DressupGuy
Panty Guy
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- May 15, 2024
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I wasn’t sure if I should start the discussion here or in the BDSM section so I hope this is ok here.
First, is Feminization and Sissification the same thing? And secondly, do they both typically fall under Femdom?
I believe these are mostly part of humiliation/emasculation kinks but there are many different ways these can be played out. It wasn’t until recently that I learned that a lot of women don’t like this as being dressed in women’s clothing should not be embarrassing or humiliating. I totally agree there, but at the same time, can’t help but have this kink.
I’ve never experienced it, but my fantasies are cliche:
Wife/girlfriend is tired of macho husband/boyfriend who needs to be punished-forced into bra and panties and made to wear them daily under his men’s clothes, gets teased verbally and physically (pat on the butt in public to remind him he wears the panties-you wear the pants and are in charge) and verbally by calling him a little panty boy or sissy) he may protest but obviously he likes the humiliation. If wife has kinky friends he may be required to show his panties and bra when asked-male and female friends allowed to tease. No wigs or make up (and I’ll get to this shortly). This sounds more like a porn story and these things really don’t happen (or do they?)
The next one would be serving as French maid for a group of dominant women or men (or both) - again wearing no wig or make up but dressed in a very short satin maids dress with petticoat and ruffled satin panties being objectified and teased. Spankings for getting something wrong, a pinch on my bottom when I bend over a little and the panties peek out, having to curtsy and be a good little maid. There could possibly be other maids serving as well but we’d all be dressed similar.
The last one is just getting caught trying on lingerie or panties which leads to a dress up session.
The fantasies don’t end in sex but just humiliation/embarrassment and emasculation. I also am not interested in passing for a woman which is why wigs and makeup do nothing for me. A little lipstick being applied might be erotic but it’s not necessary.
These are typically straight male fetishes - I may be bi but am mostly attracted to men so I’m not sure why femdom is of any interest. I have an underwear fetish which is mostly anything silk and satin - it just so happens that most underwear made out of that material happens to be panties so that might be part of it. I love the look of panties/lingerie on men - forget the fantasies and I still like the look. Most gay men seem to want nothing to do with anything lingerie and panty related and I can understand that.
So I guess my question is, has anyone ever experienced these fantasies and if so did it live up to your expectations-were you really “forced” or was it just role play? Did you wear panties but not really want to?
First, is Feminization and Sissification the same thing? And secondly, do they both typically fall under Femdom?
I believe these are mostly part of humiliation/emasculation kinks but there are many different ways these can be played out. It wasn’t until recently that I learned that a lot of women don’t like this as being dressed in women’s clothing should not be embarrassing or humiliating. I totally agree there, but at the same time, can’t help but have this kink.
I’ve never experienced it, but my fantasies are cliche:
Wife/girlfriend is tired of macho husband/boyfriend who needs to be punished-forced into bra and panties and made to wear them daily under his men’s clothes, gets teased verbally and physically (pat on the butt in public to remind him he wears the panties-you wear the pants and are in charge) and verbally by calling him a little panty boy or sissy) he may protest but obviously he likes the humiliation. If wife has kinky friends he may be required to show his panties and bra when asked-male and female friends allowed to tease. No wigs or make up (and I’ll get to this shortly). This sounds more like a porn story and these things really don’t happen (or do they?)
The next one would be serving as French maid for a group of dominant women or men (or both) - again wearing no wig or make up but dressed in a very short satin maids dress with petticoat and ruffled satin panties being objectified and teased. Spankings for getting something wrong, a pinch on my bottom when I bend over a little and the panties peek out, having to curtsy and be a good little maid. There could possibly be other maids serving as well but we’d all be dressed similar.
The last one is just getting caught trying on lingerie or panties which leads to a dress up session.
The fantasies don’t end in sex but just humiliation/embarrassment and emasculation. I also am not interested in passing for a woman which is why wigs and makeup do nothing for me. A little lipstick being applied might be erotic but it’s not necessary.
These are typically straight male fetishes - I may be bi but am mostly attracted to men so I’m not sure why femdom is of any interest. I have an underwear fetish which is mostly anything silk and satin - it just so happens that most underwear made out of that material happens to be panties so that might be part of it. I love the look of panties/lingerie on men - forget the fantasies and I still like the look. Most gay men seem to want nothing to do with anything lingerie and panty related and I can understand that.
So I guess my question is, has anyone ever experienced these fantasies and if so did it live up to your expectations-were you really “forced” or was it just role play? Did you wear panties but not really want to?
