Do ladies like being rimmed?

[curious270]

I am curious to try this on the mrs. but I think she would get freaked out. Any suggestions on how to get her to let me try it, I plan on a few drinks first obviously. Also, do you ladies enjoy it?

 

[horgasm]

Have you done any kind of anal play before? If not, I think maybe some finger action might be a way to ease her into butt stuff. Doing it while going down on her might be a nice distraction, to help keep her from freaking out. If she's uncomfortable with any kind of anal play, I might avoid rimming her. If she's into it, you might get her in the shower together. Start eating her pussy and then just go back. That might keep her from worrying about hygiene or anything else, and just enjoy the tongue action.

 

[gemaussieslut]

i'd start with asking her if it was something she is interested in!?

I enjoy it - but I know others that don't. Just ask your other half - see what she wants!

 

[satindesire]

I am curious to try this on the mrs. but I think she would get freaked out. Any suggestions on how to get her to let me try it, I plan on a few drinks first obviously. Also, do you ladies enjoy it?

Logically, no, not all ladies like being rimmed. This is easily said because "like" isn't a universal construct, people are individuals and have their own quirks. So, your question should be directed to YOUR lady personally.

Doing something new is always scary and sort of nervous-making. I strongly suggest you SKIP the drinks and do this sober, as alcohol can impair judgment and lower inhibitions and may lead to "Oh My God I can't believe I did that" tomorrow-morning feelings, which can lead to resentment ("He got me drunk and did THAT to me?!).

I also strongly suggest that you mention this BEFORE trying it, as to not freak her out. Some people are very touchy about their back doors, and you really don't want her to yell at you or shut down emotionally if you stick your face back there while she's not expecting it.

 

[infinity706]

Honestly, 100% of people I've me that weren't germophobes liked it if they tried it, so if you talk to her about it and she agrees there is a good chance she'll like it. Just ask her in advance. Of course, you might want to decide beforehand, whether you expect reciprocation. That will almost definately come up.

 

[FuckFantasy]

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[boobaliciousbiggirl]

Rimming

I agree with the other ladies, some people do some people don't...I wouldn't start out with rimming...the previous posts were pretty sound advice, in my opinion!

Always start slow with anal play, be safe, and enjoy

 

[groovytay]

Communication is definitely the key. Also, allow her to explore various things with you so that she will know you are both open to trying new things.

My ass is one of my sensitive areas and I enjoy it being played with is many ways. I hope that you are able to try this. I think you will both enjoy it!

Good luck...

 

[Landon_1980]

most women I have done this too get the WTF look on their face as its happening.......but none have given negative feedback to me for doing it. a FEW really loved it, and it lead to anal sex.

 

[Rumorhasit13]

Oh I absolutely love it.. I'm actually saddened when people say that they aren't even remotely interested in it. I don't enjoy any other anal play except rimming however. The way I was asked if I wanted to try it was by my gf at the time telling me how good it felt and for me to trust her. I did and I was never so turned on as when she did that first..

 

[NippleMuncher]

I've done it a few times with my girl, who is pretty vanilla when it comes to matters of sex. At first she puts up a slight protest, but if I persist she relents and seems to enjoy it.

Do NOT take her allowing rimming to mean you can attempt PIA without her express consent and knowledge before hand, and absolutely do NOT attempt PIA without lubrication.

 

[lyinaboutitall]

Hell Yeah!!!!!!

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

Don't ply her with alcohol. Let her enjoy the experience without the haze.

Perhaps you could get a shower together before you rim her. I have been with women who wouldn't let me rim them because they were worried about being clean. A shower or bath together can take care of that fear.

 

[NomadLady]

I am curious to try this on the mrs. but I think she would get freaked out. Any suggestions on how to get her to let me try it, I plan on a few drinks first obviously. Also, do you ladies enjoy it?

Yes, I enjoy it....and it was just a natural progression one time while being eaten....I loved it!!!!!!!!!!

