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gamermaster29

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Greetings,

A very good morning/afternoon/evening/night. My name is Gamermaster or GM. For those interested, I'll be leaving any information regarding me, what I'm looking for, what you can expect. Here goes nothing!

About me:
As far as my real name goes, that's not important right now. I will tell you my first name once we get to that level of trust. I'm thirty years old, stand at a height of six feet. I have short blonde hair, greenish blue eyes. I have about ten years of online dom experience. As far as my vanilla and every day life goes, I work at a local sub shop currently but have a degree in Computer Information Systems. With that said, I have transitioned to working mornings, so I am looking for subs and/or slaves that are available in the afternoon/evening EST.

I am the quintessential geek. I play video games EVERYDAY without fail, new comic book day is Wednesday just so everyone knows, and yes I am a Jedi.

I find everything interesting, and I always analyze things from an objective view. You can bring up a topic from no where and I probably have some kind of knowledge about it. From Star Trek to animal care, I find it fun to know a little about everything.

My sexual likes:
Likes: humilation/degrading, moderate and hidden public, clothes fetish/wardrobe control, orgasm denial/chastity

What I'm looking for/expect from you:
I'm looking for a loyal FEMALE submissive who's willing to push her limits for me. A couple of things that I expect from my submissive is to be active. I know you don't have all the time in the world to invest into me, but I atleast expect to hear from you on a daily basis. An hour conversation is enough for this, really. What I also expect is for my submissive is to be honest with me. A long-term relationship like this is built out of trust, so lying to me will not make me want to keep you around. I'm searching for those who are willing to do daily tasks and one on one guided sessions, varying from edges, to semi/hidden public to other forms of masturbation (or not).

Another thing I expect from my submissive is that she's willing to either share pics (face doesn't have to be included, but bonus points if you do), videos or even just audio. I've seen too many boys making fake profiles on here stating that they are 'girls' only to be revealed when they don't want to send pictures for proof and I'm loath that. I know that this will take time, so don't worry about that. I allow my submissives to basically pace out what they're comfortable with. Examples of this include sending pictures of your clothing folded on the floor of the bathroom stall I just instructed you strip in. So, if you're uncomfortable with sending pictures, maybe think twice before sending me a PM.

What can you expect from me?:
You can expect my trust, my kindness and my friendship/love once a proper relationship is made between us. Once you start showing disobedience that's when I change into a more strict dominant in order to make you listen. I don't mind someone being bratty occasionally out of playfulness, but if it happens too often, or you do it just to simply spite me, then I'm sorry; I'm probably not meant to be your dominant.

How to contact me:
If you're interested, please send me a PM on here. Including a bit about yourself, particularly your kinks and limits, so I know if we'll be a match or not, would be prudent as well.

This was everything that I've really needed to tell you. If there are any questions left unanswered, don't hesitate to shoot me a PM. I'm a friendly guy, just looking for both love and lust at the same time. I don't bite, unless you kinkily ask me. For now, this is goodbye.

Yours truly,

GM
 
Agreed!

Friendly bump! Don't miss one of the good ones ladies!


~Good day,
I'm no expert, but I feel like I can and should chime in here. We haven't known each other SO long, but we have known each other pretty deeply.
I can tell you this: if you are looking for a man to... assign "tasks" look for "evidence" ... yeah... this may not be the man for you. "You get what you put in"... so maybe what I got out of it wouldnt be what everyone does. With me, I found a man who was kind, caring, generous, thoughtful, patient, polite, witty, intelligent, considerate, and responsible. A man who wanted to be involved in my life: from work, kids, home, family, health... pills to bills and everything in between. Not because he was nosey, not at all... but because he CARED. Genuinely CARED. He takes it seriously the things I allowed him to be responsible for/be involved in... but to do that you have to COMMUNICATE. That is what he is after. So if you want someone to care. To listen. To understand. To want to know YOU... and you think you might have some common interests to build on... talk to him. If you want to hide behind the mask... to only show the sunshine and rainbows, kink and play... dont. Similarly, drama queens need not apply. He will be there for the hard times. He has held my hand through a hospital trip with my daughter... and much much more... but no needless drama please. Then, at the same time... you need to actually want to deal with a PERSON. Guess what, there will be days that he needs to talk too. Days when he is busy. Days when he could use a friend.... if you are willing to put yourself in the relationship, I really believe you will find a person well worth it.

