What do we miss about our ex?

[trojan999]

What I miss about my ex is pretty much everything, she was my life, my everything. The sun rose & set with her for me, she was I'd say my soulmate

 

[Abner Devereaux]

I miss her face.

I miss he smile

I miss her laugh.

I miss her cute nickname for me.

I miss her perfume.

I miss the poetry she wrote me.

I miss listening to Riders on the Storm by The Doors when we made love with the window open everytime it rained.

 

[Lorelei_11]

Hey Lorelei, I'm sure you'll get all this back - and sooo much more!

I'd like all of that back, minus the asshole he turned out to be in the end.

 

[Lorelei_11]

There is one woman that pasted through my life that left incredible memories. This is going back a few years. Her job envolved a lot of travel or so I was told. We could only spend weekends together and the occassional one day'r at her place. We would either be out at fine resturants or perparing delicious gourmet meals together. Perhaps going to NYC for a evening of fun or just cuddling up in front of the fireplace. We were inseperable. The love making was that of two insatiable animals. It would go on for hours and hours. We would completly draining one another to total exhaustion. Only to start all over again.

I was very much madly in love with this woman and wanted to spend my entire life with her. The conversation with her mid week married lover sent that dream crashing into the rocks. She had several homes and would stay at her other Connecticut home during the week. When I confronted her about him she told me she loved us both in different ways. I gave her chance of making a decision. She told me she could not choose. So I made that decision for her. Probably one of the hardest things I'd ever done. Lots of emotions involved.

Still searching for that same passion and love... Still consider myself a very lucky man. So many never find what I had!

Besides the other things I listed here that he and I did, there was the sex. Just like you said going on for hours and hours. We spent weekends having sex mostly. We spent hours and hours together talking, watching movies, having fun.

I miss that intimacy. The passion and intensity.

I don't miss him though. Everything he claimed to be was fake. He came across as a nice guy and a good man. One day I hope the real version shows up.

 

[TonyUK]

I'm obviously way too shallow as all I miss is the wicked sex we had; like I could come in from a night out with the lads and as a welcome she would insist I laid down whilst first she stripped me, then herself. And then proceed to give me a fantasatic BJ, not allowing me to please her in any way! Self, self, self - that's me!!!

 

[jazey_43]

Besides the other things I listed here that he and I did, there was the sex. Just like you said going on for hours and hours. We spent weekends having sex mostly. We spent hours and hours together talking, watching movies, having fun.

I miss that intimacy. The passion and intensity.

I don't miss him though. Everything he claimed to be was fake. He came across as a nice guy and a good man. One day I hope the real version shows up.

I can really relate to some of this. The passion and intensity was unbelievable. Almost too good to be true...and thats EXACTLY what it was...too good to be TRUE! Thats where the "fake" enters into it. He too, came across as a Good Man.
I really miss the long hours of talking and goofing around over alot of cold beer. They were some of the better times in my life. As were picnics and bubble baths. I guess maybe theres something about every ex I miss. That could be cuz there weren't many. Maybe I could use all of those qualities and make one made to order...*ggls*

 

[alisonwunderlnd]

as much as i want to say NOTHING.I will say he was a good cook and gave the best ORAL sex i have EVER had.He was a prick but OMG,,OMG!

 

[DadsReady]

as much as i want to say NOTHING.I will say he was a good cook and gave the best ORAL sex i have EVER had.He was a prick but OMG,,OMG!

i can and will say nothing. now, about that oral sex...

 

[20smoke]

I miss being bitched at everyday when I came home from work for hours on end about nothing at all...
I miss the cold silence when she wasnt bitching...
I miss all her lies and constant mental abuse....
I miss dreading waking up.. and dreading coming home...
I miss feeling unloved and worthless...

ya know what? I dont really miss any of this shit or her!

 

[jazey_43]

I miss being bitched at everyday when I came home from work for hours on end about nothing at all...
I miss the cold silence when she wasnt bitching...
I miss all her lies and constant mental abuse....
I miss dreading waking up.. and dreading coming home...
I miss feeling unloved and worthless...

ya know what? I dont really miss any of this shit or her!

This was REALLY funny, Mr. Smoke!!! Thank you for the morning chuckle...and I so know what you're talking about...

 

[virgin_not]

NOTHING!!!

 

[DadsReady]

hahaha smoke that was great. not really a lot to miss now after all is there ?

 

[20smoke]

I also miss being poor all the time....

I miss watching the Miami Dolphins on tv, now I have season tickets and have to drive to Miami every other week...

