Have any subs here engaged with a stranger and actually felt their safety was in doubt?
It happened to me.
A domme and I actually met after a few emails back and forth. I had her info from ten years ago but didn't have the nerve to follow through with a session. She recently let me know she wasn't active in the BDSM community anymore but would consider punishing me if the price was right. I'd have to pay her $400 and money for fuel. I live in Coeur d' Alene and she lives in Bonner's Ferry, ID (an hour north). Her schedule was limited since she watches her grandchildren during the week. But she was driving to Cd'A with her husband and they had a two hour window. I agreed and arranged a motel room. I'm not sure how many times she told me sex was out of the question. That was just fine by me. I needed to be punished and she is a sadistic woman. Not really attractive. Homely, in fact but she has giant boobs. She arrived in an older minivan 20 minutes after I checked in. Her husband helped carry her suitcase to our room and thankfully returned to the van. These people looked like white trash. Mistress moved quickly since we were short on time. She blamed being late on me since I didn't give her directions. Anyway, she had me strip naked. Then she put a gag in my mouth and handcuffed my wrists. She opened the bathroom door and had me rest my cuffed hands over the top so I was touching the door hinge. She took out a single-tail whip and went to work on me. After many, many strikes my back felt on fire. I didn't even here the door open as her husband returned. They chatted back and forth but it didn't slow her down. The husband went through my jacket and took out my wallet. I had $500 and he took all of it. I was getting scared for my safety. Really scared. Then he reminded her of the time and said something about Costco pharmacy and not wanting to drive in the dark. I was relieved when she stopped and unlocked my handcuffs and removed the gag. My backside was on fire as I got dressed. Thankfully they left with just the cash. Not sure I'll ever do that again.
It happened to me.
A domme and I actually met after a few emails back and forth. I had her info from ten years ago but didn't have the nerve to follow through with a session. She recently let me know she wasn't active in the BDSM community anymore but would consider punishing me if the price was right. I'd have to pay her $400 and money for fuel. I live in Coeur d' Alene and she lives in Bonner's Ferry, ID (an hour north). Her schedule was limited since she watches her grandchildren during the week. But she was driving to Cd'A with her husband and they had a two hour window. I agreed and arranged a motel room. I'm not sure how many times she told me sex was out of the question. That was just fine by me. I needed to be punished and she is a sadistic woman. Not really attractive. Homely, in fact but she has giant boobs. She arrived in an older minivan 20 minutes after I checked in. Her husband helped carry her suitcase to our room and thankfully returned to the van. These people looked like white trash. Mistress moved quickly since we were short on time. She blamed being late on me since I didn't give her directions. Anyway, she had me strip naked. Then she put a gag in my mouth and handcuffed my wrists. She opened the bathroom door and had me rest my cuffed hands over the top so I was touching the door hinge. She took out a single-tail whip and went to work on me. After many, many strikes my back felt on fire. I didn't even here the door open as her husband returned. They chatted back and forth but it didn't slow her down. The husband went through my jacket and took out my wallet. I had $500 and he took all of it. I was getting scared for my safety. Really scared. Then he reminded her of the time and said something about Costco pharmacy and not wanting to drive in the dark. I was relieved when she stopped and unlocked my handcuffs and removed the gag. My backside was on fire as I got dressed. Thankfully they left with just the cash. Not sure I'll ever do that again.