Looking for some advice

[dendelights]

Looking for some advice from you woman. I know there must be lots of married woman out there who are a bit bored for whatever reason and would like to chat on email. Sexual chat yes, but not only that, general chat as well. I have good imagination, good sense of humour and enjoy the challenge of writing well. (check out my stories if you like).
So to the advice bit. How on earth do I go about making contact with one of these women???

 

[filt]

There isn’t an exact science but on a platform like this, I would suggest getting involved in some of the other threads.

The sexual chat you seek, even here, probably isn’t the top priority for most women here.

If they’re bored, it probably because they’re lacking an interpersonal connection.

Feed their mind and if it clicks, the rest flows somewhat effortlessly.

So good luck, my advice is get involved in the threads, let your personality shine and enjoy the exploration from there

 

[PapaRomantic]

Create a profile! Put things in there that let others know who you are, what you are about, what you like, etc. I've seen so many women tell men that if you don't have time to create a profile, they're not going to give you the time of day.

 

[LoneMilf]

I'd second the posts above.

Also, this place (and others like it) have A LOT more men than women. As a result, we get plenty of offers to chat and more. The biggest challenge for us is usually spotting the better matches without having to go through all the tedious and repetitive introductions each time.

This is why the profiles and the contents of your ads/ first messages matter so much. Show us who you are so we can see if there might be a match (and I don't mean physically!). The more you tell us, the better

More specifically for you.. I've had a look at your posts and profile. You focus quite some on what you're looking for, but there isn't a lot of information about what you offer or who you are. Don't be afraid to share non-sexual things like hobbies and interests too.

 

[dendelights]

Thank you very much for taking the time to answer me and dor the thought tou were prepared to put into it. I’m answering this at 5am in the morning, it’s blowing a gale outside and I was having trouble sleeping. I will have a good think about your comments and also will read your stories and perhaps you might read one of mine.
Nice to meet you

 

[Poprockz]

I also recommend creating yourself an SRP profile here : https://forum.literotica.com/thread...y-purloined-from-another-forum.705862/page-50

It gives people insight into your likes and dislikes when they're considering writing with you. Some people like long, drawn-out romances while others prefer hard and fast sex RP's. There are several people on this site who I like very much as people, but our writing styles or preferences just don't sync up.

If you look at the format of the other peoples' profiles, you'll get an idea of what's usually included.