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[NyxAvatar68]

C.) Not hate on Male Teacher Female Student Grap- (Yeah that's not a real option. The real one is Make his threads and stories exclusive to dudes writing as chicks or make it all inclusive to both female writers and male writers playing as female to yield better results?
D.) Shut the fuck up and be patient (although I barely have zero patience left), there's always a diamond in the rough?

Out of all the options you presented, these are honestly the only two viable ones. A is literally just giving up, which, if you were going to pick that, you would've already done it a long time ago. B on the other hand has no complete chance of any changes, as you could easily just end up back in the exact same situation you're in now.

In my opinion, C is likely your best choice. I honestly don't understand the mentality of "the person behind the character must be the same gender" nonsense. You're roleplaying as a character, not as yourself. Why does the IRL gender of the person matter so much? If they can play the role convincingly enough, who cares what they got downstairs behind the keyboard? Last I checked, roleplaying is supposed to be a type of collaborative writing. You're not trying to date the person behind the character...or I at least hope you're not, because that'd be a bit weird.

However, if you are still insistent that the person behind the monitor must be an IRL woman and you refuse to budge on that point no matter what, then you literally only have one option, and that's D. You may end up waiting 3.000 years to get your desired result, but if you feel you can't do roleplays unless the character and real person are the same gender, then unless you diversify your base of operations, you'll have to gain saint-like patience.

If all else fails, you could do Option A, but in my opinion, I'd feel that'd be a waste. Even though I can't stand real world settings since they bore me, you got some pretty alright ideas going from what I've seen from lurking around, and it'd be a shame for those to be lost to the ether.

EDIT: Going back to that point earlier about "the person must be an IRL woman," how would you prove they are what they say they are? People lie on the internet all the time, and unless you request proof, it'd just seem weird making assumptions about one's gender.

 

[HornyIsh69]

You're not trying to date the person behind the character...or I at least hope you're not, because that'd be a bit weird.

Lol, I ain't trying to date the person behind the character. That's too much and "Fiction's one thing, Sure I wanna go there?" Cause everybody I chat with either has a significant other, or are divorced/single and riding their semifinal years like myself on the latter.

However, if you are still insistent that the person behind the monitor must be an IRL woman and you refuse to budge on that point no matter what, then you literally only have one option, and that's D. You may end up waiting 3.000 years to get your desired result, but if you feel you can't do roleplays unless the character and real person are the same gender, then unless you diversify your base of operations, you'll have to gain saint-like patience.

That's another thing, but I don't get why everybody else isn't told that, why is it just me here? I'm sure I pissed in someone's coffee in here for me to get told this.
EDIT: No, I totally get it, I'm the one getting grilled here. I did write the options so I'll be quiet here and listen.

If all else fails, you could do Option A, but in my opinion, I'd feel that'd be a waste.

Yes! Yes! Thaaaaank You. I never heard anyone say that'd be a waste in their opinion. That's more of a best answer than "You're better off chatting on some broken down old ass site, where the players a semi-mid to mid with writing. That's more of your speed". I feel like Option A would be a waste too.

Even though I can't stand real world settings since they bore me, you got some pretty alright ideas going from what I've seen from lurking around, and it'd be a shame for those to be lost to the ether.

Yeah, I am starting to get that most settings bore everybody, perhaps that's another reason why people overlook my shit like a wart on a proverbial asshole, but yes, point aside. It's be a shame for them to be lost to the ether. (Unless I save them on a note document on my phone or online elsewhere, but that is not the time or place for that explanation)

EDIT: Going back to that point earlier about "the person must be an IRL woman," how would you prove they are what they say they are?

From reading people's SRP profiles, but that's beside the point.

People lie on the internet all the time

You're actually right. People LIE on the Internet all the time. No one doesn't believe anything anymore

 

[HornyIsh69]

So, after reading the post above me, I figured and have decided........ Not to close up shop. That's a quitting phase and I decided not to quit. What if Michael Jackson quit moonwalking? What if Ponyboy quit being Golden? What if B.B. King quit "Lucille"? What if Kiss quit "Rock and Rolling all night and Partying everyday"? What if the Goonies quit saying "Never say Die"? Point is, I'm taking the high routes of options C and perhaps D to try a trial and error.