BBW's and Lovers…are you one?

[blackhillsbbw]

BBW's and Lovers of BBW…

When did you decide you loved or preferred plus size gals?
Are you in the closet still with that preference or desire or are you out with it?

Personally, until about 15 years ago when I got online, I had no idea men (or women) loved big gals. NO freaking idea! Boy was I shocked when I discovered it and my friends worked really hard to convince me that I had something they loved.

Media, Hollywood constantly do a number on us. Any other big girls out there can relate to this? Any men out there want to share your first experience deciding that you loved women with curves?

I'd love to hear…
Dani

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Oh funny, i changed the topic of this and it's listed as the previous topic. This place is so weird, sorry to say. I'll have to ask them to delete this I guess.

 

[coacheric]

I've always been attracted to women that do not fit the standard of beauty in media. I like a woman with curves, hips....a shape.

 

[Vantyler]

There is nothing more sexy than a full figured woman confident in sexual activity, not worrying about her flaws and imperfections. We all have them, who cares?

 

[Vantyler]

blackhillsbbw - Nice pic!

 

[Aconitum19]

There is nothing more sexy than a full figured woman confident in sexual activity, not worrying about her flaws and imperfections. We all have them, who cares?

So you presume that being fuller figured means a woman is flawed or worrying about her appearance?
Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

 

[Vantyler]

So you presume that being fuller figured means a woman is flawed or worrying about her appearance?
Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Not at all. That's just been my experience. What I'm saying is every woman is beautiful in her own way and just because she is different doesn't mean she isn't attractive.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I've always been attracted to women that do not fit the standard of beauty in media. I like a woman with curves, hips....a shape.

Thx for sharing! Some guys knew in middle school, some later in life. Some not until after they married some one thin. I am always curious about things, do stories interest me.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

There is nothing more sexy than a full figured woman confident in sexual activity, not worrying about her flaws and imperfections. We all have them, who cares?

Gawd I love that way of thinking. My mom too did a number in me growing up; criticizing heavy set women. I think that's why it does matter to me. It's hard to get over. I'm not 100% over it yet.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

blackhillsbbw - Nice pic!

Btw, thanks!!

 

[coacheric]

Thx for sharing! Some guys knew in middle school, some later in life. Some not until after they married some one thin. I am always curious about things, do stories interest me.

Every woman I've ever dated has been a bit larger than what is presented as the normal models. I never looked at it as anything out of the ordinary or me being a BBW lover until I was older and surfing porn on the net. It was here, on-line, that I really saw that what excited me normally required that I had to add a search to find the right stuff.

 

[Vantyler]

Gawd I love that way of thinking. My mom too did a number in me growing up; criticizing heavy set women. I think that's why it does matter to me. It's hard to get over. I'm not 100% over it yet.

To me, what makes sex erotic is both fully engaged in passionate sex. Neither one worrying about what the other is thinking. You can get so caught up and distracted by that. Just enjoy what is happening and make the most of it make is a memory Make it HOT

 

[blackhillsbbw]

So you presume that being fuller figured means a woman is flawed or worrying about her appearance?
Grrrrrrrrrrrrr

Yes! Lol I've not heard it put that way. But why wouldn't I? Cracks about fat people; jokes, tv sitcoms, guys in school (I never was bullied for weight but for heighth).

When I first got online there was very few BB W groups. Over the last 15 years they've grown immensely. Is that because guys have come out of the closet?

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I'll write more here in a bit when I can get on pc, and not phone. I appreciate you all sharing. I love discussions. So I'll definitely reply.

 

[stu_gats_2000]

BBW's and Lovers of BBW…

When did you decide you loved or preferred plus size gals?
Are you in the closet still with that preference or desire or are you out with it?

Personally, until about 15 years ago when I got online, I had no idea men (or women) loved big gals. NO freaking idea! Boy was I shocked when I discovered it and my friends worked really hard to convince me that I had something they loved.

Media, Hollywood constantly do a number on us. Any other big girls out there can relate to this? Any men out there want to share your first experience deciding that you loved women with curves?

I'd love to hear…
Dani

curves are preferred of the flats

 

[blackhillsbbw]

To me, what makes sex erotic is both fully engaged in passionate sex. Neither one worrying about what the other is thinking. You can get so caught up and distracted by that. Just enjoy what is happening and make the most of it make is a memory Make it HOT

True, but I don't have a problem when I finally get into the bedroom with a friend or lover. Then there is no doubt that he wants to be with me. I am ready for everything that comes (literally cums, ) and simply say bring it. I love sex and I'm very confident once I know the man knows what he's getting. I think want and am insatiable.

