Looking for a connection…and bit of excitement

jjxes29

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Where to begin.

About me - I’m a bit work obsessed but generally I’m very happy and confident and feel good in my own skin. I know what I want and love who I am. I suppose this is why I’m here because I find myself wanting a bit more.

I have been married for a very long time. I’m 36, F, UK, Straight. I love my husband. But he hasn’t been mentally well for a long time now and it feels at this point like I’m his carer. I had an affair last year which was incredible. I know this makes me sound bad, but it’s just more complicated than a few paragraphs.

I want the excitement of seeing someone’s messages throughout the day, someone smart and funny and who I actually connect with, although definitely open to some sex chat too.

I wouldn’t want to meet anyone for a while, just want this connection at first. But I’m open to it. I guess in my mind I wrote this for a guy, but I know I’m very open to women too, both in friendship and sex. When it comes to sex, if you’re hoping this will evolve into something sexual whether digital or real, you should know I like some quite dark fantasies.

So here we are - thought I’d put this out there and see what comes of it. Maybe it’s the start of something great.

JJ
 
Where to begin.

About me - I’m a bit work obsessed but generally I’m very happy and confident and feel good in my own skin. I know what I want and love who I am. I suppose this is why I’m here because I find myself wanting a bit more.

I have been married for a very long time. I’m 36, F, UK, Straight. I love my husband. But he hasn’t been mentally well for a long time now and it feels at this point like I’m his carer. I had an affair last year which was incredible. I know this makes me sound bad, but it’s just more complicated than a few paragraphs.

I want the excitement of seeing someone’s messages throughout the day, someone smart and funny and who I actually connect with, although definitely open to some sex chat too.

I wouldn’t want to meet anyone for a while, just want this connection at first. But I’m open to it. I guess in my mind I wrote this for a guy, but I know I’m very open to women too, both in friendship and sex. When it comes to sex, if you’re hoping this will evolve into something sexual whether digital or real, you should know I like some quite dark fantasies.

So here we are - thought I’d put this out there and see what comes of it. Maybe it’s the start of something great.

JJ
Sorry to hear about hour situation. Being a caregiver is not an easy job. Feel free to DM if you’d like.
 
Where to begin.

About me - I’m a bit work obsessed but generally I’m very happy and confident and feel good in my own skin. I know what I want and love who I am. I suppose this is why I’m here because I find myself wanting a bit more.

I have been married for a very long time. I’m 36, F, UK, Straight. I love my husband. But he hasn’t been mentally well for a long time now and it feels at this point like I’m his carer. I had an affair last year which was incredible. I know this makes me sound bad, but it’s just more complicated than a few paragraphs.

I want the excitement of seeing someone’s messages throughout the day, someone smart and funny and who I actually connect with, although definitely open to some sex chat too.

I wouldn’t want to meet anyone for a while, just want this connection at first. But I’m open to it. I guess in my mind I wrote this for a guy, but I know I’m very open to women too, both in friendship and sex. When it comes to sex, if you’re hoping this will evolve into something sexual whether digital or real, you should know I like some quite dark fantasies.

So here we are - thought I’d put this out there and see what comes of it. Maybe it’s the start of something great.

JJ
I am a 44 year old married guy, straight but would definitely be up for some online chat. message me if you want
 
IMO many people do not condone on having an affair. There are risks to consider, and also rewards. I think unless someone is in the position with whatever the reason are it is difficult for others to fully understand what you are going through. Once you take the step it is often impossible to give up the feeling of doing something naughty. We all have our "unique" reasons and often having an enjoyable, exciting, and secret life is difficult to deny.
 
I'm a divorced 45yr old alone at home all the time feel free to msg if you like.
 
Where to begin.

About me - I’m a bit work obsessed but generally I’m very happy and confident and feel good in my own skin. I know what I want and love who I am. I suppose this is why I’m here because I find myself wanting a bit more.

I have been married for a very long time. I’m 36, F, UK, Straight. I love my husband. But he hasn’t been mentally well for a long time now and it feels at this point like I’m his carer. I had an affair last year which was incredible. I know this makes me sound bad, but it’s just more complicated than a few paragraphs.

I want the excitement of seeing someone’s messages throughout the day, someone smart and funny and who I actually connect with, although definitely open to some sex chat too.

I wouldn’t want to meet anyone for a while, just want this connection at first. But I’m open to it. I guess in my mind I wrote this for a guy, but I know I’m very open to women too, both in friendship and sex. When it comes to sex, if you’re hoping this will evolve into something sexual whether digital or real, you should know I like some quite dark fantasies.

So here we are - thought I’d put this out there and see what comes of it. Maybe it’s the start of something great.

JJ
Good morning JJ, well done for being brave and putting yourself out there! I hope your bravery is paid back 100 fold. I’d your don’t mind I’ll also drop you a PM.
 
Where to begin.

About me - I’m a bit work obsessed but generally I’m very happy and confident and feel good in my own skin. I know what I want and love who I am. I suppose this is why I’m here because I find myself wanting a bit more.

I have been married for a very long time. I’m 36, F, UK, Straight. I love my husband. But he hasn’t been mentally well for a long time now and it feels at this point like I’m his carer. I had an affair last year which was incredible. I know this makes me sound bad, but it’s just more complicated than a few paragraphs.

I want the excitement of seeing someone’s messages throughout the day, someone smart and funny and who I actually connect with, although definitely open to some sex chat too.

