Turn ons and jobs

[Lovernotkiller]

Question for you ladies

What kind of job seems appealing to you when you meet a guy?

And if your up to it, feel free to write down any turn ons a guy can do on a date.


Yes this helps me, thanks,
Joe

 

[badattitude]

What are you going to do? Just make up what sounds like an appealing job in order to impress a woman?

My boyfriend manages and cleans portapotties. Grosses a lot of people out but doesn't bother me in the least, because he's a good and decent man. And great in bed.

Turns on while on a date? Good hygiene, politeness, nice to the waitstaff, and humor are always good. It's not good if I'm embarrassed to be seen with you in some fashion or another.

Good luck!

 

[sunandshadow]

Yeah, people looking for a one-night stand probably don't care about job, and people looking for a long term relationship will not appreciate being lied to. I suppose a job which earns a lot of money could be appealing, but it's much easier just to wave some money around. And a job which is related to a subject the woman is interested is often appealing, but if you don't actually have that job you won't be able to talk about it, and it will backfire.

 

[grrrrrl]

Lying on a date is a big turn off!

 

[Lovernotkiller]

Ok sunandshadow kinda has what i'm going for. Except I'm not looking to lie. I'm fresh out of highschool and have plenty ideas of what i wanted to do , need to cross some out, so obviously if one of my ideas were to say "sound appealing" to any ladies, then i might look more into it.

Because because because haha, i took this girl out the other night to a fancy sushi(sp) restraunt, and she was talking about what she WAS doing and i just stated what i wanted to do (or one of the many things) and she kinda had that "i have no idea what that is" look lol. So yea, maybe next time i ll know what a i'll want to do.

As for asking about turn ons, it's just always interesting to know what turns people on

thanks,
Joe

 

[done_got_old]

The biggest turn off is lying.

The biggest turn on is conversation. The ability to talk about a variety of topics is a plus. A real turn on is the ability to listen and understand a view that doesn't agree with yours. Friendly debate is another turn on.

 

[badattitude]

Ok sunandshadow kinda has what i'm going for. Except I'm not looking to lie. I'm fresh out of highschool and have plenty ideas of what i wanted to do , need to cross some out, so obviously if one of my ideas were to say "sound appealing" to any ladies, then i might look more into it.

Don't pick a job because it might "sound appealing" to the ladies!! Pick a job based on your interests and aptitudes, otherwise you will be one miserable mofo.

 

[Tequila Sunrise]

Don't pick a job because it might "sound appealing" to the ladies!! Pick a job based on your interests and aptitudes, otherwise you will be one miserable mofo.

This is very true. Remember that the difference between your partner and your job is that after a couple of years, your job is still going to suck!

 

[Lovernotkiller]

well

well, i wouldnt go out and pick a random job, i would just see if any of the many job ideas i have an interest for, also interest someone else.

I notice the whole conversation thing, but im wondering if you could get so far into a conversation with someone you might become more friends then a couple ? I dunno just a thought. The girl i'm with right now says we are chill buddies (with benefits ah thank you). So i dunno what i did right or wrong there.

thanks,
Joe