How to approach an escort?

[cc22xp]

I want to get an escort, not even sure if that’s the right way to say. How does it work? How do I convey that I am a virgin? Is it safe? Will they have their own place or should I get a hotel? How to trust them? This is in context of Australia.

 

[NightL]

I want to get an escort, not even sure if that’s the right way to say. How does it work? How do I convey that I am a virgin? Is it safe? Will they have their own place or should I get a hotel? How to trust them? This is in context of Australia.

You do realise prostitution and brothels are legal in Australia. Turn off safe search filter on Google and search away. They have websites and advertise. There are probably reviews for you to check out as well.

 

[VerbalAbuse]

How do I convey that I am a virgin?

"I am virgin."

 

[TheRedChamber]

I'm not Australian and can't advise on legal matters. If any of this is regionally inappropriate I'm sure someone will tell me.

For what its worth...

Find a woman with at least a reasonably well written profile. I would suggest a native speaker on this occassion as communication will be vital. Contact her (through the website/phone/email) saying you are a virgin and you would like not to be. She doesnt need your life story. Book either one hour or two and expect to do it twice. The first time may well be disappointing or quick. Do not spend any money on extras. A one hour service with oral and sex should be great and anything else will just make you come quicker or interrupt the flow. The one exception to this is (french) kissing.

I've no idea about Australian prices, but aims for the medium. Obviously you dont want super cheap but premium is also likely to be a waste at least the first time. Do not negotiate prices and do not send hundreds of messages. If her first reply is not polite, bail, but otherwise seal the deal quickly. She may get annoyed with many follow up emails as that can suggest you are getting your jollies from messaging her.

Set your expectations realistically. There are fantastic workers out there. There are also good workers who just happen to be having a bad day when you arrive. And there are some girls who are unfortunately in the wrong job even if they know how to sell themselves. Expect to experience the mechanics of sex. Also expect that it is going to feel emotionally a bit weird. For whatever reason you might not click. You should expect to get what you paid for, at a basic level, but ultimately if the service is half hearted it is almost impossible to 'complain' it into being better - just find a different girl for next time if its something you intend to do (semi)regularly.

You should be okay following her lead. Many girls have a fixed 'program' that they follow if not directed for something else. This is often french followed by sex. Often they will allow multiple positions, but may start with cowgirl which may or may not be what you want. (It puts the expert in control, but isnt the typical experience) If you want missionary ask for it. If you want to perform cunnilingus, ask for it well before you start as she is likely using lube.

Also follow her lead with conversation. Some girls are chatty some less so. Dont going looking to impress her or win her over with your charm. Do be polite. Shower immediately before hand (or at the venue). Don't wear strong scents.

It is a very good sign if the advert says they will immediately cease contact if you ask for bareback. Dont freak out if the condom breaks. Do pull out and check immediately if there is the slightest possibility this may have happened.

This may be a personal thing, but if you are inexperienced with woman, ask to snooze while holding her between rounds. (Again up front and dont be offended if she says no.)

Do not fall in love.

 

[cc22xp]

I'm not Australian and can't advise on legal matters. If any of this is regionally inappropriate I'm sure someone will tell me.

For what its worth...

Find a woman with at least a reasonably well written profile. I would suggest a native speaker on this occassion as communication will be vital. Contact her (through the website/phone/email) saying you are a virgin and you would like not to be. She doesnt need your life story. Book either one hour or two and expect to do it twice. The first time may well be disappointing or quick. Do not spend any money on extras. A one hour service with oral and sex should be great and anything else will just make you come quicker or interrupt the flow. The one exception to this is (french) kissing.

I've no idea about Australian prices, but aims for the medium. Obviously you dont want super cheap but premium is also likely to be a waste at least the first time. Do not negotiate prices and do not send hundreds of messages. If her first reply is not polite, bail, but otherwise seal the deal quickly. She may get annoyed with many follow up emails as that can suggest you are getting your jollies from messaging her.

Set your expectations realistically. There are fantastic workers out there. There are also good workers who just happen to be having a bad day when you arrive. And there are some girls who are unfortunately in the wrong job even if they know how to sell themselves. Expect to experience the mechanics of sex. Also expect that it is going to feel emotionally a bit weird. For whatever reason you might not click. You should expect to get what you paid for, at a basic level, but ultimately if the service is half hearted it is almost impossible to 'complain' it into being better - just find a different girl for next time if its something you intend to do (semi)regularly.

You should be okay following her lead. Many girls have a fixed 'program' that they follow if not directed for something else. This is often french followed by sex. Often they will allow multiple positions, but may start with cowgirl which may or may not be what you want. (It puts the expert in control, but isnt the typical experience) If you want missionary ask for it. If you want to perform cunnilingus, ask for it well before you start as she is likely using lube.

Also follow her lead with conversation. Some girls are chatty some less so. Dont going looking to impress her or win her over with your charm. Do be polite. Shower immediately before hand (or at the venue). Don't wear strong scents.

It is a very good sign if the advert says they will immediately cease contact if you ask for bareback. Dont freak out if the condom breaks. Do pull out and check immediately if there is the slightest possibility this may have happened.

This may be a personal thing, but if you are inexperienced with woman, ask to snooze while holding her between rounds. (Again up front and dont be offended if she says no.)

Do not fall in love.

I couldn’t have asked for a better help in this regard. Thank you for your patience to explain the above. I got a bit confidence from your message, of course I have so many questions. But hopefully if I dive into the process probably I will figure it out.

 

[TheRedChamber]

I couldn’t have asked for a better help in this regard. Thank you for your patience to explain the above. I got a bit confidence from your message, of course I have so many questions. But hopefully if I dive into the process probably I will figure it out.

No worries. Good luck. Let us know how it went. And if you ultimately decide not to do it, that's fine as well.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I'm sure they'd be happy to help. It's all about the money.

 

[69Explorer]

Save your money... Spend it on a trip to Thailand... take plenty of condoms... Don't fall in love !!!!