I wouldn’t want to meet anyone for a while, just want this connection at first. But I’m open to it. I guess in my mind I wrote this for a guy, but I know I’m very open to women too, both in friendship and sex. When it comes to sex, if you’re hoping this will evolve into something sexual whether digital or real, you should know I like some quite dark fantasies.

So here we are - thought I’d put this out there and see what comes of it. Maybe it’s the start of something great.

JJ
Sometimes you just need a friend. Or a dick. Or a friend with a dick.
 
Where to begin.

About me - I’m a bit work obsessed but generally I’m very happy and confident and feel good in my own skin. I know what I want and love who I am. I suppose this is why I’m here because I find myself wanting a bit more.

I have been married for a very long time. I’m 36, F, UK, Straight. I love my husband. But he hasn’t been mentally well for a long time now and it feels at this point like I’m his carer. I had an affair last year which was incredible. I know this makes me sound bad, but it’s just more complicated than a few paragraphs.

I want the excitement of seeing someone’s messages throughout the day, someone smart and funny and who I actually connect with, although definitely open to some sex chat too.

I wouldn’t want to meet anyone for a while, just want this connection at first. But I’m open to it. I guess in my mind I wrote this for a guy, but I know I’m very open to women too, both in friendship and sex. When it comes to sex, if you’re hoping this will evolve into something sexual whether digital or real, you should know I like some quite dark fantasies.

So here we are - thought I’d put this out there and see what comes of it. Maybe it’s the start of something great.

JJ

Life is complicated, even if you try and keep it simple.

But one ought to keep it fun too - or find a way to make complicated fun! 😉
 
Where to begin.

About me - I’m a bit work obsessed but generally I’m very happy and confident and feel good in my own skin. I know what I want and love who I am. I suppose this is why I’m here because I find myself wanting a bit more.

I have been married for a very long time. I’m 36, F, UK, Straight. I love my husband. But he hasn’t been mentally well for a long time now and it feels at this point like I’m his carer. I had an affair last year which was incredible. I know this makes me sound bad, but it’s just more complicated than a few paragraphs.

I want the excitement of seeing someone’s messages throughout the day, someone smart and funny and who I actually connect with, although definitely open to some sex chat too.

I wouldn’t want to meet anyone for a while, just want this connection at first. But I’m open to it. I guess in my mind I wrote this for a guy, but I know I’m very open to women too, both in friendship and sex. When it comes to sex, if you’re hoping this will evolve into something sexual whether digital or real, you should know I like some quite dark fantasies.

So here we are - thought I’d put this out there and see what comes of it. Maybe it’s the start of something great.

JJ
I'd love to connect maybe share some fantasy, dm is open x
 
Where to begin.

About me - I’m a bit work obsessed but generally I’m very happy and confident and feel good in my own skin. I know what I want and love who I am. I suppose this is why I’m here because I find myself wanting a bit more.

I have been married for a very long time. I’m 36, F, UK, Straight. I love my husband. But he hasn’t been mentally well for a long time now and it feels at this point like I’m his carer. I had an affair last year which was incredible. I know this makes me sound bad, but it’s just more complicated than a few paragraphs.

I want the excitement of seeing someone’s messages throughout the day, someone smart and funny and who I actually connect with, although definitely open to some sex chat too.

I wouldn’t want to meet anyone for a while, just want this connection at first. But I’m open to it. I guess in my mind I wrote this for a guy, but I know I’m very open to women too, both in friendship and sex. When it comes to sex, if you’re hoping this will evolve into something sexual whether digital or real, you should know I like some quite dark fantasies.

So here we are - thought I’d put this out there and see what comes of it. Maybe it’s the start of something great.

JJ
Hi JJ- Im J. I’m in the states so if you’d be interested in having some really hot phone chat, I promise you won’t be disappointed. - Im 49 and in a long-term relationship that is going nowhere. If you have Skype phone or can do regular phone, that would be great. I hope to hear from you thank you.
 
Where to begin.

About me - I’m a bit work obsessed but generally I’m very happy and confident and feel good in my own skin. I know what I want and love who I am. I suppose this is why I’m here because I find myself wanting a bit more.

I have been married for a very long time. I’m 36, F, UK, Straight. I love my husband. But he hasn’t been mentally well for a long time now and it feels at this point like I’m his carer. I had an affair last year which was incredible. I know this makes me sound bad, but it’s just more complicated than a few paragraphs.

I want the excitement of seeing someone’s messages throughout the day, someone smart and funny and who I actually connect with, although definitely open to some sex chat too.

I wouldn’t want to meet anyone for a while, just want this connection at first. But I’m open to it. I guess in my mind I wrote this for a guy, but I know I’m very open to women too, both in friendship and sex. When it comes to sex, if you’re hoping this will evolve into something sexual whether digital or real, you should know I like some quite dark fantasies.

So here we are - thought I’d put this out there and see what comes of it. Maybe it’s the start of something great.

JJ
Hi
Very nice and interesting presentation, i am 46, div mother and have a son, living in EU but not english speaking so i do my best...
I have desires ...dark..forbidden and taboo..and very openminded..

Isobel
 
Hey there….im 48 mwm from the uk originally but have been in Australia for 15 years. I’m looking forward some chat that would break up the mundanity of everyday life so let me know if interested.
 
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