Females initiating sex...
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I share a house with a lady (not seeing each other).
Was sat watching TV, we were both having a drink and it was plain "I'm going to get my rocks off here". How hot is that? (roleplay idea maybe?)
Don't really know how to describe the overall impression, if I was in a club or pub it certainly wouldn't have been as obvious.
Was it hot? God yes. I knew it was coming, I just didn't know when (and wasn't going to do/say anything for fear of being wrong). My only regret was not being especially prepared before hand and letting her booze me into submission. By my own admission I'm not a good lay after a booze.
Pick a night when you both just watch TV. Choose that ad break or programme you dont really care about to go "have a shower". re-appear in a nightie/dressing gown (latter works best) and start to subtly let it hang out without saying or doing anything overt. See just how many ad breaks it takes for him to take notice and at the opportune moment launch yourself at him.
I guess what I'm saying is that we're simple creatures, we can cope with knowing what. The thing that turns us on big style is not knowing when. If you've got the type of relationship where wearing a dressing gown means he'll launch himself at you at once, wear something that little bit different instead (i'm willing to bet that the basque you've never worn that he bought for crimbo x years ago would drop him the hint)
Was sat watching TV, we were both having a drink and it was plain "I'm going to get my rocks off here". How hot is that? (roleplay idea maybe?)
Don't really know how to describe the overall impression, if I was in a club or pub it certainly wouldn't have been as obvious.
Was it hot? God yes. I knew it was coming, I just didn't know when (and wasn't going to do/say anything for fear of being wrong). My only regret was not being especially prepared before hand and letting her booze me into submission. By my own admission I'm not a good lay after a booze.
Pick a night when you both just watch TV. Choose that ad break or programme you dont really care about to go "have a shower". re-appear in a nightie/dressing gown (latter works best) and start to subtly let it hang out without saying or doing anything overt. See just how many ad breaks it takes for him to take notice and at the opportune moment launch yourself at him.
I guess what I'm saying is that we're simple creatures, we can cope with knowing what. The thing that turns us on big style is not knowing when. If you've got the type of relationship where wearing a dressing gown means he'll launch himself at you at once, wear something that little bit different instead (i'm willing to bet that the basque you've never worn that he bought for crimbo x years ago would drop him the hint)
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Volz said:Generally, my husband initiates. Once in a great while when I'm REALLY horny, I'll just jump all over him.
What are some ways you ladies let your SO know that you're in the mood? A touch? A look?
Tell them? I am not so subtle.
"I want you" works. It is much more fun to do this somewhere they can't act on it and must wait until you are in private.
A kiss with full body hug being sure that they can feel your breasts and pelvis gently press against them.
Licking my lips, putting my finger in my mouth and slowly, deliberately pulling it out. Putting their finger in my mouth and doing the same thing.
Backing them in to the bed and push them back on it.
If we are sleeping together and spooning, wiggling my ass against them.
Willing and Unsure
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I go for the little things that I know will turn him on like nibbling at the ear, the one spot on his neck, and so on. After a short bit, we're both at the point where we just cant contain ourselves and have quite a bit of fun *smiles*
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I kiss his neck or nibble on his ear (things he associates with sex).
The shower is a good suggestion...offer to soap him up, and do an extra thorough job attending to his most sensitive areas. Or, drop something in the shower when you're facing eachother, and take him in your mouth on the way back up.
Stroking him in bed, while he's watching tv, or in the car on the way home from somewhere is a good intro also.
Tell him you're horny and are going into the bedroom to masturbate. If he doesn't jump up and follow you right away, tell him he's welcome to come watch and help.
Start playing with your nipples at an unexpected time.
The shower is a good suggestion...offer to soap him up, and do an extra thorough job attending to his most sensitive areas. Or, drop something in the shower when you're facing eachother, and take him in your mouth on the way back up.
Stroking him in bed, while he's watching tv, or in the car on the way home from somewhere is a good intro also.
Tell him you're horny and are going into the bedroom to masturbate. If he doesn't jump up and follow you right away, tell him he's welcome to come watch and help.
Start playing with your nipples at an unexpected time.
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Yep... *sigh*Willing and Unsure said:
*flashing back to us in the shower*
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Most of the time I'm more subtle.
Click on a suggestive show, cuddle up up to my S/O and start kissing with just a little more "umph." Or, I'll wear something and he'll get the hint usually.
Other times I out right say that I want him, or start telling him things he should do to me.... walk out of the shower and show more skin and give him a look.
I'd say it is 50/50 between us though for the most part.
Click on a suggestive show, cuddle up up to my S/O and start kissing with just a little more "umph." Or, I'll wear something and he'll get the hint usually.
Other times I out right say that I want him, or start telling him things he should do to me.... walk out of the shower and show more skin and give him a look.
I'd say it is 50/50 between us though for the most part.
I attempt to be subtle, but I rarely am.
usually I wiggle closer to him or whimper/sigh when he is affectionate. sometimes I give up on trying to be subtle and show him skin.
However often his responce is to tease me and make me wait?
but sometimes I perfer for him to initiate.
usually I wiggle closer to him or whimper/sigh when he is affectionate. sometimes I give up on trying to be subtle and show him skin.
However often his responce is to tease me and make me wait?
but sometimes I perfer for him to initiate.
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Good idea!SweetErika said:
Alternatively, drop something when you're facing away from him, and do the "stripper" bend down to get it:
One leg straight, the other leg next to it but with the foot position like you're wearing high, high heels. Arch your back & push your arse back into him as you bend down, and slide your hands down the front of your legs as you go down. Works even better if you bite your bottom lip and look over your shoulder at his eyes as you go down.
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Most men, including myself, can miss subtle hints.
But, you can still be sexy without giving up the farm.
Rub on his leg and then up to his crotch is a good one. Start carressing your breasts and breath heavy. Grab his ass and massage it alittle bit.
Mainly, my suggestion is if you want sex, make sure he knows it or you will both be mad.
But, you can still be sexy without giving up the farm.
Rub on his leg and then up to his crotch is a good one. Start carressing your breasts and breath heavy. Grab his ass and massage it alittle bit.
Mainly, my suggestion is if you want sex, make sure he knows it or you will both be mad.
Meat Whistler
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I initiate sex often. I'm quite a horny little 
and want it often. So, I'll simply rub myself on his leg, stroke his cock while he sits at the computer/makes dinner, etc. or will plain tell him that I want him.
and want it often. So, I'll simply rub myself on his leg, stroke his cock while he sits at the computer/makes dinner, etc. or will plain tell him that I want him.
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I initiate it more about 90 percent of the time.
Of course, that is how our relationship seems to operate. And no, he isn't complaining!
My favorite time with this was when I wrote him a letter of instructions and left them for him.
The anticipation was almost as wondermous as the act!
Of course, that is how our relationship seems to operate. And no, he isn't complaining!
My favorite time with this was when I wrote him a letter of instructions and left them for him.
The anticipation was almost as wondermous as the act!
MissTaken said:I initiate it more about 90 percent of the time.
Of course, that is how our relationship seems to operate. And no, he isn't complaining!
My favorite time with this was when I wrote him a letter of instructions and left them for him.
The anticipation was almost as wondermous as the act!
Oooh, that's an awesome idea!
Hmmm.....
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