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EllAyyBee

EllAyyBee

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I'm a tantric masochist submissive. I've belonged to a few doms and only when I'm owned do I truly come alive for my Sir. It's been a year since my last Dom shattered my trust and ended our connection, which was an intense and very deep one. I've been struggling with sub drop ever since. I've given myself time to heal and fully detach myself from his power. I've felt for a while now that a part of me is incomplete. I need to be nurtured by a gentle Dom. I miss the mental connection and trust. I miss relinquishing control to my Sir, and living each day with his wishes in mind so that I may please him. I miss belonging to a capable Dom who genuinely wants my devotion.

I'm married. I have kids. These two things obviously come first. I'm polyamorous, our marriage is open. We each pursue our own interests. He cannot fulfill my needs to be controlled and nurtured, so I seek that elsewhere. What I have between my Dom and I will be private, it isn't just for shits and giggles, and will be for just he and I. This may be an online only relationship, online with texting and phone calls, or if luck permits, it could be in person.

I'm not interested in humiliation. I'm very eager to please. I enjoy the reward of hearing the words, "good girl", and will do anything to hear them.
 
Were you also a cliche as a boy?

EllAyyBee said:
I'm a tantric masochist submissive. I've belonged to a few doms and only when I'm owned do I truly come alive for my Sir. It's been a year since my last Dom shattered my trust and ended our connection, which was an intense and very deep one. I've been struggling with sub drop ever since. I've given myself time to heal and fully detach myself from his power. I've felt for a while now that a part of me is incomplete. I need to be nurtured by a gentle Dom. I miss the mental connection and trust. I miss relinquishing control to my Sir, and living each day with his wishes in mind so that I may please him. I miss belonging to a capable Dom who genuinely wants my devotion.

I'm married. I have kids. These two things obviously come first. I'm polyamorous, our marriage is open. We each pursue our own interests. He cannot fulfill my needs to be controlled and nurtured, so I seek that elsewhere. What I have between my Dom and I will be private, it isn't just for shits and giggles, and will be for just he and I. This may be an online only relationship, online with texting and phone calls, or if luck permits, it could be in person.

I'm not interested in humiliation. I'm very eager to please. I enjoy the reward of hearing the words, "good girl", and will do anything to hear them.
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He views you as a boy. Your picture made me think of my little sister. Not a boy.
 
Am I the only one humming a Doors tune in their head right now? :D
 
Update/Edit

If you're a confident dom, it seems common sense that you'll be confident enough to send me a picture of yourself. Believe it or not, I'm very aware of what I'm looking for. Don't jerk me around for hours in chat and then play shy when it comes to the picture. MY face picture is there for anyone to see on my kik profile. How can I see trust in your eyes if you are too shy to show me? Sorry guy, but this screams fake to me. Probably feels empowering to call yourself a dom. But put up or shut up. Those of us real D/S folks can see straight through it.

Be confident. Tell me who you are in your role. Share pictures, it's not a big request.

Be the dominant I need, and the dominant you claim to be. Otherwise, GTFO and go play Barbies or something.
 
Humpty Bumpty had a great post.
Humpty Bumpty needed friendship the most.
Of all the Lit voices and all the Lit men,
They couldn't put Humpty together again.

Get it? Bumpty? Cuz it's a bump? I really am only funny when I don't try. This is not the case lol
 
EllAyyBee said:
If you're a confident dom, it seems common sense that you'll be confident enough to send me a picture of yourself. Believe it or not, I'm very aware of what I'm looking for. Don't jerk me around for hours in chat and then play shy when it comes to the picture. MY face picture is there for anyone to see on my kik profile. How can I see trust in your eyes if you are too shy to show me? Sorry guy, but this screams fake to me. Probably feels empowering to call yourself a dom. But put up or shut up. Those of us real D/S folks can see straight through it.

Be confident. Tell me who you are in your role. Share pictures, it's not a big request.

Be the dominant I need, and the dominant you claim to be. Otherwise, GTFO and go play Barbies or something.
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Sorry to hear that you're having a rough time with responses. I too have had my share of peculiar interactions in response to my personals ad — ladies who seem very interested at first but then cut and run suddenly for no apparent reason. I think it just comes with the territory.

Please be reassured that I think your advert is a good one. If there's anyone out there who fits the bill, then they should eventually find you. Unfortunately, you might have to kiss a few frogs first — ones that turn out to be frogs. ;)

Good luck — and have a free bump! :)
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Well you should have lots of guys to chat with why are you out here belittling the guys who wrote you. Oh well speaks a lot about you lady.
 
ArthurW said:
Well you should have lots of guys to chat with why are you out here belittling the guys who wrote you. Oh well speaks a lot about you lady.
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Let me also add, for the audience, that you've been bowing up my phone since the very first day I began posting. You didn't seem to have any issues with who I am.
 
Your av sort of drives me to ask this question:are you into impact play?
 
Have I. Let's see asked about your kids and your husband. Then said good night. After that wished you a good day. Then told you that you had two hours to play. I really blowing up your phone. Oh well thats what you call blowing up your phone.
 
ArthurW said:
Good put me down for it.
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Shut the fuck up Arthur, you creep. You're the asshole that stalked a poster over to Fet-life and keep denying you are married, despite having initially having had the joint email address for you and your wife, Kay listed here. No one needs you to tell them to "have fun, lady!" or to be told when to capitalize PYL or to lowercase pyl.

Just leave and never come back. If death by ass-cancer is in the offing, do what you can to hasten it.
 
Conager said:
Shut the fuck up Arthur, you creep. You're the asshole that stalked a poster over to Fet-life and keep denying you are married, despite having initially having had the joint email address for you and your wife, Kay listed here. No one needs you to tell them to "have fun, lady!" or to be told when to capitalize PYL or to lowercase pyl.

Just leave and never come back. If death by ass-cancer is in the offing, do what you can to hasten it.
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Thanks :) He told me he's married too. Weird.
 
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