gunhilltrain
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The women who work in the various sex trades probably have different views based on their circumstances and how much money they are making. Being a streetwalker is not like being a call girl which is not like working in porn films.Right, and for a site like Lit, the "Oh my God, I love fucking, and getting paid for it!" is the way to go.
If you were writing an escort in a mainstream work, the darker side of the industry and motivations, in other words, realism, would play a bit better.
Like the saying goes, read the room, and the majority of rooms here have sticky walls.
I read an account by one woman who seemed to like stripping (maybe she was exaggerating), but she claimed to have no physical contact with the customers. She seemed to like the money and the attention above all else. One male porn star said he was surprised at how unerotic it all was. Like all movies, the editing creates the final product more than actual filming. He did find it strange to have a dozen or so production people (lighting, sound, etc.) going about their jobs while he was acting in various unconnected (to him) scenes.
I guess Cam Girls are a form of online peep shows. If you've seen Lit's samples of them, they seem rather bored as various mooks text ridiculous messages to them.
My overall impression, as I've tried to show in my stories, is that it is about having a job in a business, not about sexual desire. Nora says about herself:
I usually thought of myself as a “hooker.” The word “whore” seemed too much like an insult. “Prostitute” sounded like a police report label, and it reminded me that what I was doing was illegal although I never got caught.
“Sex worker” just seemed wrong, like I was on the line at the Tarrytown Assembly Plant. Yet “working girl” was okay with me, for some reason. I supposed that was because it omitted the word sex from the job portion of the phrase. “Professional” was acceptable too. It emphasized the self-employment aspect – or delusion – of my new career.