Brave Maximus
Returned White Knight
- Joined
- Jan 16, 2004
- Posts
- 8,188
Hi,
I'm going to try this again - and see if a different approach works.
Here are the non-negotiables:
Female
Either a true sub, LG, or some variation. Do not try and top from the bottom, it's irritating and I don't have patience for it. If that's what you want, move along... not being mean, I just don't want to waste our time. In the same vein, calling yourself a "brat" while either just being unpleasent or disagreeable, while trying to top from the bottom, isn't what I'm after either. You'll be happier with someone else.
Good with communication, but also understand life happens and can deal with it, or be honest that things aren't work and can... communicate!
Must be willing to voice, video, send pics, etc. I will do the same. Honestly I do not want a purely textual relationship. I'm not expecting this moment one, but in the relative near future. If you're not ok with that, don't want to, etc - PERFECTLY FINE - but it's not what I'm looking for, so let's not waste each others time. I am so tired of pulling teeth to just talk.
Sexual - I do not want everything to be sexual, I don't want a fuck and duck situation, that's what porn's for. At the same time, this is an erotic site, and I do like fooling around. So, if you don't want to be sexual on a regular basis, or you don't want to do anything other than fuck - not the right place. Balance is key and nice.
Ability to hold a conversation - I don't expect you to be an expert on clovis culture lithics... but I hate sitting in silence and getting one word responses. Talk to me about politics or comic books or anime or movies or video games or WWI trench tactics.
We will talk about limits, fantasies, safe words, consent, and permission before diving into stuff.
Everything else:
I provide structure, support and fun.
I like setting rules and guidelines
I enjoy controling aspects such as clothing, when you get to play, making sure you eat/take care of yourself, etc.
I believe in respect, consent, and talking about things before diving in. If you find this tedious - not the right place. A Dom that doesn't care can hurt you badly physically and mentally and I'm not into that.
What I'm looking for:
Female. Ok with all the above things. Enjoys kink and bdsm. Not afraid
Flexible looking:
Someone younger, Asian or Desi on preference, and... that's about it.
But honestly, age and race aren't a bit thing - the connection with a person is important.
What you get:
6'10", decent shape bear of a man. Yes, I can pick you up, probably one armed. I care. That usually gets me in trouble. Wicked sense of humor. Loves to have fun and travel. I'm really looking for someone to drag along with me at some point.
Academic - so if that scares you off, sorry. But it also plays into Daddy/Professor issues.
Anyway, for the maybe one person this didn't scare off, say hi. Let's talk
I'm going to try this again - and see if a different approach works.
Here are the non-negotiables:
Female
Either a true sub, LG, or some variation. Do not try and top from the bottom, it's irritating and I don't have patience for it. If that's what you want, move along... not being mean, I just don't want to waste our time. In the same vein, calling yourself a "brat" while either just being unpleasent or disagreeable, while trying to top from the bottom, isn't what I'm after either. You'll be happier with someone else.
Good with communication, but also understand life happens and can deal with it, or be honest that things aren't work and can... communicate!
Must be willing to voice, video, send pics, etc. I will do the same. Honestly I do not want a purely textual relationship. I'm not expecting this moment one, but in the relative near future. If you're not ok with that, don't want to, etc - PERFECTLY FINE - but it's not what I'm looking for, so let's not waste each others time. I am so tired of pulling teeth to just talk.
Sexual - I do not want everything to be sexual, I don't want a fuck and duck situation, that's what porn's for. At the same time, this is an erotic site, and I do like fooling around. So, if you don't want to be sexual on a regular basis, or you don't want to do anything other than fuck - not the right place. Balance is key and nice.
Ability to hold a conversation - I don't expect you to be an expert on clovis culture lithics... but I hate sitting in silence and getting one word responses. Talk to me about politics or comic books or anime or movies or video games or WWI trench tactics.
We will talk about limits, fantasies, safe words, consent, and permission before diving into stuff.
Everything else:
I provide structure, support and fun.
I like setting rules and guidelines
I enjoy controling aspects such as clothing, when you get to play, making sure you eat/take care of yourself, etc.
I believe in respect, consent, and talking about things before diving in. If you find this tedious - not the right place. A Dom that doesn't care can hurt you badly physically and mentally and I'm not into that.
What I'm looking for:
Female. Ok with all the above things. Enjoys kink and bdsm. Not afraid
Flexible looking:
Someone younger, Asian or Desi on preference, and... that's about it.
But honestly, age and race aren't a bit thing - the connection with a person is important.
What you get:
6'10", decent shape bear of a man. Yes, I can pick you up, probably one armed. I care. That usually gets me in trouble. Wicked sense of humor. Loves to have fun and travel. I'm really looking for someone to drag along with me at some point.
Academic - so if that scares you off, sorry. But it also plays into Daddy/Professor issues.
Anyway, for the maybe one person this didn't scare off, say hi. Let's talk
