Cuckqueens, what is it about your partner being with someone else that turns you on?

[Luv4hotwives]

I'm really curious about how male cucks and female cuckqueens are both similar and different.

The two most significant types of cucks/cuckqueens I've noticed are ones who....
Get off on the humiliation... Example: I can't give my partner what this other person can.
Get off on showing off... Example: That's right, this is MINE, I get it whenever I want and love showing it off to others... There is often a feeling of pride when seeing their partner fuck someone else.

Not saying those are the only motivations, but those seem to be the most prominent. I feel like I observe men who are cucks are more likely to fall into the humiliation camp and women who are cuckqueens are more likely to fall into the showing off camp. Again, this is based on my personal anecdotal observations, and admit I might be completely wrong.

I'm a guy, and when I used to be a cuck I know it was probably a 60/40 mix for me, leaning more towards humiliation.

So where do you fall? Or do you have entirely different motivations? I'd love to hear all about it, thanks!!

 

[lily_wall_]

Third category... I want to see my husband get seduced and overcome by lust and continue to see her secretly. I want to watch them fuck but don't want him to know that I'm aware of his cheating

 

[Luv4hotwives]

Third category... I want to see my husband get seduced and overcome by lust and continue to see her secretly. I want to watch them fuck but don't want him to know that I'm aware of his cheating

That sounds really hot! What is it about him being seduced that interests you?

I actually do enjoy the idea of my partner cheating, but not being aware I know as well. I don't fully understand why it's as hot as it is though! Maybe it's that there is nothing to hold them back if they think no one knows. What is it about watching them fuck, unaware you know about it, that appeals to you?

Sorry for so many questions, feel free to respond to as many or as few as you'd like. I just find the emotions and motivations behind this sort of kink to be very fascinating.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Very interesting to see your partner as a sexual being who gets carried away by lust for someone hotter than you. Could be personality, bigger tits or arse, etc.

 

[Easypeter]

I like knowing my wife screws around. Something about realizing she’s still hot and loves to fuck

 

[GoodnessO]

I've asked my husband if he'd like to watch me fucking another man. Unfortunately he said, no... LOL.

 

[Hipshot1554]

I've asked my husband if he'd like to watch me fucking another man. Unfortunately he said, no... LOL.

And if he had said yes,,,?

 

[GoodnessO]

And if he had said yes,,,?

Then I wouldn't need to think about hiding the affair I'm contemplating.

 

[Hipshot1554]

Then I wouldn't need to think about hiding the affair I'm contemplating.

So, you weren't kidding... interesting!

 

[Southernscot21]

Third category... I want to see my husband get seduced and overcome by lust and continue to see her secretly. I want to watch them fuck but don't want him to know that I'm aware of his cheating

YOU ARE A LOT OF MENS ULTIMATE FANTASY!!!!!

 

[strongnsensual]

I've asked my husband if he'd like to watch me fucking another man. Unfortunately he said, no... LOL.

So I'm hearing you can do whatever you want as long as he's not watching!

 

[Crownvic]

So I'm hearing you can do whatever you want as long as he's not watching!

He can listen from the next room..

 

[strongnsensual]

We'll have to be very quiet at times .... make him wonder.

Those times will be the exception though.

 

[4yourpleasureiam]

I'm really curious about how male cucks and female cuckqueens are both similar and different.

The two most significant types of cucks/cuckqueens I've noticed are ones who....
Get off on the humiliation... Example: I can't give my partner what this other person can.
Get off on showing off... Example: That's right, this is MINE, I get it whenever I want and love showing it off to others... There is often a feeling of pride when seeing their partner fuck someone else.

Not saying those are the only motivations, but those seem to be the most prominent. I feel like I observe men who are cucks are more likely to fall into the humiliation camp and women who are cuckqueens are more likely to fall into the showing off camp. Again, this is based on my personal anecdotal observations, and admit I might be completely wrong.

I'm a guy, and when I used to be a cuck I know it was probably a 60/40 mix for me, leaning more towards humiliation.

So where do you fall? Or do you have entirely different motivations? I'd love to hear all about it, thanks!!

Knowing she is going to climax as she deserves

 

[Escierto]

Before we met in person, my girlfriend told me that she wanted to see me getting ass fucked by a trans girl with a bigger cock than hers. She is about 7 1/2 inches so that would mean a BIG cock. She even had someone in mind. She said she wanted to watch as the girl shot her load of cum in my ass.

