I never understood why humiliation=feminization. That just seems like that's saying being feminine I.E being a woman is "bad".
I personally LIKE being a woman.
I love being a woman, too.
My hubby percieves it as "bad" because certain hetero society instructs the males that women are weaker psychological beings, lesser. We may be physically weaker in general, but in all other aspects we are equal. Thankfully, he's one who can think beyond his "traditional" upbringing and recognize women as people. When I say "traditional", I mean backwoods Neanderthals who may have completed the eigth grade.
Neither of us really conceptualize him wearing my silk panties as humiliation. The visual image is humorous because it flies in the face of everything I/he was taught. It was a confrontation of his fear over being labled sissyboy or whatever. Like me, just because he might throw on a pair of panties every so often doesn't mean he's weak. It means he's breaking free of his own bondage, and indulging in a tactile fetish at the same time.
