❓ Did you fall in love with the person who took your virginity❓

[LegendInMyOwnMind]

In my essay https://www.literotica.com/s/writing-away-the-darkess I disclosed that I lost my virginity to a hooker at 25. She was about ten years older. I fell hard for her. Love and sex are closely intertwined in my psyche, much too closely. I did manage to get her off the streets for good. We were on again, off again for nearly fifteen years. She loved me in a way, but never as much as opiates and booze. Had that been different, I would have married her. As it is, I'm glad I didn't. But I still think of her now and then, though we've had no contact since 1997.

 

[Never2late4funxxx]

In my essay https://www.literotica.com/s/writing-away-the-darkess I disclosed that I lost my virginity to a hooker at 25. She was about ten years older. I fell hard for her. Love and sex are closely intertwined in my psyche, much too closely. I did manage to get her off the streets for good. We were on again, off again for nearly fifteen years. She loved me in a way, but never as much as opiates and booze. Had that been different, I would have married her. As it is, I'm glad I didn't. But I still think of her now and then, though we've had no contact since 1997.

Sounds like you put a lot into that relationship, but you were lucky that you saw the reality of what meant more to her with her addiction.

 

[LegendInMyOwnMind]

I learned this from a friend in Narcotics Anonymous (that I knew from a different 12-step program): When you are addicted, that damn needle becomes your best friend, your worst enemy, your father, your mother, your sister, your brother, your lover, and your god. I heeded that just in time.

 

[Sexydrana]

I can relate, felt much the same with my first, but from a male perspective. And she definitely wasn’t a virgin and no love interest. Was a forgetful night other than it was my first.

For me it wasn’t forgetful, though maybe a bit blurry haha. It’s been a decade now so I only now recall the highlights. I mostly remember waking up and sending The Lonely Island’s featuring Akon song “I Just Had Sex” to a friend to break the news to him. And to this day when I hear that song I just smile at the memories now.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

For me it wasn’t forgetful, though maybe a bit blurry haha. It’s been a decade now so I only now recall the highlights. I mostly remember waking up and sending The Lonely Island’s featuring Akon song “I Just Had Sex” to a friend to break the news to him. And to this day when I hear that song I just smile at the memories now.

The best part is that the memory makes you smile.

 

[erinsplaytime]

No, he broke up with me a few days later

 

[Loyalish1245]

No, she was older and used me. I did with the first girl I wanted to do it with. She was my first love and only real love until I got married.

 

[gtnlynn]

My wife took my virginity, so I already loved her. She was forced to lose her virginity years earlier, so she had no good feelings about that person.

 

[Golfdude5458]

(I'm not asking what age you lost your virginity..)

Rather.. your feelings towards the person who took your virginity consensually.

Was there an immediate love after for that person?

**My late husband was an all around virgin the day he met me.. Never had a BJ, HJ, or sex at all...
That first night I took all three!!

And to me, he was just a name on a list of guys I've fucked..
But to him... Let's just say he followed me like a puppy and we eventually married..

I lost my virginity at 13 to a 17 yr old girl! Didn't fall in love but we fucked alot!!

 

[Loyalish1245]

I lost my virginity at 13 to a 17 yr old girl! Didn't fall in love but we fucked alot!!

Same

 

[JC1981]

No. We were just kids. We found some porn mags and mimicked what they were doing in the pictures. It felt good. And we remained friends. Until I moved away.

 

[Dombull617]

(I'm not asking what age you lost your virginity..)

Rather.. your feelings towards the person who took your virginity consensually.

Was there an immediate love after for that person?

**My late husband was an all around virgin the day he met me.. Never had a BJ, HJ, or sex at all...
That first night I took all three!!

And to me, he was just a name on a list of guys I've fucked..
But to him... Let's just say he followed me like a puppy and we eventually married..

We were young (mid teens) boy and girlfriend, her parents were out for the night, heavy petting led to much more, was an incredible rush, both felt so mature, we went at it like like pros (although I'm sure it was terrible) we tried many things and various positions, but although we were convinced we were a couple, we split a few months later. But we'd both learned a lot more from each other by then. Never saw her again after we left school.

 

[SandraMaus]

No, she always was, still is one of my best friends

 

[Eyelevel]

Yes. And she was a cutter and I married her without knowing.

 

[Loyalish1245]

Yes. And she was a cutter and I married her without knowing.

Lots to unpack there.

 

[Lc696971]

Not head over heels in love buy really loved her. I was 19 and she was 35, a neighbour. Opened up a whole different world for me.

 

[dobbins1]

No, she was older and used me. I did with the first girl I wanted to do it with. She was my first love and only real love until I got married.

Ditto that.

 

[inneedofrelease]

(I'm not asking what age you lost your virginity..)

Rather.. your feelings towards the person who took your virginity consensually.

Was there an immediate love after for that person?

**My late husband was an all around virgin the day he met me.. Never had a BJ, HJ, or sex at all...
That first night I took all three!!

And to me, he was just a name on a list of guys I've fucked..
But to him... Let's just say he followed me like a puppy and we eventually married..

We were in love. It wasn't a quality first time, I ejaculated on her leg but thankfully stayed hard and improved for round 2.

We're still friends and I care for her deeply.

 

[CJamarous]

Fall in love? No. Was I infatuated perhaps? Most definitely. She was also the first person to ever show me any kind of attention, flirtation, first kiss, took my virginity, so I absolutely wanted to see her again. We ended up fucking again almost exactly a year later. I attempted to see her again in that year in between and after, but she was not interested. Which was confusing for me at the time. It wasn't until some time after that I understood we were having fun and both getting what we needed and wanted in the moment. And now, both encounters are fond memories

 

[PleasureTime01]

No …. I was just a horny young(er) bloke who fancied shagging this girl I knew.

 

[Diann_Mom]

Fell in love? Oh hell no!! Just a friend who had wanted to for a while, and to be honest so did I. He was as dumb about sex as I was but he had taken a condom from his dad's drawer and we were alone in his bedroom. What an awkward situation!! He almost came trying to get the condom on and then fumbled around trying to put it in me. I finally reached down to guide him. One final push and it was over for him. Kinda disappointed me 'cause it felt pretty good.
I think he was ashamed of his performance and we never did it again, although we were still friends for a long time after.

 

[MerryeMikee]

Fell in love? Oh hell no!! Just a friend who had wanted to for a while, and to be honest so did I. He was as dumb about sex as I was but he had taken a condom from his dad's drawer and we were alone in his bedroom. What an awkward situation!! He almost came trying to get the condom on and then fumbled around trying to put it in me. I finally reached down to guide him. One final push and it was over for him. Kinda disappointed me 'cause it felt pretty good.
I think he was ashamed of his performance and we never did it again, although we were still friends for a long time after.

I wonder what the countless number of us it is for whom that rings so familiar!

 

[Wageslave]

She went back to her boyfriend and u haven't seen her in about 40 years