I don't know what her motivation was but it sounded like a little humiliation (the other girl has a bigger cock) along with some pride that I could take a really big cock.

It would have been an interesting scenario to play out but alas, when we met in person, my girlfriend said her fantasy would have to wait.

 

[tristantrotsky]

It's a little like the humiliation but in a different way for me.... my partner can have me anytime they want but they want something else. Someone not as submissive, or they like having power over me to make me watch them fucking someone else. Or at least know it happened.

There are some who value and appreciate you exactly as you are.
Regardless of whatever your partner may desire, you are a unique individual who is deserving of loving respect in your own right.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Before we met in person, my girlfriend told me that she wanted to see me getting ass fucked by a trans girl with a bigger cock than hers. She is about 7 1/2 inches so that would mean a BIG cock. She even had someone in mind. She said she wanted to watch as the girl shot her load of cum in my ass.

I don't know what her motivation was but it sounded like a little humiliation (the other girl has a bigger cock) along with some pride that I could take a really big cock.

It would have been an interesting scenario to play out but alas, when we met in person, my girlfriend said her fantasy would have to wait.

A totally understandable fantasy, I'm small enough so I have these SPH fantasies all the time — I'll only do them with casual play partners. I don't mind if my trans girlfriend puts on a bigger strap-on and fucks my asshole hard enough to gape it, pretending to be someone else, and then fucks me with her cock.

Anyone else is normally a no-no if I was taken or married. If anyone wants to do this when we're together, I'd really have to understand the motivation behind this (SPH? Sharing?), when and how often she wants this done, and does she want both of us to be owned by that bigger cock? Does she also want me to watch her get fucked, not necessarily by the trans girl who gets to fuck me — maybe someone else? How is that going to affect our relationship? (Most likely, a lot. Fetishes like these are very addictive and perhaps dangerous. I know how addictive it is since I think of it too much.)

Are there any other fetishes she has if this happens? Does she want me to be fucked tied up for the humiliation, and does she want me to be tied up when I watch her get fucked? Or is she only wanting it one way (either only her getting fucked or me)? Do we have to do other humiliating things, such as let the third person cum in her asshole or mine, and we have to lick it clean to show submission? Or say humiliating and degrading things about our partner and ourselves, that we're handing them over to a bull man or shemale who fucks them better? Is it going to be forever and they own one or both of us all the time, or just during our roleplay and they leave to let us bond later? Maybe the third person bonds with us as well in bed, which might be okay if we already agreed to this.

Does she have someone in mind and has she fucked them or did they fuck her in the past? Were they planning this all along? Was she upfront about this, or did she suddenly bring it up? I've had Domme Mistresses chat to me on another site where they said upfront that maybe they'd want a sissy to share, she was a friend and they enjoyed sharing. I appreciated the honesty.

This is such a dangerous fantasy and while I know these are too many questions, IDC much since I've been hurt in the past. If I might lose my heart to the third person or my partner lost interest in fucking me and only lets the third party fuck me, or bans my clitty from fucking her while she's fucked by bigger cocks, I need to know in advance so I can either request her to fuck me too since I still love her and don't want her or me humiliated all the time, leave and find someone else, or let them be together if they want. I'm trying not to take risks with my heart again.

 

[Escierto]

A totally understandable fantasy, I'm small enough so I have these SPH fantasies all the time — I'll only do them with casual play partners. I don't mind if my trans girlfriend puts on a bigger strap-on and fucks my asshole hard enough to gape it, pretending to be someone else, and then fucks me with her cock.

Anyone else is normally a no-no if I was taken or married. If anyone wants to do this when we're together, I'd really have to understand the motivation behind this (SPH? Sharing?), when and how often she wants this done, and does she want both of us to be owned by that bigger cock? Does she also want me to watch her get fucked, not necessarily by the trans girl who gets to fuck me — maybe someone else? How is that going to affect our relationship? (Most likely, a lot. Fetishes like these are very addictive and perhaps dangerous. I know how addictive it is since I think of it too much.)

Are there any other fetishes she has if this happens? Does she want me to be fucked tied up for the humiliation, and does she want me to be tied up when I watch her get fucked? Or is she only wanting it one way (either only her getting fucked or me)? Do we have to do other humiliating things, such as let the third person cum in her asshole or mine, and we have to lick it clean to show submission? Or say humiliating and degrading things about our partner and ourselves, that we're handing them over to a bull man or shemale who fucks them better? Is it going to be forever and they own one or both of us all the time, or just during our roleplay and they leave to let us bond later? Maybe the third person bonds with us as well in bed, which might be okay if we already agreed to this.

