Anyone switch after his orgasm?

[DrHappy]

I accidentally posted this topic in the Fetish & Sexuality Central section, so I hope that no one minds that I'm reposting here in the BDSM section where it probably belongs.

Does anyone here let the man play the dom during the beginning of a sexual encounter, but you switch as soon as he cums? I had so much fun writing "Playful Power Play," which is about a couple that does this. The story starts with him in charge, and he has a good time having her fulfilling his sexual whims. As soon as he cums, however, it's payback time, and she has her way with him. They are a very playful couple, and it's obvious from the story line that they are both having a good time.

I've done some bits and pieces of this story in my life, but not quite like the fantasy encounter in the story. I can be pretty aggressive before my orgasm, but I tend to turn zombie-like as soon as I cum. That seemed like it would be a good time to make the D/S switch. It would seem harder for the man to become the dom AFTER his orgasm. Maybe that could be a challenge for a sequel story.

I thought that I'd ask around to see if anyone else has done anything like this. It could be something you've done or would like to do. What new ideas do you have to share?

 

[masterslave00]

I've read the story and liked it. I could easily imagine myself in Alex's role and actually had similar experience, although not with my own wife, but with my lady FWB. And it went much further than that in other sessions...

Just to be clear, we are both switches and often play one sub, one dom for the whole session, but yes, from time to time we swap during the session.

 

[DrHappy]

... from time to time we swap during the session.

Did you have a trigger event for the switch? Which of you started off dom?

 

[masterslave00]

Did you have a trigger event for the switch? Which of you started off dom?

No, not really trigger... It just came like that... Sort of naturally... And it did happen in both situations when I started in the dominant role and when she started in a dominant role.

We usually agree on the type of play before we meet (we have regular times), but when we meet unexpectedly (from time to time we have some extra opportunity) we just go with the flow. Can be anything from vanilla to pegging or golden showers...

 

[emme8]

I have the fantasy. I'm in charge and I edge him up to the brink of his orgasm. Then he over powers me, escapes my control and tops me.

 

[masterslave00]

I have the fantasy. I'm in charge and I edge him up to the brink of his orgasm. Then he over powers me, escapes my control and tops me.

That's one of the scenarios where my FWB went bit too far dominating me and I took over to pay her back for that...

 

[emme8]

That's one of the scenarios where my FWB went bit too far dominating me and I took over to pay her back for that...

In a good way payback?
What happened?

 

[masterslave00]

In a good way payback?
What happened?

In a good way - she got edged and after while released to a multiple O.

 

[Dearelliot]

I find myself sometimes switching ...I like to rub my cock and testicles in her face, apparently, I enjoy the degrading aspect, receiving and giving. I have a pro dom who abuses me but I ask her to lick my balls also, Since she is being paid...we agree.

 

[lowcollar]

I am submissive. After I cum, while there is a letdown, I am still more than willing to perform oral, continue being pegged or anything else my Mistress may want or better, demand.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I accidentally posted this topic in the Fetish & Sexuality Central section, so I hope that no one minds that I'm reposting here in the BDSM section where it probably belongs.

Does anyone here let the man play the dom during the beginning of a sexual encounter, but you switch as soon as he cums? I had so much fun writing "Playful Power Play," which is about a couple that does this. The story starts with him in charge, and he has a good time having her fulfilling his sexual whims. As soon as he cums, however, it's payback time, and she has her way with him. They are a very playful couple, and it's obvious from the story line that they are both having a good time.

I've done some bits and pieces of this story in my life, but not quite like the fantasy encounter in the story. I can be pretty aggressive before my orgasm, but I tend to turn zombie-like as soon as I cum. That seemed like it would be a good time to make the D/S switch. It would seem harder for the man to become the dom AFTER his orgasm. Maybe that could be a challenge for a sequel story.

I thought that I'd ask around to see if anyone else has done anything like this. It could be something you've done or would like to do. What new ideas do you have to share?

This could be interesting.

I only want a trans Domme or switch, before and after my cummies or when my orgasms are ruined or denied. Including for aftercare.

I very much want to give my Dom/me submissive aftercare though. They need to be taken care of too.

 

[Ash999]

Doc,
Since I am not allowed to cum [ I only get ruined orgasms by having Sterilized, Sounding , Stainless Steel rod inserted by Her Majesty : MistressWife into my puny ' toxic, , entitled, MCPig Coq and then squeezing mine Kegels round the Steel neck , much like a Pussy squeezes Coq....precum dribbles/ leaks out , is collected and I am made/ ordered, sneeringly , to slurp it all up like the lowly male slaveboyhubby, I am] I do not switch after R.O. But I do get to cane Her Majesty' s Queenly glutes when She has to perform Penace/ Prayashchityo-ful Tribute to Hindu Goddess MahaKali whom we both worship....so yes , technically i do switch but No , not after orgasm or Ruined Orgasm, no!!!?