How common is it?

[Codoc24]

Just to satisfy my curiosity. Reading stories here on LitE, you would think that about 95% of women can deep throat. Something I seriously doubt. I got to wondering the other day, in real life, how common it is? In my lifetime, I have had 6 different women give me a blow job, and none of them could deep throat. (yeah, I know, that is a very small research group) So, would any women like to volunteer, whether they can or can't? I'm not asking if you like to or not, just whether you can physically do it. And guys, what is the ratio you have experienced? Girls who can vs girls who can't.

Thanks in advance for everyone's input.

 

[Cagivagurl]

The point is....
who would want to?????
IMO... Totally male driven fantasy.... Just another example of the porn industry driving men's desires, building unrealistic expectations...

Cagivagurl

 

[sussisub]

Also it assumes that all men have packages that can be deep throated many are under 4'

 

[onehitwanda]

Can't honestly imagine many things worse than trying to swallow a triple mouthful of tepid, pulsing uncooked sausage that won't go down. There'd be wall to wall vomit, we're talking bona-fide manifestation of ectoplasm here. The noise that you hear when you shake a milk bottle? That's my gag reflex.

In the mouth, yes, been there and done that. Having my face used as a stand-in for a perfectly good vagina... yeah, not happening.

Also, I am known to bite.

 

[StillStunned]

In the mouth, yes, been there and done that. Having my face used as a stand-in for a perfectly good vagina... yeah, not happening.

Also, I am known to bite.

I've seen too many comments about vagina dentata to believe that will deter everyone.

On a related note, I hope everyone realises the importance of not confusing "dentata" with "al dente". Well, unless you want to make your waiter uncomfortable.

 

[NoTalentHack]

Also it assumes that all men have packages that can be deep throated many are under 4'

4 feet? Dear god, it’s gone past an arms race and into a legs race now.

 

[sussisub]

4 feet? Dear god, it’s gone past an arms race and into a legs race now.

the average is 3-4 inches right? am I wrong about statistic ?

 

[TheLobster]

4 feet? Dear god, it’s gone past an arms race and into a legs race now.

Once you go far enough past the throat, it eventually becomes anal.

 

[XerXesXu]

Also it assumes that all men have packages that can be deep throated many are under 4'

You mean, there are guys that can't make a girl gag from a rear entry position, thus avoiding those dangerous teeth.

 

[Katie_Mae]

Once you go far enough past the throat, it eventually becomes anal.

I think I read that story!

 

[AlinaX]

There's a definite thrill in learning how to deep throat, a satisfaction in mastering the technique.
It's a huge step from there to face-fucking, however.

 

[YmaOHyd]

Yeah, honestly, I really hate when I'm reading mind control mommy-son backseat definitely-not-rape fiction and the sex scenes aren't 100% realistic. Really breaks the immersion.

 

[NuclearFairy]

Considering that I can dry swallow pills and occasionally larger things when I have to. I probably could, but I dun wanna.

 

[alohadave]

the average is 3-4 inches right? am I wrong about statistic ?

' is feet, " is inches.

 

[alohadave]

I think I read that story!

I've read a few of those too. Not really erotic past a certain point and more into the surreal.

 

[Kat90xx]

It’s all in your head so to speak If you’re not into it, it won’t be good for either of you… But if you put your all into it, pure enthusiasm gets you most of the way and is much appreciated and rewarded! You can use your little gags as a weapon in your arsenal too as you milk him. There’s also something so powerful about being able to make him curl his toes with just your mouth xx

 

[gunhilltrain]

The point is....
who would want to?????
IMO... Totally male driven fantasy.... Just another example of the porn industry driving men's desires, building unrealistic expectations...

Cagivagurl

I doubt many people heard of it before the movie was released in 1972. I think the film was meant as a satire but audiences, mostly unconsciously, take anything on screen as a documentary or at least plausible. Such is the power of mass media. Everybody "knows" how the Mafia works or what the D-Day landings were like based on their depictions in movies and TV shows. The line between fiction and reality becomes very fuzzy because people don't realize how little first-hand or verifiable knowledge they have.

 

[MrPixel]

We're all comedians here, I think.

I think in five years of this I've written exactly one deep-throating scene, and it's in my "unpublished" folder at the moment. The FMC here is in her mid-30s but hasn't dated since college, and the MMC is trying to bring her up to speed. It's good for a chuckle.

