Starting something dirty with my cousin? Advice needed

[Johnny0841]

As I have been going through this site and letting my own imagination run wild, my thoughts keep return to my cousin. She and I have recently become closer, confiding in each other more and becoming "best friends" for lack of better term. Our relationship has been pure, without any talk of sexuality thus far, but after spending time on the site, my mind wanders to the possibilities if we were to make our relationship more Open in a sexual sense. Not sex but the lighter things, especially a lot of dirty talking in the start

Even Writing this post right now is getting me horny. I've had a growing fantasy this week that while I was sleeping over at her house or she at mine, she would come in the middle of the night for some water find me masturbating. because of the nature of our relationship, I know she wouldn't come over and watch me bluntly, but maybe she would watch discreetly. She would definitely be shy about the subject if I brought it up and that is part of the reason that it excites me.

Please advice on how to go about this and what I should do?

Now excuse me as I take care of the situation in my pants

 

[SweetErika]

Is you fantasy worth losing your "best friend" and relationships with other family members over?

Even if it is, you're saying you're sure she wouldn't be gung-ho about the idea of being in a sexual situation with you. That means it'd likely make her very uncomfortable. If you know that and persist, you're displaying predatory behavior that could harm your cousin. Do you want to be that asshole who fucks up her mind and relationships for life because you couldn't control your incestuous impulses?

 

[satindesire]

As I have been going through this site and letting my own imagination run wild, my thoughts keep return to my cousin. She and I have recently become closer, confiding in each other more and becoming "best friends" for lack of better term. Our relationship has been pure, without any talk of sexuality thus far, but after spending time on the site, my mind wanders to the possibilities if we were to make our relationship more Open in a sexual sense. Not sex but the lighter things, especially a lot of dirty talking in the start

Even Writing this post right now is getting me horny. I've had a growing fantasy this week that while I was sleeping over at her house or she at mine, she would come in the middle of the night for some water find me masturbating. because of the nature of our relationship, I know she wouldn't come over and watch me bluntly, but maybe she would watch discreetly. She would definitely be shy about the subject if I brought it up and that is part of the reason that it excites me.

Please advice on how to go about this and what I should do?

Now excuse me as I take care of the situation in my pants

You don't do anything.

You will damage the relationship between yourself and her, and several other family members, PERMANENTLY. Let it be a fantasy, but DO NOT act on it, EVER. She will not accept your sexual advances, and she WILL tell other people in your family. You WILL be an outcast and no one will trust you again.

Trying to sleep with her is not worth the sheer amount of damage it will cause you and your family's lives. Period.

 

[silverwhisper]

dude, people talk about gangbangs with complete strangers on lit, too. how many people do you actually know in real life who've done one, though? a whole lotta people apparently really dig on incest as a kink. but in the real world, all it is is a surefire way of alienating anyone who knows you. and disgusting the hell out of them into the bargain.

lit isn't real life. it's a very, very different thing. please don't make the mistake of mistaking it for real life.

ed

 

[Eilan]

As I have been going through this site and letting my own imagination run wild

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You joined the boards four days ago. I know there's a lot to take in and it's easy to get that kid-in-a-candy-store feeling around here (OMGPR0NSEXBOOBIESHAWTCOUSINS!!!!!), but you should try to remember that most of what's posted on Lit is a combination of hot air and wishful thinking.

Think with your big brain and don't fuck up your family dynamics.