i can never fuck the whores

[jeffshi]

i'm a chinese guy. i live in guangzhou, china.

my penis can't erect when i tried to make love with the whores. it never worked, but no problem for my wife or girlfriend. it's normal?

i used to have only two girlfriends, in the very beginning of the time with them, it was also very difficult for my penis to erect even i eagerd to experience them. it could work after few hours talk with them. i don't know why.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Relevance to BDSM Talk?

Sounds like a question better asked in the "How To" forum.

 

[fgarvb1]

It sounds like you have a conscience and some common sense somewhere inside. Listen to it.

 

[jeffshi]

i fell confused

sorry, you meant i should post this to "how to"? but here is exactly "how to".

 

[ferociouskittycat]

Re: i fell confused

sorry, you meant i should post this to "how to"? but here is exactly "how to".

You are in 'how to'. They must have been confused.

Do you get hard masturbating?

With some people, I can't get interested, no matter how hard I try. It depends on your mood. I'm a girl, but have been with a guy who found it hard to get an erection.

I think his problem was psychological. He knew, as you do, that he found it hard to retain an erection, so automatically went soft.

A lot of it has to do with your girl's reaction to your situation. I could get him hard as hell, but I think his overdrive kicked in or something, because he'd get selfconscious... I don't know.

We learned to play other ways. It was never a problem with us.

I think that's when he started to regain his control.

Maybe another guy with similar experiences would be better to answer you, but seriously, from a girl's view... it doesn't matter as long as you dont' let it get in the way of sexual play.

There are many other ways to choke the chicken.. and MANY other ways to please your lady.

Best of luck with it.

 

[zhukov1943]

>>>my penis can't erect when i tried to make love with the whores. it never worked, but no problem for my wife or girlfriend. it's normal?

Yeah - It's normal. You're just one of those unfortunate guys (like me) who actually have to have FEELINGS for whoever you're having sex with. It's actually a good thing in a lot of ways - it keeps you out of trouble!

Just make sure you feel comfortable with whoever you're having sex with. If you don't feel comfortable - listen to your instincts.

 

[jeffshi]

it's very kind of you

thanks a lot. you know, it's very hard to talk about sex in china. people would think you are dirty especially when you talk about the sex out of marriages. the women are used to pretend that they are not interested in sex.

our chinese people can talk sex on internet, but mostly as a dirty topic in stead of our nature.

 

[zhukov1943]

Wow - that's a shame. Feel free to come to Literotica any time you wanna talk about stuff - people are generally very kind and helpful here.

 

[drew62]

WTF?

You have a wife and girlfriend and are worried because you cant seem to fuck whores? Oh to have such a problem. Arent the 2 enough for you?

 

[jeffshi]

i don't worry about whore

You have a wife and girlfriend and are worried because you cant seem to fuck whores? Oh to have such a problem. Arent the 2 enough for you?

don't get me wrong, my friend.
besides my wife, i used to have and only have have two girlfriends so far. i have no any girlfriend by the moment.

i didn't about if i can fuck the whores. i worried about my sexual ablity (can i use this word? i'm not native english speaker). the whores said most men are very easy to have sex with them.
it's funny, i'm very easy to get hot when i see some sexy girl (including the whores) on the public areas. but when finally do it, i would get into troubles.
i wish i were that kind of guy who can control themselves totally.

thanks!