IsabellaEmily
Pleasure Addict
- Joined
- Sep 24, 2015
- Posts
- 196
As we look forward to 2025, I want to make a list of some personal goals for myself as a pleasure addicted pervert.
It’s my hope to be able to revisit this during the year to chart my progress, encourage myself, and see what I’ve learned about myself, my husband, and our circle of kinky friends.
I’ve grouped the goals into a few loose categories, but there’s a lot of overlap and they’re in no particular order.
Some things aren’t on the list because I’ve already tried them and loved them and do them often, or because I’ve tried them and didn’t care for them, or because I’m just not interested in trying them.
Hopefully this goes without saying, but I’ll include it anyway: this isn’t an advertisement for partners to help with these things.
My husband and I have a circle of friends we play with, there are no secrets between us, and with a few exceptions we already have people in mind to help us with these goals. I’m not trolling for one time hook ups, or interested in cheating on him, or interested in meeting random partners.
In 2025 as a wife, I want to:
Spend more time in collared submission, focusing solely on his physical, verbal, and visual pleasure. This includes receiving facials, letting him pee on me, letting him share me while he watches, and letting him take pics of me in outfits, poses, and situations that he finds erotic.
Send him dirty texts and kinky pics of me as often as possible.
Meet him at the door on all fours once a month at a minimum.
Let him deny my orgasmic pleasure (restrained if he chooses) by teasing me with toys, his fingers, mouth, and cock while I beg or silently submit as he desires.
Let him deny my need to pee by having him control when and where I pee. Containers, diapers (including being diapered while out in public with him), outdoors, tub, shower, sink, or in my pants/panties/dress.
Go out in public with a remote control vibrator that he controls.
Let him restrain me for a set amount of time: diapers, orgasms, outfits, arousal, delayed pleasure, foreplay, teasing, tickling, photos, food play, toy play, and anything else he wants. A few hours to start, aiming for 24 whole hours or more by December 31, 2025.
Let him take me on a sexy vacation/trip/getaway where he can show my body off to strangers, fuck me in front of strangers, tease me in front of strangers, and make me cum in front of strangers. Nude beach, nude resort, swingers club, swingers house party, etc.
Arrange at least two fantasy weekend getaways for him with a partner where his specific fantasies/roleplays will be indulged to the hilt.
Let him arrange for me at least two fantasy weekend getaways for me. Possibilities: a man in his twenties, a woman in her twenties, two women (Grace and Kim?*), a married couple exploring. In any of these the goal is having my specific fantasies/roleplays acted out.
*not their real names of course but I know who I mean
In 2025 as a swinger, I want to:
Attend more events.
Bring at least one new couple into our circle.
Take a weekend getaway where we travel with another couple and swap partners for the whole trip, including pretending to be married.
Enjoy my best friends visit this spring to the fullest. Watch each other masturbate, spend a whole night cuddling in bed, spend a whole night together with my husband, pee together outdoors, pee together in diapers, take plenty of pics we can use to tease our husbands, invite our friend circle over so she and I can make love in front of them.
Visit/set up a handjob glory hole.
Edge two or more men at once.
Have a MFF threesome where I’m dominated by both of them.
Have a MFM threesome where they cum in/on me at the same time.
Have a MFF threesome where they both submit to me.
Explore more rope/bondage/restraint play.
Be diapered and desperate in front of two or more friends.
Be thoroughly spanked by multiple people in one long session.
Spend the night cuddling, kissing, making out, and teasing with at least two other women.
Engage in more outdoor play/exploration.
Explore more discreet public play.
Cock/ball worship in a threesome (MMF and FMF).
Cunt/clit/breast/nipple worship in a threesome (MFF and FFF).
In 2025 as a masturbation addict, I want to:
Practice deepthroating with my toys, working up in size and duration for my husband (Christmas Eve gift 2025!)
Try a fuck machine. Sybian maybe? (A gal can dream!)
Remote control vibe in public controlled by chat/cam/vid partner.
Engage in more outdoor masturbation.
Explore pushing our boundaries (wet, outfits, roleplay, dom/sub, toys, outdoors) with a regular cam/video partner.
Be intentional about setting aside time to devote to self-play.
Take more pics of myself dressing sexy/peeing/posing outdoors.
Just a few personal goals for 2025:
Get a tattoo
Another piercing
Biking
Hiking
Keep submitting erotica on Literotica! I love writing here and it fulfills me in ways I cannot even describe.
That’s what I’ve come up with over the past several days. I plan to revisit with edits and updates as the year goes along.
My husband and I are perverts, but we’re also ordinary people. To some in the swinging lifestyle we seem rather tame, and to a very small number we seem adventurous and boundary pushing. We’re happy together of course, but there’s always room to try more and learn!
I welcome your questions, or suggestions, or even your own list (and steal/borrow/take/copy from my list all you want to!).
