HisInfinity
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- Joined
- Jul 30, 2016
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This is an updated repost of an ad from 5 years ago…
I know that you are looking at the post count and thinking – “Yeah, right. This is so not a chick.” But, I promise that I am. This user name is new, but I’m not. I’ve been around this place for years – and I will tell you who I am if we talk. I’m not trying to hide or be someone else, but there are preconceived notions up in here and I wanted this ad to be a clean slate.
So, what I am and what I want? That’s the next box that I need to check off for one of these ads, right? Seriously, I have a lot of posts, and none of them are ads, so bear with me (or bare with me if that’s in the cards later) because I’m new at this.
*deep breath* Okay, here goes. I’m a late 50s mom of two grown kiddos in a marriage that is unfulfilling but im not planning on changing anything. I’m not happy, but recent events in my life have made me realize that I deserve to be happy. I also have a deep need to be submissive.
The problem is, so far, my forays into the D/s dynamic haven’t worked out very well. But I’m no quitter! So I’m giving this another go in hopes that I can find THE ONE who can figure out what to do with me, because so far, no one has.
I’m looking for a smart man who can make me laugh and then make me all warm and squirmy. A man who I can trust with my deepest secrets without any fear of judgment. A man who knows who he is and what he wants and isn’t afraid to demand it.
I want a connection. Someone who cares about my day, as well as craves to hear me beg. I want to be someone’s infinity – the beginning and end of their day, their happiness, their desire, their want, their fulfillment as a Dominant.
What I am NOT looking for is a man who craves to degrade and humiliate. A man who thinks that “bitch” and “whore” are terms of endearment. A man who desires more than giving a good spanking or pull of the hair to cause pain.
I have a busy life with a job, an active family, and am working to change my life. While seeking this is one step in that change, I am not available 24/7. That being said, I also am very loyal and when I connect with someone there is little I wouldn’t do for them. I will always find time.
I am a smart and sassy woman, and want someone who can keep up with me and who can understand that my need to submit doesn’t mean that I hide that side of myself, but will embrace it and exploit it to their benefit. I want to have conversations as well as some one-sided exchanges where we both enjoy the time we spend together.
I’m sure that I could keep going on, but I’ve covered the most important things for me. PM me if anything that I’ve said inspires you. Or you know, if you need to correct my grammar, or want a really good recipe for lasagna (okay, I am a terrible cook, so that probably won’t happen). I will try to answer all serious PMs (and if you can make me smile, then you have a better chance – just a hint.)
I know that you are looking at the post count and thinking – “Yeah, right. This is so not a chick.” But, I promise that I am. This user name is new, but I’m not. I’ve been around this place for years – and I will tell you who I am if we talk. I’m not trying to hide or be someone else, but there are preconceived notions up in here and I wanted this ad to be a clean slate.
So, what I am and what I want? That’s the next box that I need to check off for one of these ads, right? Seriously, I have a lot of posts, and none of them are ads, so bear with me (or bare with me if that’s in the cards later) because I’m new at this.
*deep breath* Okay, here goes. I’m a late 50s mom of two grown kiddos in a marriage that is unfulfilling but im not planning on changing anything. I’m not happy, but recent events in my life have made me realize that I deserve to be happy. I also have a deep need to be submissive.
The problem is, so far, my forays into the D/s dynamic haven’t worked out very well. But I’m no quitter! So I’m giving this another go in hopes that I can find THE ONE who can figure out what to do with me, because so far, no one has.
I’m looking for a smart man who can make me laugh and then make me all warm and squirmy. A man who I can trust with my deepest secrets without any fear of judgment. A man who knows who he is and what he wants and isn’t afraid to demand it.
I want a connection. Someone who cares about my day, as well as craves to hear me beg. I want to be someone’s infinity – the beginning and end of their day, their happiness, their desire, their want, their fulfillment as a Dominant.
What I am NOT looking for is a man who craves to degrade and humiliate. A man who thinks that “bitch” and “whore” are terms of endearment. A man who desires more than giving a good spanking or pull of the hair to cause pain.
I have a busy life with a job, an active family, and am working to change my life. While seeking this is one step in that change, I am not available 24/7. That being said, I also am very loyal and when I connect with someone there is little I wouldn’t do for them. I will always find time.
I am a smart and sassy woman, and want someone who can keep up with me and who can understand that my need to submit doesn’t mean that I hide that side of myself, but will embrace it and exploit it to their benefit. I want to have conversations as well as some one-sided exchanges where we both enjoy the time we spend together.
I’m sure that I could keep going on, but I’ve covered the most important things for me. PM me if anything that I’ve said inspires you. Or you know, if you need to correct my grammar, or want a really good recipe for lasagna (okay, I am a terrible cook, so that probably won’t happen). I will try to answer all serious PMs (and if you can make me smile, then you have a better chance – just a hint.)
