Squirting questions

[Oshkosh60]

I have only had one partner who was a squirter.

At what age might you have discovered that you could squirt, is it something that continues to be a possibility as long as you are sexually active?

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife had one squirt once before I met her and it actually scared her.

We met when she was 54. I found a magic spot somehow without trying our first time in reverse cowgirl. Wasn’t even trying. Since then she has become a waterfall in any of the female on top positions and sometimes in doggy style and missionary.

In missionary, I have to rub her clit with my penis and it makes her squirt. In all other positions I’m hitting her gspot.

We have to put towels down. She can easily drench me w a few cups of water in a session where she is on top.

We have some vids a few pages back in our sex diary thread.

 

[EmmaPlease]

I discovered squirting at an age I can't mention here. It was completely inadvertent - going too hard with the handle of my hairbrush after being grounded - but it was another year before I figured out how to do it again.

Basically, fingers in pussy stroking upwards in a 'come here' gesture while kissing and having breasts licked seems to do the trick. As long as there's enough warm-up, I can do it with my husband or other partners at will. (Just hate the mess!)

 

[Oshkosh60]

Thanks Emma,

When you have orgasms and squirt, would you say they are more intense than other orgasms?

 

[ALovelyNudist]

If it’s okay to jump in and make a comment as well, for me I do have more intense orgasms when my lover or partner can make me squirt but it does vary depending on who they are and how they work me. I

 

[Lucien_Al]

Wife only squirted for the 1st time at 55. Now probably squirts about 1 out of every 10 times and we normally know within the first few minutes that she is going to squirt as she gets super wet.

 

[Oshkosh60]

Thanks Lovely,

And yes please jump in and thank you for your insights. I didn't know if that was the situation since I have had limited experience with the situation.

 

[EmmaPlease]

Thanks Emma,

When you have orgasms and squirt, would you say they are more intense than other orgasms?

Yes, definitely. But while I can orgasm repeatedly with clit stimulation or penetration (anal and vaginal), squirting usually only happens once per session.

And the urge seems to build up over time. After a week or two of squirting abstinence, it feels like I’m ready to explode. I’m sure it’s all psychological, but I imagine it’s something akin to blue balls.

 

[ALovelyNudist]

Thanks Lovely,

And yes please jump in and thank you for your insights. I didn't know if that was the situation since I have had limited experience with the situation.

I think it’s wonderful you are trying to learn about it.

 

[Oshkosh60]

Thank you Lucien,

Wow, it is amazing that you can suspect or anticipate it happening.

When I was 59 I had a good friend and we became intimate. Our relationship lasted about eight months, she was older (70) and a widow. I can't remember iif it happened the first few times but after it happened for the first time I know that always had a towel down. I guess I always liked when it happened, and it happened every time after the first. I enjoyed knowing that it was a good experience for her. And it also seemed to happen when there was some vibrator stimulation....I was just fascinated by the experience.

 

[Oshkosh60]

Gosh Emma,

That is amazing ! I hope to god it is not as bad as blue balls. Several times I've had them so bad that I couldn't have intercourse.... had to relieve myself manually before I could have sex which would then have to wait.

So, have you ever squirted when masturbating? Have you ever had the blue ball effect go so long that you also needed to take the edge off that way?

Thanks

 

[Lucien_Al]

Yes, definitely. But while I can orgasm repeatedly with clit stimulation or penetration (anal and vaginal), squirting usually only happens once per session.

And the urge seems to build up over time. After a week or two of squirting abstinence, it feels like I’m ready to explode. I’m sure it’s all psychological, but I imagine it’s something akin to blue balls.

Mine wife is the same. Only once per session and often it is so intense she needs to stop. Her face and tits are completely flushed and her heart rate goes through the roof.

 

[Oshkosh60]

I think it’s wonderful you are trying to learn about it.

Ah, I am so embarrassed to be ignorant about this this late in the game. But my ex-wife didn't , nor did several other lovers. I just had one partner who did.

For some reason I feel my current partner might be able to but it hasn't happened in five years (she is still teaching an old dog new tricks. I guess I am wondering if that might be a possibility.... Still exploring possibilities.

Thank you Lovely

 

[Oshkosh60]

Mine wife is the same. Only once per session and often it is so intense she needs to stop. Her face and tits are completely flushed and her heart rate goes through the roof.

Yeah, same with my former girlfriend....I thought I would have to invest in an oxygen mask...... it was pretty much cuddle time after that....

 

[Oshkosh60]

I think it’s wonderful you are trying to learn about it.

I am also hedging my bet.

I am getting older and I ask myself what will sex look like for me in the future ? When first married we could have sex three times a day (okay, you're right, it probably happened once like that). With my current partner I really had to change things up. She never orgasmed through penetration (we actually made it happen once by sliding a vibrator between us when I was inside her) but at sixty I had to learn to perform oral. That was a bit daunting as things are kinda of complicated down there. But if nothing else I am an eager student. It might have been more helpful if she would be a bit more vocal about her needs....she has a more 'figure it out ' teaching method.

But the bottom line is this....I want to please her..... and I know that I need to go back to the basics, hugs, kisses cuddling....not just as foreplay but throughout the day.... but I also want to make her feel the very best I can when we do have sex.

 

[EmmaPlease]

Gosh Emma,

That is amazing ! I hope to god it is not as bad as blue balls. Several times I've had them so bad that I couldn't have intercourse.... had to relieve myself manually before I could have sex which would then have to wait.

So, have you ever squirted when masturbating? Have you ever had the blue ball effect go so long that you also needed to take the edge off that way?

Thanks

I started masturbating very early, and that first squirt - while it felt amazing - was quite embarrassing. A year later, it happened again and then became a regular part of my evening ritual. (Sister’s in the shower? Grab a hairbrush and get pumping!) Thank God we had an ensuite with our own linen cupboard.

