spawnofdavey
Literotica Guru
- Joined
- Jul 28, 2008
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I'm posting here as well as in the BDSM personals.
First things first, I’m a married man looking for a woman to build a BDSM online based relationship with. If you have an issue with me being married, please just scroll on by. I don’t need a relationship lesson or criticism of be being here. Strangely enough this wasn’t my first step. I’ve tried to improve my situation at home numerous times and this isn’t something I’ve jumped into without consideration.
I’m based in the north of England, so I’d prefer someone in a similar time zone who would have some availability during the day and later in the evenings also. If you’re in the USA or Australia, we might be okay depending on your routine, but western US isn’t probably going to work.
I’m in my early 50’s, married for nearly 20 years with two teenage kids. I’m fit and healthy, though not necessarily toned. I’m average height, grey hair & beard and I wear glasses.
So, what do I want? Well, I’m looking for something that will be sexual of course, but also something where I can talk to someone about more mundane things too, how my day went – how yours is going too – share hopes & dreams and all that stuff, but also share fantasies and desires that I can’t talk about at home. I’m a switch, with a leaning towards sub, but I have times when I want to Dom too, so ideally someone who is comfortable with that and is able to switch too.
Outside of kink, I’m a reader of fantasy and sci-fi and occasional writer and roleplayer. I listen to RPG podcasts and rock music. I like the outdoors and walk around some of the nearby countryside. I’m a football (like, proper football not NFL) fan and I enjoy watching a little TV too.
Kink wise, I enjoy edging, orgasm control/denial, I often wear a chastity cage when I’m at work (office three days a week, home two) and love teasing and being teased. I have plenty of other interests but hopefully these can be explored together. I don’t really have a ‘type’ when it comes to women as I find someone’s willingness to explore and be open with me is more attractive than something purely physical. That being said, I do like a curvy woman, feminine but not a barbie. Tattoo’s and stuff would be a treat. I’m open to sharing pictures as I know that despite what I’ve just said, there has to be some attraction both ways. I’m happy to move off site when you’re comfortable and would love to chat, send voice notes, have calls and video call at some point so long as you’re comfortable too.
Send me a PM if you’re interested.
First things first, I’m a married man looking for a woman to build a BDSM online based relationship with. If you have an issue with me being married, please just scroll on by. I don’t need a relationship lesson or criticism of be being here. Strangely enough this wasn’t my first step. I’ve tried to improve my situation at home numerous times and this isn’t something I’ve jumped into without consideration.
I’m based in the north of England, so I’d prefer someone in a similar time zone who would have some availability during the day and later in the evenings also. If you’re in the USA or Australia, we might be okay depending on your routine, but western US isn’t probably going to work.
I’m in my early 50’s, married for nearly 20 years with two teenage kids. I’m fit and healthy, though not necessarily toned. I’m average height, grey hair & beard and I wear glasses.
So, what do I want? Well, I’m looking for something that will be sexual of course, but also something where I can talk to someone about more mundane things too, how my day went – how yours is going too – share hopes & dreams and all that stuff, but also share fantasies and desires that I can’t talk about at home. I’m a switch, with a leaning towards sub, but I have times when I want to Dom too, so ideally someone who is comfortable with that and is able to switch too.
Outside of kink, I’m a reader of fantasy and sci-fi and occasional writer and roleplayer. I listen to RPG podcasts and rock music. I like the outdoors and walk around some of the nearby countryside. I’m a football (like, proper football not NFL) fan and I enjoy watching a little TV too.
Kink wise, I enjoy edging, orgasm control/denial, I often wear a chastity cage when I’m at work (office three days a week, home two) and love teasing and being teased. I have plenty of other interests but hopefully these can be explored together. I don’t really have a ‘type’ when it comes to women as I find someone’s willingness to explore and be open with me is more attractive than something purely physical. That being said, I do like a curvy woman, feminine but not a barbie. Tattoo’s and stuff would be a treat. I’m open to sharing pictures as I know that despite what I’ve just said, there has to be some attraction both ways. I’m happy to move off site when you’re comfortable and would love to chat, send voice notes, have calls and video call at some point so long as you’re comfortable too.
Send me a PM if you’re interested.
