Filthiness - yes or no?

[elsol]

I don't agree with this at all. A dirty mind has nothing to do with a lack of control or self-awareness. A woman with a dirty mind has an active imagination and channels it toward passionate and adventurous sex. It doesn't mean she sleeps with every dick that comes along or that she's not aware of the sexual power she has, or that she's not in control of her life in any way.

Like I said... that's the connotation to me.

Filthy is the girl in college who I couldn't stand near because she smelled of piss.

So you don't want me to call you filthy... unless you're the type who forgets to shower for a month or two.


Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[elsol]

I have to say, given the posts on here, that men are fucking stupid!

No wonder so many of you like women.

The Earl

I think I'm the one at the center of this, so the stupid label should only be placed on me.

*shrug*


Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[logophile]

No wonder so many of you like women.

I'm sorry, love.
Could you clarify this statement?
Every time I read it, I can't make it work...

 

[TheEarl]

Just the sheer number of women who have been turned down because they're too sexual.

Christ alight. Men are stupid.

The Earl

 

[logophile]

Just the sheer number of women who have been turned down because they're too sexual.

Christ alight. Men are stupid.

The Earl

The thing is, Earl... I didn't want to be right about this one.
I wanted to hear that my fears were baseless, etc.

At least, I thought maybe on this board where we're all smutpeddlers, it would be different.
C'est La Vie.

 

[sophia jane]

The thing is, Earl... I didn't want to be right about this one.
I wanted to hear that my fears were baseless, etc.

At least, I thought maybe on this board where we're all smutpeddlers, it would be different.
C'est La Vie.

Well, L, you know I love you, naughtiness and all.

SJ

 

[TheEarl]

The thing is, Earl... I didn't want to be right about this one.
I wanted to hear that my fears were baseless, etc.

At least, I thought maybe on this board where we're all smutpeddlers, it would be different.
C'est La Vie.

I am literally gobsmacked.

The Earl

 

[TheEarl]

I'm sorry, love.
Could you clarify this statement?
Every time I read it, I can't make it work...

Translation - lots of gals on the AH are either gay or bi, way outnumbering the straight lasses.

The Earl

 

[elsol]

I am literally gobsmacked.

The Earl

I think more women have replied than men, dude.

Don't give up hope.

Personally, I wonder what you were smoking... since the only reason I prefer a more sexually 'potent' woman than myself is my non-consent thing.

How many guys do you know that are like this?

I know absolutely zero; they TALK a good game, but they don't play a good game when the ball hits the court.

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[mlady_france]

This very issue is one reason I'm so subdued when I first meet some one. I can appear to be very innocent in public. And other than when I'm online where I feel it's safe, I tend to not even mention sex at all. In fact, I've been with the same man for almost 7 years and I'm just started letting him know some of my most sensual fantasies about 6 months ago. The odd thing is, that's also when the marriage started going sour.

 

[Guest]

I think I'm the one at the center of this, so the stupid label should only be placed on me.

*shrug*


Sincerely,
ElSol

You are?

Oh yes, of course, it was you I had in mind when I posted what I did. Same goes for LJ and everyone else.

 

[Liar]

Exactly. Much like I said above. They tell you you're all they've ever wanted in a woman, tell you they've fallen in love with you and will want you for a very long time to come. Then, some way down the line, they tell you they can't handle the intensity any more.

Mebbe I haven't had a long enough relationship for that to occur, but none of them have ended because of sexual esteem issues on either part. In fact, most cases, sex was the only thing that worked well.

If you have had men flat out tellng you that they can't handle the fire, then kudos to your powers, I guess.

 

[TheEarl]

How many guys do you know that are like this?

I know absolutely zero; they TALK a good game, but they don't play a good game when the ball hits the court.

Sincerely,
ElSol

Well, me as a matter of fact. Apart from that, I'm short on evidence.

The Earl

 

[Liar]

Translation - lots of gals on the AH are either gay or bi, way outnumbering the straight lasses.

The Earl

At least lots of the more vocal gals. We should set up a poll, only I'm too deep in the bottle to remember how to do that.

 

[LadyJeanne]

I think more women have replied than men, dude.

Don't give up hope.

Personally, I wonder what you were smoking... since the only reason I prefer a more sexually 'potent' woman than myself is my non-consent thing.

How many guys do you know that are like this?

I know absolutely zero; they TALK a good game, but they don't play a good game when the ball hits the court.

Sincerely,
ElSol

I thought it was the men I'd been stupid enough to fall in love with. I see that it's more than that. So what exactly is there to hope for?


Now when my friends say, gee, I don't understand why someone as beautiful, intelligent, funny, successful, kind and charming as you doesn't have a boyfriend, I know exactly what to tell them.

 

[logophile]

At least lots of the more vocal gals. We should set up a poll, only I'm too deep in the bottle to remember how to do that.

A poll sexual orientation?
For women?
Or women and men?

I'll do it if you tell me what you want...

 

[Guest]

Mebbe I haven't had a long enough relationship for that to occur, but none of them have ended because of sexual esteem issues on either part. In fact, most cases, sex was the only thing that worked well.

If you have had men flat out tellng you that they can't handle the fire, then kudos to your powers, I guess.

Liar, I don't think it's length of relationship that matters, it's the people involved.

 

[Guest]

Oh, and for the record... I'm straight. NOTHING could ever turn me off men.

 

[elsol]

I thought it was the men I'd been stupid enough to fall in love with. I see that it's more than that. So what exactly is there to hope for?


Now when my friends say, gee, I don't understand why someone as beautiful, intelligent, funny, successful, kind and charming as you doesn't have a boyfriend, I know exactly what to tell them.

Well.. there's the Earl, and not a lot of guys have replied.

Ladies have replied mostly, so it could be a skew... You could all be getting rejected by the same bloke and/or his friends.

Or maybe it could just be the guys I hang out with.

"Her clit was too high for her to have an orgasm with me inside her." is a direct quote from one of them.

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[logophile]

I thought it was the men I'd been stupid enough to fall in love with. I see that it's more than that. So what exactly is there to hope for?


Now when my friends say, gee, I don't understand why someone as beautiful, intelligent, funny, successful, kind and charming as you doesn't have a boyfriend, I know exactly what to tell them.

You're straight, aren't you LadyJ? Cause I would snatch you up in a second if I could!

 

[LadyJeanne]

You're straight, aren't you LadyJ? Cause I would snatch you up in a second if I could!

Thank you, sweets, but yes, I'm straight. Considering the lack of men and sex in my life, however, I think I'll soon qualify as a born-again virgin.

 

[Guest]

 

[elsol]

Thank you, sweets, but yes, I'm straight. Considering the lack of men and sex in my life, however, I think I'll soon qualify as a born-again virgin.

That takes a minimum of five years.

Sincerely,
ElSol

 

[TheEarl]

Still shocked and appalled. If I could go out with all ofyou then I would.

The Earl

 

[Guest]