Need help with sex/connection sites.

[Sea-man]

Are there any sites where you can meet a person interested in discrete sex, where you don't have to pay a fee?

Every sex/connect site I've found let you join for free, but you can't talk to anyone unless you pay a fee.

Are there any genuinely free sites?

 

[bi_curious6969]

Good question I too have been wondering that...

 

[jammy9991]

me to

 

[flyrv9]

Look into Craigslist in your area.

 

[hidden_self]

I second that. Craigslist is truly free.

Set up a separate email account to manage it, because you'll get a TON of spam. You may wish to specify what the subject line should be (or include) in your ad. For instance... "write 'Jimmy Loves Ice Cream' in your subject line so I know you're not a spammer!"

At the same time, the vast majority of the time Craigslist does not work. But, persist and you may get lucky. :-D

 

[Sea-man]

I second that. Craigslist is truly free.

Set up a separate email account to manage it, because you'll get a TON of spam. You may wish to specify what the subject line should be (or include) in your ad. For instance... "write 'Jimmy Loves Ice Cream' in your subject line so I know you're not a spammer!"

At the same time, the vast majority of the time Craigslist does not work. But, persist and you may get lucky. :-D

Thanks ... I'll try it.

 

[jkpel]

I heard that Craiglist can be full of trouble and fakers, so beware. I'm looking for the same thing myself, though am prepared to pay, but just started looking so if I find anything else I'll let you know.

Gumtree.com has dating and casual encounters section for people, but I heard that is worthless and a pain, this was a few years ago. Not sure if this has changed though.

 

[sows_ear]

Are there any sites where you can meet a person interested in discrete sex, where you don't have to pay a fee?

Every sex/connect site I've found let you join for free, but you can't talk to anyone unless you pay a fee.

Are there any genuinely free sites?

Craigs list

 

[spunkyE]

how about this site

truthfully post a want ad on this site.

your going to get a lot of spam pm's but you might find someone in your area or someone who is willing to travel.

at least you can get to know them a little by reading any posts and their profile and then go from there.

 

[qrayze]

I found my last two fuckbuddys on Craigslist. I didn't post an ad tho; just responded to the ads I liked.

 

[latifolium]

okcupid.com
It's free, it may cater more to actual relationships than you want, but it has a lot of people on it.

 

[CWatson]

adultmatchdoctor is free I think, and there's another one that I'm sure is free, but it also has about 3 people active at one time. That's the problem. Nothing that's free has large membership pools. (Also, the second one was essentially a front for AFF.com - it worked, you could send and receive emails and such, but they had a revenue deal and weren't shy about it.)

 

[Ladybugsjoy]

fetlife.com

 

[satindesire]

fetlife.com

Yes...sort of. Fetlife is more of a social networking site much like facebook, but there are some who use it much like a dating site.

Be warned about this, okay? Don't assume someone is looking for a partner JUST BECAUSE they're on the site. And read the profiles, for God's sake! That's one of the biggest complaints on there.

I personally must get three or four IMs a week from guys who didn't bother reading my profile.

 

[Ladybugsjoy]

Yes...sort of. Fetlife is more of a social networking site much like facebook, but there are some who use it much like a dating site.

Be warned about this, okay? Don't assume someone is looking for a partner JUST BECAUSE they're on the site. And read the profiles, for God's sake! That's one of the biggest complaints on there.

I personally must get three or four IMs a week from guys who didn't bother reading my profile.

That's one thing I make sure of.. to read profiles. There's also adultfriendfinder.com but you also get into the whole 'read the profile'. I have a LOT of couples contacting me but that's not the main thing I'm looking for.

 

[affabull]

plentyoffish . com is free and caters for all kinds of relationships..

 

[mtwain4u]

So, you're horny AND cheap?

jk