Phone sex advice

So I've had a few people ask me if I've ever tried it (I haven't) and if I'd like to try it with them. Tbh, it kind of intimidates me. I've done some webcam stuff, exchanged pics/vids, messenger etc but I've never been with someone on the phone while masturbating (well, at least without the other one knowing...can I get a shout out to secretly masturbating while on the phone? ;))

The idea of listening to someone telling me what they want to do to my body (and vice versa) is such a complete turn on tho. Any tips or advice? I'd be ever so grateful. 😊:kiss:

Yes. I'd gladly offer my services...:devil::kiss:
 
So I've had a few people ask me if I've ever tried it (I haven't) and if I'd like to try it with them. Tbh, it kind of intimidates me. I've done some webcam stuff, exchanged pics/vids, messenger etc but I've never been with someone on the phone while masturbating (well, at least without the other one knowing...can I get a shout out to secretly masturbating while on the phone? ;))

The idea of listening to someone telling me what they want to do to my body (and vice versa) is such a complete turn on tho. Any tips or advice? I'd be ever so grateful. 😊:kiss:


Skype is great for both voice and video chats
 
So I've had a few people ask me if I've ever tried it (I haven't) and if I'd like to try it with them. Tbh, it kind of intimidates me. I've done some webcam stuff, exchanged pics/vids, messenger etc but I've never been with someone on the phone while masturbating (well, at least without the other one knowing...can I get a shout out to secretly masturbating while on the phone? ;))

The idea of listening to someone telling me what they want to do to my body (and vice versa) is such a complete turn on tho. Any tips or advice? I'd be ever so grateful. 😊:kiss:

I think you know more than enough to go by. As for everything it just takes picking the right person at the right time
 
So I've had a few people ask me if I've ever tried it (I haven't) and if I'd like to try it with them. Tbh, it kind of intimidates me. I've done some webcam stuff, exchanged pics/vids, messenger etc but I've never been with someone on the phone while masturbating (well, at least without the other one knowing...can I get a shout out to secretly masturbating while on the phone? ;))

The idea of listening to someone telling me what they want to do to my body (and vice versa) is such a complete turn on tho. Any tips or advice? I'd be ever so grateful. 😊:kiss:

Personally have never tried video chat(id like to)... but, phone sex can be very satisfying with the right person. Especially after chatting for awhile. That way you get to knoe their biggest turn ons/offs.
 
Be careful...

Someone you don't know having your phone number can lead to trouble. Been there...
 
Phone sex can be incredible if the person that you are speaking with has good chemistry with you. If you have good chemistry then it tends to be rather a natural when it happens you just kind of go with what you're saying and what you're thinking and what you're feeling the more you are vocal about those things the easier it is. If you find the right partner amazing

If you want to be a little cautious and careful with the phone sex and don't want to give out your phone number then have them give you their phone number and call them with your number blocked that way it shows up as a private number and it's a little more discreet
 
And there's the crux of it...don't want to ever be there.

From what I've gathered so far, it has to be with someone ur attracted to, (duh I know, but needs to be said) comfortable with, and able to trust...not a particularly easy combination to find

Being careful with blocking your number helps make it easier to find someone. If you don't "click" it is not the end of the world. If you do then. Wahooo. Just make sure you're feeling the big and if it is right it will feel natural.
 
Thank you for sharing! So many people have told me how good it is (with the right person) It makes me really excited (and more than a little wet) to try it. :)

And thanks for the cautionary tip as well. There's a thrill of being caught...but i don't actually want to. ;)

If it helps you are more than welcome to pick my brain about it. I have had a couple of long term phone sex partners over the years
 
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I'd say try it, or at least talk and listen. If the feeling overcomes you by all means join in.
 
And there's the crux of it...don't want to ever be there.

From what I've gathered so far, it has to be with someone ur attracted to, (duh I know, but needs to be said) comfortable with, and able to trust...not a particularly easy combination to find

Yes, all that and someone you can make that special connection with. It's awesome when you both can see the same mental imagery, at the same instant.
 
Many years ago I hadda phone sex performer call me at the hospital. She was depressed and spoke to me for 30 minutes or so. At the end of it she told me she felt much better, and wanted to know who paid for our phone service.

I said, YOU DO.

She asked, HOW MUCH DOES IT COST!

I said, $3.99 A MINUTE.

She got pissed and hung up.
 
Thank you for sharing! So many people have told me how good it is (with the right person) It makes me really excited (and more than a little wet) to try it. :)

And thanks for the cautionary tip as well. There's a thrill of being caught...but i don't actually want to. ;)

I've had a several phone sex partners over the years and it really has been great. In fact, there is one that I've had since 1998 and we still enjoy it to this day! We have a very good arrangement whereby she will never call me without first confirming via email that it's OK to do so, and I do the same. I travel a lot so she often calls me at my hotel room (however the same thing about email confirmation applies).

In addition, phone sex isn't always just sex. There have been countless times when we have just talked, or she has had orgasms while I listened and vice versa. We've also done role play at times but that isn't a frequent occurrence. It's more about enjoying each others company while sharing something very sexy.

Feel free to IM me if you would like to talk further about it. In any case, good luck and enjoy the adventure!
 
I think you need to find the right person, or type of person. Like a lot of relationships, the chemistry has to be there first. In my experience, we talked for a while about a variety of things before getting to the subject of sex and what to do next. It might have even been a few phone calls.

Then we started down the path with "What are you wearing now" from there the questions got more sexual and the chemistry started working.

Unless you really like to be directed, if they are telling you to put your hands in your pants right away, they are probably not looking out for your pleasure, only theirs.

So I've had a few people ask me if I've ever tried it (I haven't) and if I'd like to try it with them. Tbh, it kind of intimidates me. I've done some webcam stuff, exchanged pics/vids, messenger etc but I've never been with someone on the phone while masturbating (well, at least without the other one knowing...can I get a shout out to secretly masturbating while on the phone? ;))

The idea of listening to someone telling me what they want to do to my body (and vice versa) is such a complete turn on tho. Any tips or advice? I'd be ever so grateful. 😊:kiss:
 
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