I miss burnt food...

I miss cutting the grass...

I miss the screaming from the passenger seat...

I miss never having sex...

 

[jazey_43]

I also miss being poor all the time....

I miss watching the Miami Dolphins on tv, now I have season tickets and have to drive to Miami every other week...

I miss burnt food...

I miss cutting the grass...

I miss the screaming from the passenger seat...

I miss never having sex...

*ggls even harder!!*

 

[DadsReady]

I also miss being poor all the time....

I miss burnt food...

at least you got food, shit, if i didn't cook or send out for something i would have died from starvation!

 

[omahaman2]

http://www.saspinc.com/assets/albums/1246.jpg

because someone better came into my life!

I feel like changing the words to edwin starr's song
EXes- What are they good for? Absolutely nothing!!

 

[RPguy]

rimmjobs

 

[RPguy]

Coming home from work and havign to watch Judge Judy, Cops, Aminal Vets, American Idol, wait no I don't

 

[Guest]

An easy thread here; however happy we are with our present squeeze, I guess most of us miss something about our ex - something thye new one won't do maybe?

Ex hubby - very little!!! And I don't get to miss him 'cos I still talk to him or see him several times a week as we have a teenage daughter who divides her time between our two homes.

Ex lover J - the first one after hubby. Boy did he love to lick................

 

[Lorelei_11]

I can really relate to some of this. The passion and intensity was unbelievable. Almost too good to be true...and thats EXACTLY what it was...too good to be TRUE! Thats where the "fake" enters into it. He too, came across as a Good Man.
I really miss the long hours of talking and goofing around over alot of cold beer. They were some of the better times in my life. As were picnics and bubble baths. I guess maybe theres something about every ex I miss. That could be cuz there weren't many. Maybe I could use all of those qualities and make one made to order...*ggls*

Yes, I've learned from it. I'm very passionate and intense, but I'm the real deal. I've learned a lot about the difference between myself and a fake.

He and I didn't drink but I know what you mean. I do understand the to good to be true part as well. Each specific detail that was to good to be true, because it wasn't sprinkled with reality.

They use those things, for you it was picnics and bubble baths. These things hook us in, reel in the fish. In time, their true colors come out.

I think there are genuine people out there, I exist so they must too. Its just that there are 10,000 fakes to one geniune person.

 

[goodolbloke]

Don't have a squeeze now but here goes anyways. My last girlfriend I miss being able to talk/discuss/debate pretty much damn near everything. Would listen to me and understand all these weird concepts I pull out of no where was very nice.

 

[TonyUK]

Wow, I didn't realise we could be such assholes and get away with it for so long!
Or maybe I'm just too soft; when my ex-wife had "issues" we went sexless for two years and you know what, I never strayed once! On the principle that she was my wife and I should stand by her - sucker!!!
During that time everything else was good, (that's why we stuck it out) but in the end, it was her who went off and made "friends" with some guy and then guess what? Yeah, they had sex. Like I said - what a sucker!!!

 

[Lorelei_11]

Wow, I didn't realise we could be such assholes and get away with it for so long!
Or maybe I'm just too soft; when my ex-wife had "issues" we went sexless for two years and you know what, I never strayed once! On the principle that she was my wife and I should stand by her - sucker!!!
During that time everything else was good, (that's why we stuck it out) but in the end, it was her who went off and made "friends" with some guy and then guess what? Yeah, they had sex. Like I said - what a sucker!!!

My experience was a bit different but I know what you mean, when your there for them, and then they go and find as well as fuck someone else.

He had a lot of problems, and I stood by him and helped. When his life was all fixed up, and my life troubles started, he said his life was good, and I was just bringing him down. He fucked around and acted like a jerk to me, while he became less and less available to spend time with me, as he seen other women. When I realized what he was doing, his apologies and excuses didn't cut it anymore, I left.

 

[TonyUK]

My experience was a bit different but I know what you mean, when your there for them, and then they go and find as well as fuck someone else.

He had a lot of problems, and I stood by him and helped. When his life was all fixed up, and my life troubles started, he said his life was good, and I was just bringing him down. He fucked around and acted like a jerk to me, while he became less and less available to spend time with me, as he seen other women. When I realized what he was doing, his apologies and excuses didn't cut it anymore, I left.

Good for you, I just wish I'd left way earlier! I did kind of make up for it all with what can only be described as a three year sex-fest with someone completely on the same wavelength as me - physically anyway!

 

[TonyUK]

Love your avatar Loerlei!!!
BTW, Small world, I'm in Chilliwack!