Reconnected with an old friend I once explored with

[curiousguy80]

I was exchanging texts with a guy I recently met (gave him my first BJ), and we were discussing things we were interested in trying with each other. He mentioned something he and a friend he's had since college do to each other. They take turns sliding their cocks through each others but cracks (not penetration), and they'll finish on each other's backs. This unlocked a memory I had from long ago.

A friend and I were looking through porn mags in my basement, and one of us got the idea to tear out a page, cut a hole where the models vag was, and hump each other's backsides. We did this a few times over the course of a summer. We also played truth or dare at some point, where we each dared each other to have our cocks in each other's mouths for 10 seconds.

After one session, we both felt what we were doing was "gay" and agreed to stop. One other time we almost did it again, but a friend came over so we couldn't. We didn't want him to know. After that, we never spoke of it again. He eventually moved away, we lost contact.

Recently I found him on social media, and I went to his house and met his family. We were reminiscing about how we used to hang out all the time, and he made a comment about remembering my basement. I brushed it off, but also wondered if he was trying to bring up what he and I did down there that summer. I'm sure he remembers what we did, while I forgot about it for sometime, I remember it now.

Has anyone reconnected with an old friend they experimented with at some point? Did you or the other person ever bring up your past memories of exploring? Did you begin to explore with other after reconnecting?

I'm struggling a bit with this. I know I won't bring it up at all in the near future. We literally just reconnected. There's been quite a few years since we had seen each other, I'd hate for him to react negatively towards me if I bring it up, and we lose touch again. I think if we're not within an earshot of other people and he brings up remembering my basement, I may make mention of the summer when we'd hang down there going through porn mags, and see where the conversation leads from there

 

[Dreadman1]

Sounds like you are doing it right. Take your time and see what happens.

P.S. But you have to report back here! LOL!

 

[Erick424344]

I was exchanging texts with a guy I recently met (gave him my first BJ), and we were discussing things we were interested in trying with each other. He mentioned something he and a friend he's had since college do to each other. They take turns sliding their cocks through each others but cracks (not penetration), and they'll finish on each other's backs. This unlocked a memory I had from long ago.

A friend and I were looking through porn mags in my basement, and one of us got the idea to tear out a page, cut a hole where the models vag was, and hump each other's backsides. We did this a few times over the course of a summer. We also played truth or dare at some point, where we each dared each other to have our cocks in each other's mouths for 10 seconds.

After one session, we both felt what we were doing was "gay" and agreed to stop. One other time we almost did it again, but a friend came over so we couldn't. We didn't want him to know. After that, we never spoke of it again. He eventually moved away, we lost contact.

Recently I found him on social media, and I went to his house and met his family. We were reminiscing about how we used to hang out all the time, and he made a comment about remembering my basement. I brushed it off, but also wondered if he was trying to bring up what he and I did down there that summer. I'm sure he remembers what we did, while I forgot about it for sometime, I remember it now.

Has anyone reconnected with an old friend they experimented with at some point? Did you or the other person ever bring up your past memories of exploring? Did you begin to explore with other after reconnecting?

I'm struggling a bit with this. I know I won't bring it up at all in the near future. We literally just reconnected. There's been quite a few years since we had seen each other, I'd hate for him to react negatively towards me if I bring it up, and we lose touch again. I think if we're not within an earshot of other people and he brings up remembering my basement, I may make mention of the summer when we'd hang down there going through porn mags, and see where the conversation leads from there

I had a friend in school that I did a similar thing with, using each other's cheeks for some pump action. He only allowed himself to cum on me once, and that was the last time we did it, but I still think about it often! I can't imagine seeing him again all these years later and trying to re-kindle that - or maybe I can imagine it!

 

[curiousguy80]

I had a friend in school that I did a similar thing with, using each other's cheeks for some pump action. He only allowed himself to cum on me once, and that was the last time we did it, but I still think about it often! I can't imagine seeing him again all these years later and trying to re-kindle that - or maybe I can imagine it!

That's similar to what happened to us. We each climaxed, and the initial embarrassment of what we had just done made us swear off trying again, although it almost happened one more time after that.

I should be clear here, the purpose of me reaching out to him was not to rekindle things between us. He and I were really good friends at one time, he moved, and eventually I moved. I've been searching for him for years, he's not on social media so it was not easy tracking him down. I've spoken about him often to my family, and when I met his wife and family, they were excited to meet the person he had told them so many stories about.

I have zero plans to bring up our exploration sessions in my basement, unless he does. I just know he has to be thinking of them, as I once did and have been again recently after my new friend told me of his prior experiences.

 

[Dreadman1]

I had a friend in school that I did a similar thing with, using each other's cheeks for some pump action. He only allowed himself to cum on me once, and that was the last time we did it, but I still think about it often! I can't imagine seeing him again all these years later and trying to re-kindle that - or maybe I can imagine it!

