What I don't understand about guys on Lit

[FreckledSprite]

The initial issue may be men come here with blood running to the little head not the big one and it shows in their ads and interactions.

It’s obvious they either don’t know the ratio of men to women, don’t understand the basics of supply and demand, or both. You would hope those who do understand would market themselves better.

Unappealing, low effort ads that are often whiny or entitled. Sliding into PMs with absurd requests from those they’ve never interacted with in the forums. Confused because they just want women to send them pics to jerk to and don’t realize that ugly dick pic of them and their toilet isn’t a panty dropper. Let’s not forget the porn addicts who are completely detached from reality, fake Doms expecting immediate submission and all other types of incels. These men won’t have luck elsewhere. If they’re lame on Lit their reject status will show in other venues as well.

 

[Poetdontknowit]

I've had great conversations with folks on Lit. You gotta be real. Def don't be a perv. And don't think that just because you're here and horny means that the person you are talking to is also. I mean, horny chat is fun. Getting off with someone is fun. But, chat with them first. Get to know them. It'll go where it goes. It's really not hard.

 

[velona]

The initial issue may be men come here with blood running to the little head not the big one and it shows in their ads and interactions.

It’s obvious they either don’t know the ratio of men to women, don’t understand the basics of supply and demand, or both. You would hope those who do understand would market themselves better.

Unappealing, low effort ads that are often whiny or entitled. Sliding into PMs with absurd requests from those they’ve never interacted with in the forums. Confused because they just want women to send them pics to jerk to and don’t realize that ugly dick pic of them and their toilet isn’t a panty dropper. Let’s not forget the porn addicts who are completely detached from reality, fake Doms expecting immediate submission and all other types of incels. These men won’t have luck elsewhere. If they’re lame on Lit their reject status will show in other venues as well.

THIS

 

[MiaBabe23]

The points from @FreckledSprite are very true and acknowledged, there are a farrrr too many who match these descriptions
But - there are also a notable number of guys who are likable, seemingly genuine, intelligent and good-hearted
Maybe I’ve only really managed to meet them here and enjoy chatting with them because my profile makes obvious that I’m ‘taken’, so there’s no pressure or expectations on either side, just relaxed chat
How does that help guys who do want more? Perhaps it doesn’t lol other than to recommend approaching everyone as a potential friend even if what you really wanna do is see her naked? Isn’t that how rl works?

 

[carlg111901]

There are no women on Lit. Just men and men pretending to be women.

I met a female (100% real female) on here about 15 years ago. When I joined this site, I wasn't even looking to connect with a female, we just started chatting. DM's turned into emails, which turned into texts. One day, we met in the city and had lunch. Weeks later, we met at the bed and breakfast she managed for lunch again. At that point, there was too much sexual tension between us that we made love in the kitchen. Over the course of a year, we made love in every room of the bed and breakfast she managed. One time, she joined me for an evening when I was on a business trip. It was the first night we spent with each other. Unfortunately, over time we lost touch.

I barely come here anymore, but over the years I've chatted with other women here. All super nice, friendly, and looking for an outlet. None lead to what I had with my FWB, but that was mostly due to them not being local enough to meet up in person. While the men outweigh the women here, they 100% exist. Believe it or not, most don't post, or reply to posts. They read other posts and if interested they send DM's. Reason being, they don't want their inboxes flooded with dick pics from the creeps and weirdos here.

 

[Escierto]

I met a female (100% real female) on here about 15 years ago. When I joined this site, I wasn't even looking to connect with a female, we just started chatting. DM's turned into emails, which turned into texts. One day, we met in the city and had lunch. Weeks later, we met at the bed and breakfast she managed for lunch again. At that point, there was too much sexual tension between us that we made love in the kitchen. Over the course of a year, we made love in every room of the bed and breakfast she managed. One time, she joined me for an evening when I was on a business trip. It was the first night we spent with each other. Unfortunately, over time we lost touch.

I barely come here anymore, but over the years I've chatted with other women here. All super nice, friendly, and looking for an outlet. None lead to what I had with my FWB, but that was mostly due to them not being local enough to meet up in person. While the men outweigh the women here, they 100% exist. Believe it or not, most don't post, or reply to posts. They read other posts and if interested they send DM's. Reason being, they don't want their inboxes flooded with dick pics from the creeps and weirdos here.

Very interesting experience that you have had here.

I have replied to DMs but I do not initiate. Of course there are women on Lit but like hunted animals they stay out of sight.

 

[Cheshire_cat71]

Very interesting experience that you have had here.

I have replied to DMs but I do not initiate. Of course there are women on Lit but like hunted animals they stay out of sight.

We are here. We also pay attention to what is in your profile. And some of us, me, will not reach out if it is vague or if we don’t know where you are in the US.

 

[Escierto]

We are here. We also pay attention to what is in your profile. And some of us, me, will not reach out if it is vague or if we don’t know where you are in the US.

So I guess if someone is looking for contact, then having an informative profile would be a necessity. That's good to know for the men who are hoping for contact from women.

 

[GoodnessO]

We are here. We also pay attention to what is in your profile. And some of us, me, will not reach out if it is vague or if we don’t know where you are in the US.

Agree!

 

[GoodnessO]

So I guess if someone is looking for contact, then having an informative profile would be a necessity. That's good to know for the men who are hoping for contact from women.

Are you dating, & if so, where generally are you located, plus what you're into.

 

[Mrmphilll2]

Treat the ladies right and get to know them first. Humor goes a long way you. Be yourself and see where it leads.

 

[GoodnessO]

So far I've met in-person with 2 men I met on Lit, & got close to meeting in-person with 2 others. Unfortunately none of them clicked for me. But I'm currently in touch with others who might.

 

[van_delay]

“Jerry, just remember, it's not a lie if you believe it”. George Constanza

I actually am an exporter-importer. Mostly latex.