The first boy who gave me (good) oral consistently was also the first to make me squirt after I showed him. We were still virgins but he wasn’t grossed out - maybe just a little bit intimidated?

I try to hold off for my husband during his absence, but sometimes - well, my self-control isn’t always perfect.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

The first time I squirted was a little over a decade ago, and I didn’t even realize it was happening at first. Ex-fiancé was fingering me in the backseat of a parked car and I was having screaming orgasms and squirted him in the face He didn’t mind though, he was quite pleased with himself.

All efforts to repeat it in the following years were unsuccessful, both with partners or solo. My ex-BF made his previous ex-GF squirt so much she had to go to the ER for dehydration, but when he tried the same methods on me, he eventually wore himself out and said something like “well, that definitely should have made you squirt if you were able.” For context, this is the same guy who gave me 51 Os in one day, so he definitely wasn’t doing anything wrong, it just didn’t happen with us.

Then, about a month and a half ago, was letting my honey control both my Lovense Lush 3 and my clit sucker at the same time. The multiple Os were intense and incredible, and then it was his bedtime. When I went to get cleaned up and pulled them out, the little ridged tail of the clit sucker must have rubbed against my G-spot in just the right way, and I inadvertently squirted. Wish I was able to do it on command, but I guess I should feel lucky that it’s happened twice more for me than for most women

 

[Oshkosh60]

I started masturbating very early, and that first squirt - while it felt amazing - was quite embarrassing. A year later, it happened again and then became a regular part of my evening ritual. (Sister’s in the shower? Grab a hairbrush and get pumping!) Thank God we had an ensuite with our own linen cupboard.

The first boy who gave me (good) oral consistently was also the first to make me squirt after I showed him. We were still virgins but he wasn’t grossed out - maybe just a little bit intimidated?

I try to hold off for my husband during his absence, but sometimes - well, my self-control isn’t always perfect.

Oh gosh Emma, I am certain he was intimidated. Only later did he come to understand how lucky he was to experience that.

And as for masturbating every night back in the day..... that was me also. I seriously don't think I could have gone to sleep with out doing it. Always thoughts of my latest crush, or an instructor, or the Avon lady..... ha ha . Only now so many years later that I wonder what my mother thought when she did my linens ( "Damn Tom, we got a horny one on our hands.")

I can't wait to try on my partner ..... she has been gone a month and we had a quick and then she came down with a cold and now I have a cold.....hoping all this good information can be put to good use.

Thank you so much !

 

[Oshkosh60]

Thanks Kitty,

That 51 O's has to be a record. I am certain you wouldn't have been able to do anything but sleep (pass out?) after that. Multiple orgasms is definitely a source of vagina envy for me...... but then, would i get anything else done if I could have multiples? I doubt it. Here's to hoping there are more in your future and thank you.

 

[EmmaPlease]

The first time I squirted was a little over a decade ago, and I didn’t even realize it was happening at first. Ex-fiancé was fingering me in the backseat of a parked car and I was having screaming orgasms and squirted him in the face He didn’t mind though, he was quite pleased with himself.

All efforts to repeat it in the following years were unsuccessful, both with partners or solo. My ex-BF made his previous ex-GF squirt so much she had to go to the ER for dehydration, but when he tried the same methods on me, he eventually wore himself out and said something like “well, that definitely should have made you squirt if you were able.” For context, this is the same guy who gave me 51 Os in one day, so he definitely wasn’t doing anything wrong, it just didn’t happen with us.

Then, about a month and a half ago, was letting my honey control both my Lovense Lush 3 and my clit sucker at the same time. The multiple Os were intense and incredible, and then it was his bedtime. When I went to get cleaned up and pulled them out, the little ridged tail of the clit sucker must have rubbed against my G-spot in just the right way, and I inadvertently squirted. Wish I was able to do it on command, but I guess I should feel lucky that it’s happened twice more for me than for most women

51 orgasms in a day is….mind-boggling.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

51 orgasms in a day is….mind-boggling.

Yeah, that was definitely a 1-time event that was only possible because he was pushing my limits. I was already multiorgasmic, but when it’s just me, I normally tap out before 30 We were both ready to pass out by the time he was done with me!

 

[MastersSlut1882]

Yes, definitely. But while I can orgasm repeatedly with clit stimulation or penetration (anal and vaginal), squirting usually only happens once per session.

And the urge seems to build up over time. After a week or two of squirting abstinence, it feels like I’m ready to explode. I’m sure it’s all psychological, but I imagine it’s something akin to blue balls.

I agree about the needing to explode. Sometimes when playing alone or with Sir I just need to squirt. I need to release it.

I think I have always been able to squirt but held back until meeting my Master. I now squirt every time we fuck. Mostly from clitoral stimulation but also from touching my g spot. We have to have waterproof mattress protectors down.

When alone, again could squirt but hold off unless I have something to soak it up

 

[EmmaPlease]

Yeah, that was definitely a 1-time event that was only possible because he was pushing my limits. I was already multiorgasmic, but when it’s just me, I normally tap out before 30 We were both ready to pass out by the time he was done with me!

I would literally die at 20, let alone 30! You’re like Wonder Woman - absolutely amazing!

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

I would literally die at 20, let alone 30! You’re like Wonder Woman - absolutely amazing!

LMDAO I’ve never been called Wonder Woman for cumming so much, but thank you?! I’m in awe of you ladies who can squirt on demand though! I guess we all have our talents

 

[Oshkosh60]

That would be amazing....!

After it happens the first time.... does the thought "I might need to lay down a towel" come to mind or do you just take your chances? And would laying out a towel possibly raise expectations too high?