Wash / Oregon Roll Call

[armyjim_2000]

Hey Kenny....got a question for ya

Just out of curiosity...if a couple from Arkansas divorce, are they still considered brother and sister?


Couldn't resist that one...LOL

 

[papillon24]

jumping in

Hey there. sorry to jump right in on the conversation at hand, but I have not the time to read throught every single page of this thread. I just want to say that I'm glad a thread for us finnally picked up. I tried to start on last year but they all died.

So here I am waving from good ol Bellingham Wa. 19/F. to see this has gotten going and I'm not the only Wahingtonian with the Lit addiction

 

[Jacqline]

Welcome papillon, it's good to see you............I don't know of anyone else up at the border area. There is going to be a gathering scheduled for this summer for the northwest people........Please look for that thread, it is in the beginning stages on the general board...........

Jacqline

 

[sourdoughken]

Welcome

Hi Papillon, welcome to our LITtle corner of the world. Hope you get to let us know you and vice versa. We're a pretty friendly group.


OK Jim, I'll give you that one. But the bigger question is, "Who gets the trailer."

I thought you might enjoy this one:
A ventriliquist from New York was traveling through Texas and was running short on money. He came upon a little redneck bar on the outskirts of Lubbock. He asked the bartender if he could put on a show that night in exchange for a meal and the bartender agreed. As luck would have it it was Saturday and that night the bar was packed with rednecks, plow boys and other Texas "gentlemen."
He went through all the redneck jokes he had ever heard when A man in the back stood up and yelled, "Hey feller, I want you to know one thang. We ain't all stupid rednecks down here ye know." Immediately the ventriliquist started to apologize when the guy broke in again and said, " You keep out of this mister, I'm talkin to that little feller settin' on your lap."

 

[sortacurious]

greetings

Hello everyone!
It took me forever to get through all the postings and the I realized I still needed to register. I hope by hitting the reply button I am able to make my very first posting on any board anywhere.
I hope I will be welcome here. I actually live in a small town on the California/Oregon Border. If not let me know.
I've enjoyed the erotic tales on this site and just tonight discovered the board.
What a wonderful way to get to know people and remain anonymous!(until you choose differently).
I would love to tell more, but feel I shouldn't make my first post too long-winded(so to speak).

thanks

 

[Jacqline]

Welcome, sortacurious.......we are a friendly group. Feel free to post away.........that is how people get to know each other......

 

[Sweet Bee]

Re: greetings

I hope I will be welcome here. I actually live in a small town on the California/Oregon Border. If not let me know.

Of course, you're welcome here...just let us annex that little strip of land between the border and your town and you can become an Ecotopian like the rest of us tree huggers..

And what exactly are you sort of curious about, mmmmmmmm?

Separated at last, F, 53

 

[sourdoughken]

Another new member

Hi Sortacurious and welcome. We're happy to have you.

 

[Teaserpleaser]

OK Iam here & i see lots from oregon woooooooohoooooooooo
I also live in Oregon. I just wanna meet peeps somewhat close to me so we can hang I live right next to Longview so if any one real close if not there ring me lol Well I'm out for now

 

[meop79]

New user

Hi!Hi!
I'm new to the board and will likely be around a while I live in Gresham, OR. I'm 23, single, male, and hot lol. I like women with senses of humor who are intellignet, honest, and thoughtfull.

If there's anyone like that out there send me an e-mail or just reply to this thread.

As to all you guys out there well good luck you'll need it lol. I'm tough competetion.

Just a quick Q? What's your favorite story topic here at literotica?

TTYL
meop79@yahoo.com

 

[meop79]

Re: greetings

Hello everyone!
It took me forever to get through all the postings and the I realized I still needed to register. I hope by hitting the reply button I am able to make my very first posting on any board anywhere.
I hope I will be welcome here. I actually live in a small town on the California/Oregon Border. If not let me know.
I've enjoyed the erotic tales on this site and just tonight discovered the board.
What a wonderful way to get to know people and remain anonymous!(until you choose differently).
I would love to tell more, but feel I shouldn't make my first post too long-winded(so to speak).

thanks

No! Don't worry about being long winded, from one windbag to ...you feel free to blow us (cough) away with your loquaciousness anytime!


Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[Jacqline]

Welcome, meop............This is a great board and if you haven't checked out the general board, please do..........there are a lot of interesting conversations going on there as well.......

Jacqline

 

[SSSA]

WOW!

Amazing...I leave for a weeks vacation and the list takes off!!!

Glad to see all the new people. NW List lives on and on.


Can't wait to catch up with everyone and meet the new people.


-SSSA

MWM / 25 / Seattle.

 

[sortacurious]

Thank you everyone for your warm welcome.

I just wanted to add my $.02 worth to Timeus' situation.

While I agree that it would seem like no sex in 2 years is unthinkanble, the vows of for better or worse is obviously being taken sesriously in this relationship. I must commend you for seeking counseling, before abandoning the marriage. While not all counselors are into doing more than collecting their fees, their are many different approaches that can be taken. There still may be something to salvage in the bedroom as well.

I also wouldn't be surprised if there wasn't sexually abuse issues in your wife's past. But if this is the case, she may not even remember them. I personally have been through this same situation. I honestly believe that you two could still have the greatest sex of your lives (& together). Enough said, feel free to email me if you'd like to talk more. I have a couple of great books that have helped me A LOT!!!

 

[meop79]

Thoughts....

Thoughts on Love:
I've been told that; Love is like a pyramid standing on its point, the structure is sound but a little pressure can make it topple.

