I'm a married 45m. My wife is 32. We have a great relationship, but she has decided she wants something that I'm both wanting and not wanting to give her.
Little background: She grew up in foster care and had every horror associated with that to boot. I did not.
Or marriage is great other than the occasional bump, which happens in all marriages. There is no cheating on either end. We both have full access to the others phone and location at all times. However, she has told me that she although she couldn't watch me with another woman, she wants me to have a younger woman and to show her pics and vids. I haven't asked where this came from, but it's popped up a few times. I don't want to know, honestly.
The few questions I've asked have gotten me vague answers, legal age, doesn't want to know until I come home and show her the proof, etc.. I've asked why and just get that she doesn't know.
So, I need to understand this. Maybe she needs counseling, more than what she gets currently, maybe I just need to look for a younger woman, I don't know. Any insight? Any younger women then 32 in the STL area? I don't want to cheat, but I guess this isn't cheating. I'm really not sure what to do. HELP!
Little background: She grew up in foster care and had every horror associated with that to boot. I did not.
Or marriage is great other than the occasional bump, which happens in all marriages. There is no cheating on either end. We both have full access to the others phone and location at all times. However, she has told me that she although she couldn't watch me with another woman, she wants me to have a younger woman and to show her pics and vids. I haven't asked where this came from, but it's popped up a few times. I don't want to know, honestly.
The few questions I've asked have gotten me vague answers, legal age, doesn't want to know until I come home and show her the proof, etc.. I've asked why and just get that she doesn't know.
So, I need to understand this. Maybe she needs counseling, more than what she gets currently, maybe I just need to look for a younger woman, I don't know. Any insight? Any younger women then 32 in the STL area? I don't want to cheat, but I guess this isn't cheating. I'm really not sure what to do. HELP!
