Please take it as my very personal opinion; yours may differ widely from mine, and I don't mind that.
After I read the post of a particularly "bright" woman a moment ago (23 years old with lots of experience, so she wrote), I claim that a certain percentage of posts here are nothing but pure garbage. No change from about two years ago, but no problem, because one can just simply skip reading those posts. Which I resolved to do now, after I insulted a woman badly here a while ago. I had gotten so mad at what I saw as impertinence of her, but writing back to her publicly was one of my most stupid ideas here ever.
But the Personals here is also a place I found, where miracles can happen now and then. I met three women here altogether, who I very much enjoyed exchanging mails with. With two of them I still do, and in many ways they turned out the sweetest women I have come to meet so far. Main reason: both have taken the trouble to get to know me, and contrary to some "special friends" I sometimes exchange public spats with, they have both taken a liking to me. Simply because both went to the trouble and effort, to understand me.
I probably do not deserve having met either one of them (they are both lovers of each other), but for some strange reasons I caught their fancy. Of course it takes a connoisseur to appreciate another, and there just are not that many of them on here the lookout; that is why it took me so long to find my mail partners. I was plain lucky in both cases. If I were a believer, I would light a candle or two in a church now.
And then I discovered something else I began appreciating: every once in a while, someone starts a picture thread; usually a man. Which ends up collecting so much female beauty over time, that it would have created lots of envy within me a year ago. Except now I simply enjoy the pix, because my two sweethearts are attractive women also. And I got to understand that beauty – in order to really become enjoyable to a man – must emanate from a woman with loving feelings for him.
Even if my two mail partners do not possess all the bodily features of many women depicted on those pix threads, what they do possess they share with me. Which makes me feel great and highly appreciated.
And finally, I discovered something else happening on the Personals here: now and then a discussion evolves, which deals with interesting subjects, and/or non-trivial postings happen. Occasionally even written by a woman I have had many spats with in public. If she would only refrain from bragging so much, she might turn out fun to communicate with.
So all in all today, 27months after my first assessment of the Personals here, my impressions have changed a lot in a positive direction. It must have to do with me getting to know my two wonderful mail exchange partners. A big public thanks to both of them, should any of them wander over here by chance.
After I read the post of a particularly "bright" woman a moment ago (23 years old with lots of experience, so she wrote), I claim that a certain percentage of posts here are nothing but pure garbage. No change from about two years ago, but no problem, because one can just simply skip reading those posts. Which I resolved to do now, after I insulted a woman badly here a while ago. I had gotten so mad at what I saw as impertinence of her, but writing back to her publicly was one of my most stupid ideas here ever.
But the Personals here is also a place I found, where miracles can happen now and then. I met three women here altogether, who I very much enjoyed exchanging mails with. With two of them I still do, and in many ways they turned out the sweetest women I have come to meet so far. Main reason: both have taken the trouble to get to know me, and contrary to some "special friends" I sometimes exchange public spats with, they have both taken a liking to me. Simply because both went to the trouble and effort, to understand me.
I probably do not deserve having met either one of them (they are both lovers of each other), but for some strange reasons I caught their fancy. Of course it takes a connoisseur to appreciate another, and there just are not that many of them on here the lookout; that is why it took me so long to find my mail partners. I was plain lucky in both cases. If I were a believer, I would light a candle or two in a church now.
And then I discovered something else I began appreciating: every once in a while, someone starts a picture thread; usually a man. Which ends up collecting so much female beauty over time, that it would have created lots of envy within me a year ago. Except now I simply enjoy the pix, because my two sweethearts are attractive women also. And I got to understand that beauty – in order to really become enjoyable to a man – must emanate from a woman with loving feelings for him.
Even if my two mail partners do not possess all the bodily features of many women depicted on those pix threads, what they do possess they share with me. Which makes me feel great and highly appreciated.
And finally, I discovered something else happening on the Personals here: now and then a discussion evolves, which deals with interesting subjects, and/or non-trivial postings happen. Occasionally even written by a woman I have had many spats with in public. If she would only refrain from bragging so much, she might turn out fun to communicate with.
So all in all today, 27months after my first assessment of the Personals here, my impressions have changed a lot in a positive direction. It must have to do with me getting to know my two wonderful mail exchange partners. A big public thanks to both of them, should any of them wander over here by chance.
