Best positions for clitoral stimulation?

[CrazyIrishman]

Ok, I've been a lurker for a while, now that I actually have a sex life, I have a reason to post. My question is this: What are the best sex positions for clitoral stimulation? My girlfriend needs a fair amount of clit stimulation to orgasm, as I have been told most women need. I read posts that talk about quickies and women getting off in just a few minutes from sex. What suggestions do you all have for this?
My girlfriend and I have a great sex life, but I've wanted to give her an orgasm in missionary, which is her favorite. So far the only way I have been able to give her an orgasm during sex is with her stradling me while I stroke her clit. Now as great as this is, it gets old after a while. Sometimes I go down on her as soon as I orgasm, other times we switch to her on top when she wants to come and then I pound her after...but as I said before, I want to be able to give her orgasms in multiple positions. I've tried reaching around during doggy style but it's rather akward leaning forward while on my knees, due to a slightly bad back(car accident). But I babble on. Any suggestions/tips/experiences will be appreciated

 

[Mrcanada]

My GF requires clit stim as well... she never comes from a quicky so we have a couple of great positions for clit stim... the first one is when I am on my side and my gf lies on her back.. I enter her on my side and then I can pound away while either her or I play with her clit...its great watching here play with her clit while I am pounding her... another one we use is she lies on her back and I am on my knees.. I enter her and then she can play with her clit or I can.. its great to watch again.. and the last one we use... is she lies on her stomach and I enter her from behind and then slid my hand under her body untill I reach the clit and then play with it...that one feels amazing but it takes losts of endurance...


enjoy.. and if you need more of a discription on how to do either of them just post here again I will check...

MRcanada

 

[hornyuk]

the problem with this is all women are different and like different things,the girl i'm with at the moment can cum with me on top if i just suck her tits,also what feels good for you does not always work for them.

 

[SweetErika]

Maybe you could try using a vibrator during sex? If you get a small or slim one, she could slip it between the two of you during missionary and use it on herself during doggy (not to mention all of the other positions). It might be worth a try.
Good luck!

 

[CrazyIrishman]

Thanks all, I especially like the idea with her on her stomach and sliding my hand under. I need to talk to her about whether or not she feels comfortable bringing toys into bed, haven't breached that wall as of yet.

 

[SweetErika]

Thanks all, I especially like the idea with her on her stomach and sliding my hand under. I need to talk to her about whether or not she feels comfortable bringing toys into bed, haven't breached that wall as of yet.

In my personal experience, I had to work up the courage to talk about the toys issue...I was afraid he'd feel threatened or like he wasn't satisfying me enough (of course this wasn't the case). I'm guessing a lot of women feel this way, and if you bring it up with her, she'll love the idea! Tell her you want to give her as much pleasure as possible and you think it'd be a lot of fun to experiment with a vibrator or something. You can then ask if she'd like to go shopping together or if she'd like it if you suprised her.

 

[wildwesty]

toys and guys

I am a guy and I love using her vibrator on her. My girlfriend really enjoys the toys more if I use them on her because she is free to enjoy the feelings. But yes, SweetErika is right, a lot of men feel inadequate compared to a toy, and to be really honest they are. No penis I don't care how great it is used can ever hit 2 places at once. No chance in hell that the clit is going to be pleasured with the penis while the g spot gets hit. So, we have a lot against us however, I believe that the real thing is better.

 

[ReadyOne]

Try her on her back, you inside missionary style. Now have her bring her legs together and you move from inside them to straddle across them.

Her thighs will now put pressure on your penis (like an extended vagina) and press your penis into her clit.

Think about her humping a pillow or stair bannister, and then replace it with your cock. The stimulation she can give herself by pressing your dick against her pussy is intense.

Move youself up and forward so you are doing some "up and down" thrusting as will as "in and out". This will get the shaft of your cock fully against the inside of her pussy lips from clit to vagina.

 

[assister49]

Maybe you could try using a vibrator during sex? If you get a small or slim one, she could slip it between the two of you during missionary and use it on herself during doggy (not to mention all of the other positions). It might be worth a try.
Good luck!

Maybe something like this...

The Fukuoko 9000
This is a tiny clitoral vibrator that fits over your finger. It's a perfect way to unobtrusively work in a little clitoral stimulation during intercourse with a partner (note: this works particularly well if you're on all fours or in any other position where one of your hands has a little extra freedom to move against your clit).

http://sexuality.org/sextoys.html

 

[SweetErika]

Re: toys and guys

I am a guy and I love using her vibrator on her. My girlfriend really enjoys the toys more if I use them on her because she is free to enjoy the feelings. But yes, SweetErika is right, a lot of men feel inadequate compared to a toy, and to be really honest they are. No penis I don't care how great it is used can ever hit 2 places at once. No chance in hell that the clit is going to be pleasured with the penis while the g spot gets hit. So, we have a lot against us however, I believe that the real thing is better.

Great perspective wildwesty! The real thing may not be as stimulating physically, but it definetly takes the cake mentally and emotionally (for me at least). I don't have intercourse to orgasm...I do it because I love connecting with my husband and feeling that special closeness and it feels really good in its own right. Toys are great additions, but men's fears of being replaced are completely unfounded.

 

[wildwesty]

toys

It is one of those things that men can't be afraid about. So instead just roll with it and have a great time. Toys are a great addition to foreplay with lots of little ones that you can use at the same time as oral sex. Do some shopping and just go wild with it, after all it is supposed to be fun. I totally agree with you Sweet Erika, while intercourse feels great and can get you off, to me it is more about the intimacy and the closeness. I don't know to many guys who talk about intimacy but I feel like that during intercourse. The same goes with oral sex which to me is much more personal and when you have your attention focused on someone that much it just feels good, mentally and emotionally in addition to physically.

 

[CrazyIrishman]

Thanks all....I am heading down to see her today...I'll be sure to try those ideas and bring up the sex toy issue. I'll keep ya updated.

 

[geishaGirl]

clitoral stimulation in missionary position

Hi there

I'm a woman who never even had her first orgasm until my (now) husband laid on top of me and rubbed against my clitoral area. We were both fully clothed at the time mind you!

My favourite position tends to be missionary because it's all close and personal in my view and I need ALOT of clitoral stimulation to orgasm (that's how I orgasm when masturbating as well). My husband found a way to make me orgasm when we were making love in the missionary position some time ago and one time even made me orgasm 11 times in a row!!!! (and Yes it was GREAT )

The way he thrusts inside of me is the key: he slows the thrusts down so that his penis angles towards the top of my vagina, it is like I get the vibrations up through to my clitoris. But when he thrusts inside of me like that I move my pelvis/hips upwards to meet him so there is more friction and therefore more sensation which makes me orgasm. Sometimes it is so intense that he climaxes before I do but if I orgasm from it, it's absolutely amazing!

See how you go...

 

[SensualCealy]

One thing that worked for us, since it seemed like he couldnt get me to the grand finally, is for you to place your hand on her and ask her to move your fingers the way she likes to get off. This shows you how to do it, how hard to do it and what fingers work best.

It may sound silly but yes what fingers are used makes a difference with the touch. Too much presure makes it feel like you are going to rub it right off, to little doesnt do us any good.

Good luck,
Cealy