Does she have someone in mind and has she fucked them or did they fuck her in the past? Were they planning this all along? Was she upfront about this, or did she suddenly bring it up? I've had Domme Mistresses chat to me on another site where they said upfront that maybe they'd want a sissy to share, she was a friend and they enjoyed sharing. I appreciated the honesty.

This is such a dangerous fantasy and while I know these are too many questions, IDC much since I've been hurt in the past. If I might lose my heart to the third person or my partner lost interest in fucking me and only lets the third party fuck me, or bans my clitty from fucking her while she's fucked by bigger cocks, I need to know in advance so I can either request her to fuck me too since I still love her and don't want her or me humiliated all the time, leave and find someone else, or let them be together if they want. I'm trying not to take risks with my heart again.

Lot to think about there. Just as well that it's off the table for us!

 

[wifes_fag]

A totally understandable fantasy, I'm small enough so I have these SPH fantasies all the time — I'll only do them with casual play partners. I don't mind if my trans girlfriend puts on a bigger strap-on and fucks my asshole hard enough to gape it, pretending to be someone else, and then fucks me with her cock.

Anyone else is normally a no-no if I was taken or married. If anyone wants to do this when we're together, I'd really have to understand the motivation behind this (SPH? Sharing?), when and how often she wants this done, and does she want both of us to be owned by that bigger cock? Does she also want me to watch her get fucked, not necessarily by the trans girl who gets to fuck me — maybe someone else? How is that going to affect our relationship? (Most likely, a lot. Fetishes like these are very addictive and perhaps dangerous. I know how addictive it is since I think of it too much.)

Are there any other fetishes she has if this happens? Does she want me to be fucked tied up for the humiliation, and does she want me to be tied up when I watch her get fucked? Or is she only wanting it one way (either only her getting fucked or me)? Do we have to do other humiliating things, such as let the third person cum in her asshole or mine, and we have to lick it clean to show submission? Or say humiliating and degrading things about our partner and ourselves, that we're handing them over to a bull man or shemale who fucks them better? Is it going to be forever and they own one or both of us all the time, or just during our roleplay and they leave to let us bond later? Maybe the third person bonds with us as well in bed, which might be okay if we already agreed to this.

Does she have someone in mind and has she fucked them or did they fuck her in the past? Were they planning this all along? Was she upfront about this, or did she suddenly bring it up? I've had Domme Mistresses chat to me on another site where they said upfront that maybe they'd want a sissy to share, she was a friend and they enjoyed sharing. I appreciated the honesty.

This is such a dangerous fantasy and while I know these are too many questions, IDC much since I've been hurt in the past. If I might lose my heart to the third person or my partner lost interest in fucking me and only lets the third party fuck me, or bans my clitty from fucking her while she's fucked by bigger cocks, I need to know in advance so I can either request her to fuck me too since I still love her and don't want her or me humiliated all the time, leave and find someone else, or let them be together if they want. I'm trying not to take risks with my heart again.

We done a lot of that with one kinky bull. We had done threesomes but he was different. My wife loved fucking him. And I found out she liked real kinky stuff.

 

[SPARTAN047]

We done a lot of that with one kinky bull. We had done threesomes but he was different. My wife loved fucking him. And I found out she liked real kinky stuff.

Very hot, and something I'd love to do with a kinky bull if I'm not married. I love the variety and I'd enjoy having many pretend girlfriends, wives and bulls.

If they can have a variety of cocks, I'll have the variety of pussies and cocks I want.

 

[artgorden]

I have a little dick and I'm very attracted to big dicks. Like most women my wife likes big dicks.

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

I've asked my husband if he'd like to watch me fucking another man. Unfortunately he said, no... LOL.

That's a shame if I was your husband I would let you fuck all the men you want right in front of me

 

[SueTeri]

My Hubby loves watching me suck and fuck other men in front of him. He jacks off while I am doing it! Kee kee

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

That's so amazing sounds like him and I have a lot of interest I would love that too

 

[P0peye]

Watching my loving wife being savagely pounded and pleasured by the thick cocks of superior men more virile than I am emphasizes my genital inadequacy and corroborates my incapacity to sexually satisfy her myself.