in the past (had a TURP procedure too), I can't help but feel that there is more medically stopping the erection. His health is much more important to me than anything but if there were safe methods to assist the situation, I'd certainly want them explored. I've read that pumps can be good options. Of course, he will also talk to his doctor.
Has anyone else had this issue and if so, what worked? Again, his health is top priority and foreplay is great but we'd both prefer the best lovemaking possible.