To three some or not to Three some?!

[DemonLucifer]

For quite some time now my wife have been talking more and more about what we would like to do in been, and most of them we have tried and lliked. But there is one question/fantasy that we both aren't sure we want to do. We have a wonderful relationship and everything is very very good right now. I love her very very much and dont want to do anything she doesnt want to do, other than in bed (she has said anything goes and if she didnt like it she'd let me know) Which is great!! I would do nothing to break us up or make her not trust me becuse she is the woman of my dreams. She is very beautiful, Kind, caring, cooks, cleans but she loves to work. she has all the qualitys of a house wife but none of the mind set. Which i love most about her.

Over some time now we have talked about a three some that is female,female, male. Yes I am your tipical male at this, as in i want to do it and i think it would be a good experiance. but and i mean a big but, i also think that its just good in my head and really wouldnt be in life. My wife also thinks the same way but she also thinks that she might be bi and wants to find out if she likes the feel of another woman (which makes me horny as hell) She also gets horny when i talk about what we would do if it ever happened which gets me horny as well.

I love my wife so much because she's not your typical woman. Most woman would be mad if there man looks let alone talk about another woman but not her (the same goes for me she can look and talk about other men, i really dont care) because we both feel that we would do anything, Hell our love is just that strong, I am also very greatfull to have found such a wonderful woman why the hell would I want to do something to fuck this relationship up i want to do everything i can to make it stronger.

So I ask you fellow Lit people for some help. I would like to know how your experiance's have been with a female female male three somes, the good the bad all of it, I know that ill probably get alot of you whom had bad experiances and want to talk us out of it but i assure you that we will not part for some other person. Its just and experiance we would like to try out. We love each other very very much to hurt our relationship. I just want your experiance's and nothing more we are adults and would like to make up our own minds.

I thank you all in advance for your help In making our decision.

 

[KinkyDaisy]

I see no one has responded to you .. which i find odd, so i will.

My guy and i struggle with the same questions that you have posed here. I have been with a woman .. once this summer, and the experience was not a great one for me. She is beautiful, sexy, and willing to "play" with us in any manner we choose. Just her and I, her and I and he watches, or playing with both of us; she would be up for any of it.

My hang ups about this come from not having strong enough bi feelings myself to enjoy her on my own again. The only way i could find any satisfaction out of a ffm encounter would be from the feelings i get from pleasing my man. His energy feeds me .. so when he is turned on by something i will be also .. no matter if i like it alone or not.

On the other hand ... call him crazy but he could have this whenever he wanted and he doesent want it. Its great for him in our fantasy life and maybe someday when the time is right we will, but for now it would still feel as if he were being unfaithful if we went through with it. Besides that he is worried that something might be taken away from our fantasy life if things did not go well. We have one hell of a fantasy life, one that we both treasure, so to guard it and maybe have to forsake some experience .. feels right to both of us.

If your wife wants to explore her bisexual feelings .. being thrown in a 3some is not the best way to do that anyways. I mean the first experience she had with a guy wasent all at once, was it? Probably not. It started with maybe her hand being held, progressed to a kiss .. and so on and so forth. Let her take it a step at a time so she is able to process what her feelings truly are.

I really believe this should either be thought out extensively .. or "just happen". In between that .. is the trouble.

Good luck with whatever you decide.

 

[DemonLucifer]

I Thank you for your response and this isnt something we have thoght about lightly. We really try and think things through before doing them. And Really the decision of an ffm or just ff is up to her because I dont want to push something she doesnt want to do.

She has had many fantasys about her me and another woman tho and has had an interest in it, I will how ever ask her how she would like to be with just another woman with me out of the pic because she has not mentioned any thoghts about an ff before an ffm. We have thought about this long and hard and will keep thinking about it and if we choose to got throught with it we would want to get to know the other woman before just jumping into it with some stranger we would feel better in knowing them first. i thank you for your imput.

 

[your_Silverado]

I would vote that one on one would be the best for me.

 

[asian_princess]

bumping because it's the last thread in the playground and i'm feeling...restless

 

[DemonLucifer]

ok then