I hope 2025 is your best year yet!
Love, IsabellaEmily
It’s my hope to be able to revisit this during the year to chart my progress, encourage myself, and see what I’ve learned about myself, my husband, and our circle of kinky friends.
I’ve grouped the goals into a few loose categories, but there’s a lot of overlap and they’re in no particular order.
Some things aren’t on the list because I’ve already tried them and loved them and do them often, or because I’ve tried them and didn’t care for them, or because I’m just not interested in trying them.
Hopefully this goes without saying, but I’ll include it anyway: this isn’t an advertisement for partners to help with these things.
My husband and I have a circle of friends we play with, there are no secrets between us, and with a few exceptions we already have people in mind to help us with these goals. I’m not trolling for one time hook ups, or interested in cheating on him, or interested in meeting random partners.
In 2025 as a wife, I want to:
Spend more time in collared submission, focusing solely on his physical, verbal, and visual pleasure. This includes receiving facials, letting him pee on me, letting him share me while he watches, and letting him take pics of me in outfits, poses, and situations that he finds erotic.
Send him dirty texts and kinky pics of me as often as possible.
Meet him at the door on all fours once a month at a minimum.
Let him deny my orgasmic pleasure (restrained if he chooses) by teasing me with toys, his fingers, mouth, and cock while I beg or silently submit as he desires.
Let him deny my need to pee by having him control when and where I pee. Containers, diapers (including being diapered while out in public with him), outdoors, tub, shower, sink, or in my pants/panties/dress.
Go out in public with a remote control vibrator that he controls.
Let him restrain me for a set amount of time: diapers, orgasms, outfits, arousal, delayed pleasure, foreplay, teasing, tickling, photos, food play, toy play, and anything else he wants. A few hours to start, aiming for 24 whole hours or more by December 31, 2025.
Let him take me on a sexy vacation/trip/getaway where he can show my body off to strangers, fuck me in front of strangers, tease me in front of strangers, and make me cum in front of strangers. Nude beach, nude resort, swingers club, swingers house party, etc.
Arrange at least two fantasy weekend getaways for him with a partner where his specific fantasies/roleplays will be indulged to the hilt.
Let him arrange for me at least two fantasy weekend getaways for me. Possibilities: a man in his twenties, a woman in her twenties, two women (Grace and Kim?*), a married couple exploring. In any of these the goal is having my specific fantasies/roleplays acted out.
*not their real names of course but I know who I mean
In 2025 as a swinger, I want to:
Attend more events.
Bring at least one new couple into our circle.
Take a weekend getaway where we travel with another couple and swap partners for the whole trip, including pretending to be married.
Enjoy my best friends visit this spring to the fullest. Watch each other masturbate, spend a whole night cuddling in bed, spend a whole night together with my husband, pee together outdoors, pee together in diapers, take plenty of pics we can use to tease our husbands, invite our friend circle over so she and I can make love in front of them.
Visit/set up a handjob glory hole.
Edge two or more men at once.
Have a MFF threesome where I’m dominated by both of them.
Have a MFM threesome where they cum in/on me at the same time.
Have a MFF threesome where they both submit to me.
Explore more rope/bondage/restraint play.
Be diapered and desperate in front of two or more friends.
Be thoroughly spanked by multiple people in one long session.
Spend the night cuddling, kissing, making out, and teasing with at least two other women.
Engage in more outdoor play/exploration.
Explore more discreet public play.
Cock/ball worship in a threesome (MMF and FMF).
Cunt/clit/breast/nipple worship in a threesome (MFF and FFF).
In 2025 as a masturbation addict, I want to:
Practice deepthroating with my toys, working up in size and duration for my husband (Christmas Eve gift 2025!)
Try a fuck machine. Sybian maybe? (A gal can dream!)
Remote control vibe in public controlled by chat/cam/vid partner.
Engage in more outdoor masturbation.
Explore pushing our boundaries (wet, outfits, roleplay, dom/sub, toys, outdoors) with a regular cam/video partner.
Be intentional about setting aside time to devote to self-play.
Take more pics of myself dressing sexy/peeing/posing outdoors.
Just a few personal goals for 2025:
Get a tattoo
Another piercing
Biking
Hiking
Keep submitting erotica on Literotica! I love writing here and it fulfills me in ways I cannot even describe.
That’s what I’ve come up with over the past several days. I plan to revisit with edits and updates as the year goes along.
My husband and I are perverts, but we’re also ordinary people. To some in the swinging lifestyle we seem rather tame, and to a very small number we seem adventurous and boundary pushing. We’re happy together of course, but there’s always room to try more and learn!
I welcome your questions, or suggestions, or even your own list (and steal/borrow/take/copy from my list all you want to!).
I hope 2025 is your best year yet!
Love, IsabellaEmily