She grasps my shaft and plunges my cock into her mouth surprisingly deep, and startles me with how voraciously she is sucking on me. I am getting so hard.
"Ohmygawd. Beth?"
"Mmmmmfph?" she backs away. "Am I doing something wrong?"
"No. Not at all. I'm just surprised. You know what you're doing. Why is that?"
"I'll tell you in a minute. What about this?"
She resumes her very enthusiastic suck and... and... and... ohmygosh, she's deep-throating me. I can't help but moan into the sensations.
"How do you know how to do that?! Bethany! OHMYGAWD! OH, SHIT!"
Beth pulls off slowly and looks up at me.
"Steven, this is the first chance I've had to put the book learning to work. Of course I have to know about heterogeneous sex in all its forms, to be able to talk about it intelligently with clients."
"Yeah, but, Bethany. I guess it's easy enough to wing it with blowjobs, but from what I've read and been told, deep-throating takes practice."
She stands up and lightly slaps herself like she's dusting herself off.
"Kosher hotdogs. You know, the circumcised ones."

 

[kitmarlowe]

I reject the premise of the question. Men deepthroat, too

 

[Kumquatqueen]

How much gagging and protesting counts as 'being able to'? Quite bluntly, most people can survive objects being forced down their throat. How many want to? Well, not many people have copied Houdini to practice swallowing and regurgitating a potato on a string, followed by keys, etc.

The only people I've known who could do anything like stereotypical deep throating were two guys.

And many guys don't have cocks big enough to get near the throat anyway.

 

[Audiflex]

Just to satisfy my curiosity. Reading stories here on LitE, you would think that about 95% of women can deep throat. Something I seriously doubt. I got to wondering the other day, in real life, how common it is? In my lifetime, I have had 6 different women give me a blow job, and none of them could deep throat. (yeah, I know, that is a very small research group) So, would any women like to volunteer, whether they can or can't? I'm not asking if you like to or not, just whether you can physically do it. And guys, what is the ratio you have experienced? Girls who can vs girls who can't.

Thanks in advance for everyone's input.

You're definitely not alone in noticing the... let's call it "literary exaggeration" of certain skills in erotica. Fiction tends to lean toward fantasy, and I’d guess a lot of writers are indulging wishful thinking rather than strict realism. But hey, if anyone here wants to conduct an actual survey, that’d be some interesting data collection.

 

[Audiflex]

Can't honestly imagine many things worse than trying to swallow a triple mouthful of tepid, pulsing uncooked sausage that won't go down. There'd be wall to wall vomit, we're talking bona-fide manifestation of ectoplasm here. The noise that you hear when you shake a milk bottle? That's my gag reflex.

In the mouth, yes, been there and done that. Having my face used as a stand-in for a perfectly good vagina... yeah, not happening.

Also, I am known to bite.

Yeah, no kidding. The whole deep-throat thing always seemed more like a porn flex than anything real. Your milk bottle analogy? Spot-on. And the biting disclaimer? Legendary. Honestly, most of the hype around this stuff feels like it was invented by people who’ve never actually tried it.

 

[SinclairGroupLLP]

I reject the premise of the question. Men deepthroat, too

It's not even that hard, given the average cock size.

Er... not that I would know...

<backs away sheepishly>

 

[YmaOHyd]

I've written one not-quite deepthroating scene and one straight-up throatfucking scene, both in April's Fool. The deepthroating scene is between two people who've been together for a while and are quite familiar with each other's sexual workings. They know their comfort points and all that, and she's deliberately trying to do something different and arousing for him. The throatfucking is with someone who's brought into the bedroom specifically to boldly go where no girlfriend of Evan's has gone before; Corey's much more sexually experienced and adventurous than either Evan or April. Having her go straight to deepthroating and throatfucking, turning that particular dial up to 11 instantly, was a nice easy way to show that practically before the sex scene where she's introduced has even started.

 

[FidelityBoss]

I've written one not-quite deepthroating scene and one straight-up throatfucking scene, both in April's Fool. The deepthroating scene is between two people who've been together for a while and are quite familiar with each other's sexual workings. They know their comfort points and all that, and she's deliberately trying to do something different and arousing for him. The throatfucking is with someone who's brought into the bedroom specifically to boldly go where no girlfriend of Evan's has gone before; Corey's much more sexually experienced and adventurous than either Evan or April. Having her go straight to deepthroating and throatfucking, turning that particular dial up to 11 instantly, was a nice easy way to show that practically before the sex scene where she's introduced has even started.

The contrast between the two scenes works really well, established intimacy vs. wild, no-holds-barred experimentation. Corey instantly cranking things up to 11 is a great way to establish her vibe without needing extra setup. Also, love how you use the sexual dynamics to flesh out character relationships so effortlessly. Evan’s in for a ride (literally, lol).