Someone on another thread equated his post with someone looking to "assign tasks" and looking for photographic "evidence"...

I think I take exception to the use of the words "tasks" and "evidence". Nothing we ever did felt like a "chore". *LOL* I mean it took far too long to get me to SMILE, but that had more to do with my own insecurities. And yes, I was a bit of a mess after a day of edging myself every hour... but calling it as "task" is a bit much. (you know you like in *place*when you HEAR the wind start and taste the sand at the same time and just go CRAP... *run to close all the windows as the sandstorm starts :/ I hate the summer here :/)

The poster asked "In return she gets...love? What is she getting from you? I think if you provide some examples it might help more people understand."

In return she gets? ... you get what you put in. I got to know an amazing man who made me feel: loved, cherished, appreciated, desired, needed, wanted, special, cared about, respected, and much more. I got a friend. I got to know a Dominant that made me WANT to please him. I dont know what YOU will get. YOU determine that :/

Then again, in the beginning we had this whole conversation about time... and timezones... he said he'd be getting much less sleep... probably be a zombie... but we'd make it work. I laughed and said "um no.... no that is not how that works... I WILL MAKE IT WORK. I will find the time. I explained that that "is how it is supposed to work... isn't it?" He laughed wryly and said "so I've been told, but that isnt how it usually works out." My point being... if you look at things like "what am I going to get out of it" ... well... I dont understand that mentality....

As for me... I really enjoyed knowing him, and spending time. I really feel blessed. Right now I have to reinvest my time and energy into my family. I'm working on salvaging my marriage for the sake of my daughter. This is something he understands and supports. That said, he deserves to be happy. So if you think that any of that sounds like the kind of Dominant you have been looking for... take the time to put yourself out there and see if he is your cup of tea, and vice versa. If you are, and if you put yourself in it... you will be a lucky person. ... and I might want to scratch your eyes out... just a little.... Hey, I'm only human. ;)

~Bless.
from Angel
 
Thank you, Angel. I can not begin to describe what your words mean to me.

Due to unfortunate circumstances alluded to by Angel, my search has start once again...
 
I just wanted to clarify something, if I may? Are you looking for online only or RL if possible?
 
Hi VelvetBubbles,
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I just wanted to clarify something, if I may? Are you looking for online only or RL if possible?

I’m looking for online transitioning to IRL as we’re more comfortable (and it’s convienent).

Like Angel said the best way to get my attention is PM.
 
~Good day,
I'm no expert, but I feel like I can and should chime in here. We haven't known each other SO long, but we have known each other pretty deeply.
I can tell you this: if you are looking for a man to... assign "tasks" look for "evidence" ... yeah... this may not be the man for you. "You get what you put in"... so maybe what I got out of it wouldnt be what everyone does. With me, I found a man who was kind, caring, generous, thoughtful, patient, polite, witty, intelligent, considerate, and responsible. A man who wanted to be involved in my life: from work, kids, home, family, health... pills to bills and everything in between. Not because he was nosey, not at all... but because he CARED. Genuinely CARED. He takes it seriously the things I allowed him to be responsible for/be involved in... but to do that you have to COMMUNICATE. That is what he is after. So if you want someone to care. To listen. To understand. To want to know YOU... and you think you might have some common interests to build on... talk to him. If you want to hide behind the mask... to only show the sunshine and rainbows, kink and play... dont. Similarly, drama queens need not apply. He will be there for the hard times. He has held my hand through a hospital trip with my daughter... and much much more... but no needless drama please. Then, at the same time... you need to actually want to deal with a PERSON. Guess what, there will be days that he needs to talk too. Days when he is busy. Days when he could use a friend.... if you are willing to put yourself in the relationship, I really believe you will find a person well worth it.