I have been at this for 15 years. I've had guy friends that have stuck with me for 10 of those years working to convince me that I am desired, wanted and lusted after. I never assume it, i still don't. I am not one of those that think she's owed it or assume she's got it. Make sense?

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Every woman I've ever dated has been a bit larger than what is presented as the normal models. I never looked at it as anything out of the ordinary or me being a BBW lover until I was older and surfing porn on the net. It was here, on-line, that I really saw that what excited me normally required that I had to add a search to find the right stuff.

A 'bit'? I'm beyond a 'bit'. lol But i'm kidd'in ya…I find it interesting when guys discovered it. I spent nearly my entire life not having a clue, so you can imagine why this topic is very interesting to me. Thanks for adding your two cents!

 

[blackhillsbbw]

curves are preferred of the flats

That's always good to hear…
There are curves and then there are CURVES.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I've always been attracted to women that do not fit the standard of beauty in media. I like a woman with curves, hips....a shape.

I think in many ways that women have been sold a 'bill of goods' concerning men's likes and dislikes. Media does play a huge role in our lives though and I've had it shoved in my face since the 60's when Twiggy burst on the scene. But, what I am wondering and really think could be true is that 'women' buy into all that stuff (media), and really it seems apparent that men did not. But maybe that's cuz men were not the target of what they deemed as sexy or desirable.

In any event it influenced me and I am grateful for men friends online who really tried to help me 'see.' They succeeded in helping my exhibitionist side come to the surface!

 

[mightymax6133]

I love a bigger woman something so very sexy about them! In the words of Queen! "Fat bottom girls make the rocking world go round!" x

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I just like to visit about this stuff...

I love a bigger woman something so very sexy about them! In the words of Queen! "Fat bottom girls make the rocking world go round!" x

I like that song. I like the song (i'm sure many men do not) like the song of Mika…'Big Girls, You are Beautiful."

Then tell me…why do most men go after the skinny ones. Jocks, celebrities, high school guys….it's all about skinny. There was a time here when there were NOt so many men 'out of the closet' for loving BBW AND ADMITTING it. I think if men just came on line in the last 8years or so, they would think that men have always been open about BBW, but that is NOT the case. It's evolved here. But with that said, THANK GOODNESS for you guys that desire us…cuz seriously, I could have gone through life not having a clue!!! Seriously. I think of all the other BBW's out there that don't have one either!

 

[blackhillsbbw]

Thanks for talking about it...

bbw's to me are all beautiful i feel like they embody perfection. they are a million times sexier as well

REALLY? HMmmm, i just keep waiting for the day when that 'light' goes on and I finally understand. lol

I'm kind of an anomaly…cuz i feel sexy, i love showing men what they desire, and yet I struggle with seeing myself through men's eyes.

 

[SexyHeavyLady]

I am a BBW or a SSBBW at 420 pounds. I have a complicated history with my size suffice to say I get off on being degraded about it.
Its that doesn't mean I am not happy with it its just things in my past happened and its now a vital part of my sexuality.

And much to my surprise I have found no end of sexual partners that want or need a fatty to fuck.

 

[blackhillsbbw]

I am a BBW or a SSBBW at 420 pounds. I have a complicated history with my size suffice to say I get off on being degraded about it.
Its that doesn't mean I am not happy with it its just things in my past happened and its now a vital part of my sexuality.

And much to my surprise I have found no end of sexual partners that want or need a fatty to fuck.

Wow! What a genuine note you've shared here! So real...thank you. I've since learned that there are gobs of men that love to have sex with me. And you don't mind humiliation? See I could not have sex tho with one that would not love my body. Can I ask was that the norm (humiliation) growing up? So it's what you were use to? Don't answer these if I'm getting too personal. Are you a Feedee?

I live with a husband that doesn't care for my size. I can walk naked in front of him and it does nothing for him. But he also doesn't care for sex, and it has nothing to do with me. But I know in our marriage he LOVED the Sports Illustrated Swim Suit edition. I find those thin gals so attractive and always wanted to be like them, myself. Maybe coveting their bodies makes it hard to accept mine.

I recently saw a full on nude of a big girl with her hand pulling here belly up. I cannot feel sexy doing that. I only wish...

Thx SO much for sharing!

 

[SexyHeavyLady]

Something happened to me while on holiday when I was 19 one day and after feeling helpless and guilty the next day I went back for more and up until then I was very shy and mainly ignored by the world so this was the first attention a man had ever shown me. That's when the kink started for me.