There wasn't any asking/quizzes/whatever, it was when I was married and my ex just did it....I was happy!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Norma_Stits]

First time I ever did this for me I did not ask my conservative wife if she wanted it but while I was going down town I let lots of spit out to flow down to her ass crack as lube

When she was seriously humping my face I got the message she was close to cumming

So I slid down and licked her freckle while pressing my nose onto her clit she responded by pressing on to my tongue

She was pressing down hard on my face so I went back to her pussy with my tongue and pressed my finger onto her ass

I applied gentle pressure and she moved her body to push my finger into the first inch of her ass

As she stated to cum she dropped herself onto my finger taking it deep and 'swallowed' my middle finger in her ass and fucked my face so hard

She bucked me so hard my face was sore as she rode my nose and finger

When she was finished I climbed upwards to kiss her but she baulked at that

I asked her afterwards about it and she said she was not that comfortable with any anal play but did admit that was the best and hardest orgasm she had ever had

I now use this method on an occaisonal basis and find that although she doesnt admit to it she physically loves to have her ass licked and fingered at orgasm time

I did eventually manage to have consentual anal sex with her but that is another story best left for another time

 

[Marazmatique]

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[pairodoxxx]

I ate her pussy with her ass in my hands, I ran my tongue just below her hole onto her taint. As I got positive feedback in the form of moaning, and her squirming her hips, I slid my tongue a little lower, circling the outer part of her anus.

We talked about it later, and she absolutely loved it more than she ever thought she would.

I only do it after she has taken a bath, which she takes quite frequently, now!!!

 

[bobdoleisdead]

I think women enjoyed being rimmed. Anal sex, that's a different question as it is painful for most all women, unless they've "loosened up" so-to-speak.

It's very stimulating, but I think it's more of the man's decision. They are the one's back there licking and tongue diving. Hygiene is one of the key elements for this sexual component.

Try it

 

[WckdnWild]

I stumbled upon this thread accidentally and couldn't resist chiming in.....

Those how know me aren't going to be too shocked by my response, and rock hard at the end. So......

This particular lady, thinks that being rimmed, when done properly is the 2nd best thing to a vaginal orgasm. Being licked from my taint to my flower is extremely arousing. And when your lover is talented enuff to be able to do so, gently running his fingers around your ass, tracing the outline of your curves, as his tongue encircles my little coffee colored flower.... how could you resist?

Invariably it leads to anal sex which is NOT painful, when done right. Slowly... gently, methodically your lover must be tender. Your partner plays a HUGE role in this, *biting her lower lip and smiling* every pun , intended. In this case size does matter!

As long as you are relaxed and lubed well, it doesn't HURT, persay - uncomfortable at first. The pressure of the head of his cock pressing into such a tight forbidden little space, is difficult, but OH SO WORTH THE PLEASURE. You have to ease into it, but if your lover is skilled, and he is focused on gently sliding in and out, while stimulting your clit, and sliding a finger or two into your wett pussy, then you should not be so "uncomfortable" that you can't enjoy it. In fact, I have the tendancy to really get into it. It feels SO dayum good.... and anal orgasm is an earth shattering experience.

I must admit i have excellent hygiene. I shower every day, ensuring to pay special attention to that general area to ensure I am prepared for whatever surprise..... <weg> the day may bring. I have fingered myself and tasted the sweetness of my own juices. I love the way I taste on my lover's cock after we have been together and I am deep throating him. The milky sweet taste of us intertwined..... of course I've never taken a cock into my mouth that has been in the back door. bleech.... that's just gross.... but yes.... a tongue on the rim every now and then..... HELL YEAH!!! lick away.... as I close my eyes gently, and get lost in the pleasure.......

 

[Roleplay_Mom]

I LIVE FOR IT!!!

 

[pairodoxxx]

I think she said it best... DAYUM!!!

I stumbled upon this thread accidentally and couldn't resist chiming in.....

Those how know me aren't going to be too shocked by my response, and rock hard at the end. So......

This particular lady, thinks that being rimmed, when done properly is the 2nd best thing to a vaginal orgasm. Being licked from my taint to my flower is extremely arousing. And when your lover is talented enuff to be able to do so, gently running his fingers around your ass, tracing the outline of your curves, as his tongue encircles my little coffee colored flower.... how could you resist?

Invariably it leads to anal sex which is NOT painful, when done right. Slowly... gently, methodically your lover must be tender. Your partner plays a HUGE role in this, *biting her lower lip and smiling* every pun , intended. In this case size does matter!

