Spotting Male Cocksuckers

[NC_Coastal]

In the context of this thread, a light blue handkerchief worn on the left side indicates a cocksucker. Wearing it on the right indicates a cocksuckee. Unfortunately, around here, those may be worn by Tar Heel fans (I'll resist the obvious editorial comment).

All Tar Heel fans are cocksuckers.

 

[starfish71]

All Tar Heel fans are cocksuckers.

That’s true

 

[starfish71]

Questions I have seen this a lot at places. Is it really a signal that works? Inquiring mind would like to know.

Hard to say… I think at best it’s an invitation to start a conversation

 

[Britva415]

People who know about hankys are expecting to see hankys. I'm very doubtful that they would see something that's not a hanky, tied somewhere that's not a back pocket, and displayed in an environment that's not expected to be a gay cruising ground, and think to theirselves "hey, I wonder if that's something this person made up to stand in for a bandana. Imma go find out because I like the color and I like what side it's on."

Just learn how to cruise. Or, use the available cruising apps - they make it so easy you don't even have to know how to cruise.

These imaginary signals are too subtle.

Here's the other thing about hankys: They're really not used much at all for signaling an interest in cruising outside of an already well known and heavily populated cruising scene, like a bar or a Pride fair or a very, very busy park or an AA meeting on Christopher Street. What they're for is for making it easy to weed out who not to cruise, among many available options, because they're already showing whether they're into the same thing you are or not.

 

[starfish71]

People who know about hankys are expecting to see hankys. I'm very doubtful that they would see something that's not a hanky, tied somewhere that's not a back pocket, and displayed in an environment that's not expected to be a gay cruising ground, and think to theirselves "hey, I wonder if that's something this person made up to stand in for a bandana. Imma go find out because I like the color and I like what side it's on."

Just learn how to cruise. Or, use the available cruising apps - they make it so easy you don't even have to know how to cruise.

These imaginary signals are too subtle.

Here's the other thing about hankys: They're really not used much at all for signaling an interest in cruising outside of an already well known and heavily populated cruising scene, like a bar or a Pride fair or a very, very busy park or an AA meeting on Christopher Street. What they're for is for making it easy to weed out who not to cruise, among many available options, because they're already showing whether they're into the same thing you are or not.

Party pooper

 

[J1biboi]

All Tar Heel fans are cocksuckers.

But not all cocksuckers are Tar Heel fans.

 

[blazingsaddles69]

Hard to meet the right guy

 

[Britva415]

Party pooper

Quite the contrary!

If people were making these things because they wanted to hook up, they're going to party a lot more if they learn effective ways to hook up.

 

[guns4444]

Can i just raise my hand lol

 

[Jacktrew]

Not quite cocksucking, but mutual masterbation--I found this story (and a couple of other stories by this author) exceptionally hot.

https://www.literotica.com/s/my-first-buddy

The idea of recognizing another "freak" out in the streets is pretty cool to me. I also struggle to find guys in the wild and have to painstakingly set up encounters weeks, sometimes months ahead of time.

The idea of finding someone in the wild for an anonymous encounter is one of my top fantasies for me.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Not quite cocksucking, but mutual masterbation--I found this story (and a couple of other stories by this author) exceptionally hot.

https://www.literotica.com/s/my-first-buddy

The idea of recognizing another "freak" out in the streets is pretty cool to me. I also struggle to find guys in the wild and have to painstakingly set up encounters weeks, sometimes months ahead of time.

The idea of finding someone in the wild for an anonymous encounter is one of my top fantasies for me.

This story got me so hard!!!!

 

[Britva415]

Not quite cocksucking, but mutual masterbation--I found this story (and a couple of other stories by this author) exceptionally hot.

https://www.literotica.com/s/my-first-buddy

The idea of recognizing another "freak" out in the streets is pretty cool to me. I also struggle to find guys in the wild and have to painstakingly set up encounters weeks, sometimes months ahead of time.

The idea of finding someone in the wild for an anonymous encounter is one of my top fantasies for me.

That's crazy. I read the story and would not have expected the site the story talks about to be real. It seemed like just a fantasy idea.


But it is!

 

[need2please72]

maybe it's the way I spot the slightest bulge in the crotch area hoping for a big one to appear when I finally get those shorts off

 

[2wayroad]

That old hanky code is long gone. No one knows it anymore. Cruising in person is challenging these days, but it is also a rush that can be somewhat addicting. The subtleties are learned through experience, and a good portion of the guys are skittish, and reluctant to follow through. I’ve had some guys back out right at crunch time, their eyes darting around, and anxiety too high to succumb to the moment. Almost any guy within sight is there to give or get. I’ve even seen a voyeur woman or two hanging around cruising areas, for no apparent reason except to presumably watch.

 

[Jacktrew]

That's crazy. I read the story and would not have expected the site the story talks about to be real. It seemed like just a fantasy idea.


But it is!

I know! I damn near joined because of this story!

 

[BizTrav]

Gonna start working my way through the chart...

 

[OralAllOver]

A tip to spot a cocksucker:

it's me, hey, I'm enthusiastic cocksucker
it's me!

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Hard to meet the right guy

It is, not looking for a love interest, just a guy and maybe a buddy or two that are discreet and into having someone they can contact when they need to be served.

 

[J1biboi]

It is, not looking for a love interest, just a guy and maybe a buddy or two that are discreet and into having someone they can contact when they need to be served.

That would be the ideal situation but it's like trying to find a unicorn. Some guys seem to have that kind of luck but they are few and far between!

 

[MaturemanAJ]

That would be the ideal situation but it's like trying to find a unicorn. Some guys seem to have that kind of luck but they are few and far between!I totally

That would be the ideal situation but it's like trying to find a unicorn. Some guys seem to have that kind of luck but they are few and far between!

I totally agree with you. It's really too bad but if you can't host finding a married guy to serve is very difficult it seems.
Been I think almost 3 years now for me

 

[J1biboi]

I totally agree with you. It's really too bad but if you can't host finding a married guy to serve is very difficult it seems.
Been I think almost 3 years now for me

Three years is a long time but it would seem like yesterday compared to how long it has been for me.

 

[Shyguy694unow]

It's not the salad itself .....it's because you load the whole thing down with a creamy white dressing and lick the bowl afterwards....ha ha

I doo lol

 

[Shyguy694unow]

The side you wore wrist bands on were also a indicator of what you were looking for at the bathhouses and the gay resorts.

What side is the sucker's side lol

 

[MaturemanAJ]

Three years is a long time but it would seem like yesterday compared to how long it has been for me.

That sucks and not in a good way.
I am about ready to print out a business card with just my cell number on it for when I meet people in public

 

[J1biboi]

Worth a try!