Yup. This is a great feeling, especially if you are lubed up nicely.

 

[Erick424344]

Yup. This is a great feeling, especially if you are lubed up nicely.

We were not aware of those things back then

 

[luvslingerie200]

one of my best friends was the first cock I sucked. chalk it up to exploration. I think he would be surprised to know that over the years I have continued to enjoy sucking cock. Neither of us speak about our earlier explorations.

 

[Dreadman1]

Neither of us speak about our earlier explorations.

It's a pretty consistent theme around here. I guess the question is "how do you bring it up...with minimized risk."

 

[dodgeboy2]

I was exchanging texts with a guy I recently met (gave him my first BJ), and we were discussing things we were interested in trying with each other. He mentioned something he and a friend he's had since college do to each other. They take turns sliding their cocks through each others but cracks (not penetration), and they'll finish on each other's backs. This unlocked a memory I had from long ago.

A friend and I were looking through porn mags in my basement, and one of us got the idea to tear out a page, cut a hole where the models vag was, and hump each other's backsides. We did this a few times over the course of a summer. We also played truth or dare at some point, where we each dared each other to have our cocks in each other's mouths for 10 seconds.

After one session, we both felt what we were doing was "gay" and agreed to stop. One other time we almost did it again, but a friend came over so we couldn't. We didn't want him to know. After that, we never spoke of it again. He eventually moved away, we lost contact.

Recently I found him on social media, and I went to his house and met his family. We were reminiscing about how we used to hang out all the time, and he made a comment about remembering my basement. I brushed it off, but also wondered if he was trying to bring up what he and I did down there that summer. I'm sure he remembers what we did, while I forgot about it for sometime, I remember it now.

Has anyone reconnected with an old friend they experimented with at some point? Did you or the other person ever bring up your past memories of exploring? Did you begin to explore with other after reconnecting?

I'm struggling a bit with this. I know I won't bring it up at all in the near future. We literally just reconnected. There's been quite a few years since we had seen each other, I'd hate for him to react negatively towards me if I bring it up, and we lose touch again. I think if we're not within an earshot of other people and he brings up remembering my basement, I may make mention of the summer when we'd hang down there going through porn mags, and see where the conversation leads from there

I am kind of in a similar situation although the guy & I did way more than experiment, we were together about a year and then split, we went our separate ways and I married over 40 years ago, still with her, he friended me on FB and we have messaged periodically, he has mentioned the old car, just an off handed remark nothing special just saying her remembers it fondly as well as another place we did many things at. He has never mentioned any acts but I do sometimes wonder if referencing that place and the car if there may be hints behind what he says. I am not weirded out about it but it's been in the back of my mind from time to time.

 

[Dreadman1]

he has mentioned the old car, just an off handed remark nothing special just saying her remembers it fondly as well as another place we did many things

When he brings something up like that just respond with, "ya, good times for sure. I still think of the good ol' days from time to time." Then see what he says. (Worked for me, btw.)

 

[dodgeboy2]

When he brings something up like that just respond with, "ya, good times for sure. I still think of the good ol' days from time to time." Then see what he says. (Worked for me, btw.)

I have contemplated that a few times but I don't know what I would do if he went either way with it, I mean if he pushed it towards wanting more what would I do and if he pushed it towards not wanting to then I might just feel dejected and then I lose the thing I might dream about every day!

 

[BiDrew42]

When I first got on Facebook, I reconnected with my middle/high school best friend. We were lovers for over three years back then and I have always had very fond memories of him. Our sexual explorations began when we were camping. When we connected on FB, my old friend asked me if I remembered our camping trips. I told him I remembered them very fondly. I was hoping for a more in-depth discussion of our sexual past. Unfortunately, he didn't respond as I hoped, mentioning he was very happily married. After that it was just birthday greetings and the occasional short discussion.

That was in 2008ish, I think. Fast forward to a few months ago, and he contacted me on FB messenger, once again asking me if I still thought about our camping adventures. This time I was a bit more forward, telling him I had often thought about our camping trips and sexual explorations, and that it always got me hard when I thought about it. He told me the memories had the same effect on him. That began some detailed reminiscing over the next few months. Turns out I was his only male lover, and he was a bit shocked when I told him about some of my experiences.

We have decided we are going to try and get together sometime later this year. He is still married, so he has to come to grips with cheating on his wife and also having sex with another male again. Back when we were lovers, his family was very religious and he constantly worried that we were going to hell for our sins. Every time we were fucking, he said it had to be the last time, but then a few days later he was back to fuck me again. I don't know how this will turn out - I have no expectation that we will actually have sex again - but I sure would like for it to happen!