As long as you are relaxed and lubed well, it doesn't HURT, persay - uncomfortable at first. The pressure of the head of his cock pressing into such a tight forbidden little space, is difficult, but OH SO WORTH THE PLEASURE. You have to ease into it, but if your lover is skilled, and he is focused on gently sliding in and out, while stimulting your clit, and sliding a finger or two into your wett pussy, then you should not be so "uncomfortable" that you can't enjoy it. In fact, I have the tendancy to really get into it. It feels SO dayum good.... and anal orgasm is an earth shattering experience.

I must admit i have excellent hygiene. I shower every day, ensuring to pay special attention to that general area to ensure I am prepared for whatever surprise..... <weg> the day may bring. I have fingered myself and tasted the sweetness of my own juices. I love the way I taste on my lover's cock after we have been together and I am deep throating him. The milky sweet taste of us intertwined..... of course I've never taken a cock into my mouth that has been in the back door. bleech.... that's just gross.... but yes.... a tongue on the rim every now and then..... HELL YEAH!!! lick away.... as I close my eyes gently, and get lost in the pleasure.......

 

[WckdnWild]

I ate her pussy with her ass in my hands, I ran my tongue just below her hole onto her taint. As I got positive feedback in the form of moaning, and her squirming her hips, I slid my tongue a little lower, circling the outer part of her anus.

We talked about it later, and she absolutely loved it more than she ever thought she would.

I only do it after she has taken a bath, which she takes quite frequently, now!!!

Pairodoxxx - sounds like you are quite the rimming artist. Perhaps you should join her in her bath.... and ensure all her parts are squeaky clean - after all, it's a proverbial buffet, why limit your options?

Enjoy your continued adventures around Hur-anus. Maybe you can eventually build her up slowly to sliding something in other than your tongue....

 

[pairodoxxx]

Pairodoxxx - sounds like you are quite the rimming artist. Perhaps you should join her in her bath.... and ensure all her parts are squeaky clean - after all, it's a proverbial buffet, why limit your options?

Enjoy your continued adventures around Hur-anus. Maybe you can eventually build her up slowly to sliding something in other than your tongue....

Thank you for the advice WnW, I will certainly entertain any ideas that I can, to enhance my sex life.

 

[prop69]

Wow!!!

I stumbled upon this thread accidentally and couldn't resist chiming in.....

Those how know me aren't going to be too shocked by my response, and rock hard at the end. So......

This particular lady, thinks that being rimmed, when done properly is the 2nd best thing to a vaginal orgasm. Being licked from my taint to my flower is extremely arousing. And when your lover is talented enuff to be able to do so, gently running his fingers around your ass, tracing the outline of your curves, as his tongue encircles my little coffee colored flower.... how could you resist?

Invariably it leads to anal sex which is NOT painful, when done right. Slowly... gently, methodically your lover must be tender. Your partner plays a HUGE role in this, *biting her lower lip and smiling* every pun , intended. In this case size does matter!

As long as you are relaxed and lubed well, it doesn't HURT, persay - uncomfortable at first. The pressure of the head of his cock pressing into such a tight forbidden little space, is difficult, but OH SO WORTH THE PLEASURE. You have to ease into it, but if your lover is skilled, and he is focused on gently sliding in and out, while stimulting your clit, and sliding a finger or two into your wett pussy, then you should not be so "uncomfortable" that you can't enjoy it. In fact, I have the tendancy to really get into it. It feels SO dayum good.... and anal orgasm is an earth shattering experience.

I must admit i have excellent hygiene. I shower every day, ensuring to pay special attention to that general area to ensure I am prepared for whatever surprise..... <weg> the day may bring. I have fingered myself and tasted the sweetness of my own juices. I love the way I taste on my lover's cock after we have been together and I am deep throating him. The milky sweet taste of us intertwined..... of course I've never taken a cock into my mouth that has been in the back door. bleech.... that's just gross.... but yes.... a tongue on the rim every now and then..... HELL YEAH!!! lick away.... as I close my eyes gently, and get lost in the pleasure.......

You were right........I am hard as Hell fantasising about that. You would make an excellent write of erotic stories.

 

[RuReal]

Communication is always key with anything really different that you are trying with a partner. With that being said I know that my wife loves it no warm up required dive in and her reaction is just damn exciting as all hell.

To be honest she was not into anal play when I first tried to initate it with her, but after a few tries she now loves it.