But I think love is like a rainbow, sometimes you can't see it butit's always there, it bridges the gap between where you are and where you're going is beautifull, and quite indistructible, even when you think it's gone for good just wait and turn your head and there on the horison you can see it again.

Which do you think is right?

Meop79@yahoo.com

 

[sourdoughken]

Love is a pyramid

Welcome back Jim....hope you had a blast.....Welcome to the new folks too. You're going to like it here.





Meop, you have a pretty good point. If you put love at the top of your pyramid and turn it over it can certainly topple. But if you use it as a base on which all else is built it will take more than just a little pressure to topple it.

I think that is where so many go wrong. They marry because the sex is good or he likes the way she smiles, she likes the way he combs his hair or some other reason that puts love farther down the list. When the lust dies (or he goes bald) there has to be something to take its place. It takes a lot of things that make a marriage work. But mainly it takes two people working hard, together.


OK, I'll get off the soap box and let you younger folks on it...lol


swm/57/Salem

 

[sortacurious]

Doesn't the answer to your quandry depend on if a person's glass is half-full or half-empty?

If you've just met someone new, or are in a good place in a relationship. As opposed to just having your heart crushed, shattered, ground into the floor.

One thing I truely believe is while love does not conquer all, it will not even make the first obstacle if all parties involved do not always give all of themselves.

Love is equal to the meaning of life...many a philosopher are still trying to figure it out.

 

[Savant73]

Now we ceom to an interesting thought process. Does love conquor all? No. If it did, I wouldn't have the whole divorce issue going on. Even at the end I still loved my ex...but love will not conquor infidelity and deception.

It IS a lot of hard hard hard, back breaking, nail biting, stomache wrenching, ulcer inspiring work, that is for absolutely certain. The catch is who is doing the work. Equal shares? or is one taking what is given, and not returning? If it is not a partnership of equals, expect problems.

Half full? Half empty?

All I can say is...Half??? Who drank my beer?!?!?!

 

[emma:o)]

SSSA welcome back

SSSA i am soooo glad to see you are back! i wish i would have been around earlier so we could have talked.. ive missed you sooo much! i hope you had a good time and i cant wait to talk..

Me

 

[meop79]

...As opposed to just having your heart crushed, shattered, ground into the floor.

One thing I truely believe is while love does not conquer all, it will not even make the first obstacle if all parties involved do not always give all of themselves.
...

Ouch I can tell the voice of personal experience when I hear it not that I don't have me own, when it comes to heartache; been there, done that, wrote a book.

But still, you have to accept it if you can't come to terms with yourself it eats at you... you know? Because Love CAN CONQUER ALL, if both sides want it to...

meop79@yahoo.com

 

[sortacurious]

Can love conquer all?

First, after re-reading my earlier post, I realized how terribly bitter I must have sounded. I guess I delved deeper into my past feelings than intended. I just feel the need to state that I'm actually a fairly happy person who happened to be in a fowl mood upon writing that. (Another example of how frame of mind can influence responses.)

Perhaps in an evenly balanced relationship love can overcome even the worst of times. I just have not seen very many even relationships. In my experiences and observations, many relationships are built with one partner loving more than the other.

Personnally, I have been the one to love more; I have also been in a position of being loved more than. Neither is a fun place to be.

I do think that infidelity and deceit can be forgiven if not forgotten. Trust can be rebuilt. However, the breaker of trust must be remorseful and understanding of the loss of trust. True remorse is to see the ere of ones ways and completely regret ones actions. Never to commit it again. However, honesty is a key element in this. If a person is not willing to come clean and allow the other person an opportunity to make decisions based on the facts...forget about it.

Enough rambling for now.

 

[meop79]

Re: Can love conquer all?

First, after re-reading my earlier post, I realized how terribly bitter I must have sounded. I guess I delved deeper into my past feelings than intended. I just feel the need to state that I'm actually a fairly happy person who happened to be in a fowl mood upon writing that. (Another example of how frame of mind can influence responses.)

Perhaps in an evenly balanced relationship love can overcome even the worst of times. I just have not seen very many even relationships. In my experiences and observations, many relationships are built with one partner loving more than the other.

Personnally, I have been the one to love more; I have also been in a position of being loved more than. Neither is a fun place to be.

I do think that infidelity and deceit can be forgiven if not forgotten. Trust can be rebuilt. However, the breaker of trust must be remorseful and understanding of the loss of trust. True remorse is to see the ere of ones ways and completely regret ones actions. Never to commit it again. However, honesty is a key element in this. If a person is not willing to come clean and allow the other person an opportunity to make decisions based on the facts...forget about it.

Enough rambling for now.

I know evenly ballanced relattionships are hard to find... but, why else look for love if you are going to stipulate that a loving stable permanent relationship is imposible well I for one will be the first to the monestary doors.

Because Damnit!
That is what I want.

And quite simply I think the only time, the only time a relationship crumbles is when one of the people involved (or both) simply do not love one another. Or are to stupid to talk to each other.

My 0.02

meop79@yahoo.com

 

[meop79]

A lovely pic for the ladies...

Me again...

meop79@yahoo.com

 

[meop79]

Another...

Want More?

meop79@yahoo.com

 

[sortacurious]

meop79:

I'm so sorry! I do not mean to keep sounding so negative.
I believe in love and sometimes even happily ever after.
My true hope is for all those that are seeking it (including you) to finding it quickly so they can enjoy it for all it is worth. (Which is priceless!)

I've also seen that as soon as someone stops looking for love, along it comes hitting them over the head!

Thanks keeping me on my toes

p.s. You have facinating eyes!