Kasumi_Lee
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I occasionally like to watch a porn video for story inspiration or for fun with my husband, and reverse cowgirl is one of my favorite sex positions on video - but only on video.
Porn is obviously meant to be a spectacle. It's a visual performance for the viewer which necessarily involves the performers getting into positions most normal couples wouldn't use, and reverse cowgirl is a perfect example. Aesthetically speaking, reverse cowgirl looks gorgeous, especially in high-quality productions. The woman is foregrounded and centered, showing us the expressions on her face, her bouncing breasts and bare belly, her exposed pussy and legs spread wide with a cock thrusting up in between them. The man is mostly doing the work of fucking her, but he's obscured by the female performer. We only see him below the waist, and that's all we need to see of him; his legs spread wide, his cock penetrating her from below, and his balls bouncing with the force of his thrusting.
Having said all that, I feel that reverse cowgirl is one of those positions that's better in porn than in the bedroom. My husband and I try it once or twice in a blue moon, and it always tires my arms and legs out keeping myself balanced and staying propped up while he fucks me from below. His arms are a lot stronger than mine, but propping my body up is still tiring for him while also coordinating his hip thrusting. It feels like a lot of extra work for both of us whenever we try it, and because we don't fuck for an audience, nobody gets to enjoy the sight of me fully frontally nude. I also don't get to face my husband and interact with him eye-to-eye, which is pretty important to me during sex.
These are obviously my own thoughts. Has anyone else tried reverse cowgirl? Do you enjoy it?
Porn is obviously meant to be a spectacle. It's a visual performance for the viewer which necessarily involves the performers getting into positions most normal couples wouldn't use, and reverse cowgirl is a perfect example. Aesthetically speaking, reverse cowgirl looks gorgeous, especially in high-quality productions. The woman is foregrounded and centered, showing us the expressions on her face, her bouncing breasts and bare belly, her exposed pussy and legs spread wide with a cock thrusting up in between them. The man is mostly doing the work of fucking her, but he's obscured by the female performer. We only see him below the waist, and that's all we need to see of him; his legs spread wide, his cock penetrating her from below, and his balls bouncing with the force of his thrusting.
Having said all that, I feel that reverse cowgirl is one of those positions that's better in porn than in the bedroom. My husband and I try it once or twice in a blue moon, and it always tires my arms and legs out keeping myself balanced and staying propped up while he fucks me from below. His arms are a lot stronger than mine, but propping my body up is still tiring for him while also coordinating his hip thrusting. It feels like a lot of extra work for both of us whenever we try it, and because we don't fuck for an audience, nobody gets to enjoy the sight of me fully frontally nude. I also don't get to face my husband and interact with him eye-to-eye, which is pretty important to me during sex.
These are obviously my own thoughts. Has anyone else tried reverse cowgirl? Do you enjoy it?