Someone on another thread equated his post with someone looking to "assign tasks" and looking for photographic "evidence"...

I think I take exception to the use of the words "tasks" and "evidence". Nothing we ever did felt like a "chore". *LOL* I mean it took far too long to get me to SMILE, but that had more to do with my own insecurities. And yes, I was a bit of a mess after a day of edging myself every hour... but calling it as "task" is a bit much. (you know you like in *place*when you HEAR the wind start and taste the sand at the same time and just go CRAP... *run to close all the windows as the sandstorm starts :/ I hate the summer here :/)

The poster asked "In return she gets...love? What is she getting from you? I think if you provide some examples it might help more people understand."

In return she gets? ... you get what you put in. I got to know an amazing man who made me feel: loved, cherished, appreciated, desired, needed, wanted, special, cared about, respected, and much more. I got a friend. I got to know a Dominant that made me WANT to please him. I dont know what YOU will get. YOU determine that :/

Then again, in the beginning we had this whole conversation about time... and timezones... he said he'd be getting much less sleep... probably be a zombie... but we'd make it work. I laughed and said "um no.... no that is not how that works... I WILL MAKE IT WORK. I will find the time. I explained that that "is how it is supposed to work... isn't it?" He laughed wryly and said "so I've been told, but that isnt how it usually works out." My point being... if you look at things like "what am I going to get out of it" ... well... I dont understand that mentality....

As for me... I really enjoyed knowing him, and spending time. I really feel blessed. Right now I have to reinvest my time and energy into my family. I'm working on salvaging my marriage for the sake of my daughter. This is something he understands and supports. That said, he deserves to be happy. So if you think that any of that sounds like the kind of Dominant you have been looking for... take the time to put yourself out there and see if he is your cup of tea, and vice versa. If you are, and if you put yourself in it... you will be a lucky person. ... and I might want to scratch your eyes out... just a little.... Hey, I'm only human. ;)

~Bless.
from Angel

Wow! he sounds like a good guy, but i'm a little bit to dominant for him, and I like to work on my own schedule. I like really quiet men, with a strong character those are usually the best matches for me because they let me decide, ;) Ones that are patient and don't expect 15 pictures, i don't have the time and money for it but it does sound exciting what he was requesting, i'm sure he will find a lucky lady. One that suits him well.

He wouldn't like me that's probably why i wouldn't be to interested i can't help how i am, i don't mind a little bit of wild sex, and rough play once in awhile but when he put the words humiliation down, that's when I stepped back, some girls like me have had bad experiences with that sort of thing it's not really a turn on for me, if anything it is a trigger. I have ptsd.

But if i was looking for a dom, he'd probably be a better pick, then some of the dom's i've been around. I'm sure he will find someone. He sounds pretty sexy.
 
Hmmm... He was really very understanding in working with me to figure put what would work for us both. 15 pictures? Money? I never spent a penny. I took pics on my phone? O__o
Gentle, kind, and caring, but with reasonable expectations are good words to describe him. He also has an infectious laugh.
I personally also am not into humiliation, it is a limit for me, which he respected.
I'll tell you the first time we talked I had a bit of an unexpected reaction and stepped back. Some would have laughed at me or berated me, or expected me to push through it. He did NOT. He did the opposite. He put the brakes on and took it slower. He earned my respect. He still does, every day.

I can't imagine why you'd assume he wouldn't like you before even giving him a chance.
I'll tell you, the first time he saw me ( and I'm not thrilled with my appearance to say the LEAST) what he said to me will stay with me *forever* I'll not share it because it is mine. I treasure it. Suffice it to say, if any small part of you thinks he would be worth a shot and you might make him happy, and he might make you happy....talk. Write. See.

If you don't, you certainly won't lose anything, but I guarantee you won't gain anything either.
 
I'm having an insanely lucky day today sooo I'm gonna bump this for you...who knows, maybe I can add finding you an amazing girl to my list of unbelievable things today!
 
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