A good hand spanking

[Yasashii_Kaze]

I like hand spankings because they are more intimate than implements...

I definitely agree. I could be flogged/caned/whipped by practically anyone, but a hand spanking is so personal that I can't imagine having it done by anyone I wasn't with.

 

[Esclava]

Yes, ecstaticsub ... that was indeed lovely.

Perhaps that should be my next story about the Mistress who weighs all of 120 lbs, left her handprints on my ebony a$$cheeks and it took four days for them to fade ...

Esclava

 

[PaterPriapus]

I definitely agree. I could be flogged/caned/whipped by practically anyone, but a hand spanking is so personal that I can't imagine having it done by anyone I wasn't with.

Exactly, a hand spanking demands a level of intimacy, where as full blown CBT, tit torture and flogging could be performed by the "Masked Avenger's" third cousin. S'truth...

PP

 

[PaterPriapus]

Yes, ecstaticsub ... that was indeed lovely.

Perhaps that should be my next story about the Mistress who weighs all of 120 lbs, left her handprints on my ebony a$$cheeks and it took four days for them to fade ...

Esclava

Get busy on those keys Esclava. I for one would enjoy reading it...

 

[DreamSensualist]

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[castagnus]

I agree with what your saying about the "personal" feeling. I love the feeling of his bare skinned hand hitting my bare assed bum.


A quick question for ya'll though. My man's hand swells up a bit if we go at it very long. Is there anything we can do to decrease this from happening?

I used to play handball without a glove - that toughens the hand within a few weeks - and prevents swelling - it also increases stamina which my subs have appreciated so much.

 

[PaterPriapus]

I honestly don't think I've been spanked enough. And as I'm not a sub who will misbeahve on purpose I guess I'm just going to have to get cheeky & coy and ask for it.

I don't think it's been mentioned in this thread earlier but I do enjoy the though that between slaps a finger is delved into me to check how wet I am as a result of what is being done to me. I think the stingy sensation as well as the sweet-spot impact coupled with either a "good girl" for getting nice and wet or some "erotic humiliation" for the same thing (or both comment to completely mind-fuck me so I didn't know if I was coming or going) would be enough to bring me to tears. But as has been mentioned I'm a fan of a little bit of "ouch that hurt tears", but more so just the sensory overload and thus a release of tears.

It is such a "turn on" to spank, talk, feel, tease, spank, talk....ad gloriam"
Go for it.
PP

 

[twysted73]

It is such a "turn on" to spank, talk, feel, tease, spank, talk....ad gloriam"
Go for it.
PP

I may add it to my list. Oh babydoll....you're in for quite a visit.

 

[PaterPriapus]

I may add it to my list. Oh babydoll....you're in for quite a visit.

Add away. Have a cracking good time..

PP

 

[Hotch]

Positioning is such an important part of spanking. The spankie must be laid across my lap so my free arm can be wrapped around their waist, pulling them close and holding them tight. I'll also often let my fingers rest against their sex so as I spank and they squirm, they can rub on my fingers. It's more intimate and sensual then punishing, even though the blows can be intense.

 

[ivantheterrible]

i'd love to properly spank a dirty girl who has been bad until her ass is red. but alas, i can only lightly spank one. she isn't into pain.

 

[PaterPriapus]

Positioning is such an important part of spanking. The spankie must be laid across my lap so my free arm can be wrapped around their waist, pulling them close and holding them tight. I'll also often let my fingers rest against their sex so as I spank and they squirm, they can rub on my fingers. It's more intimate and sensual then punishing, even though the blows can be intense.

You are so right Hotch. The positioning takes on the importance of a personal ritual for me. I like to get a good scissors lock on her legs. I like her hands on the floor and me pushing on her back. I like her to feel restrained and at my behest. Even if we are in a playful mood, I like the possibility of a serious spanking to be in both of our minds.
Thanks
PP

 

[PaterPriapus]

i'd love to properly spank a dirty girl who has been bad until her ass is red. but alas, i can only lightly spank one. she isn't into pain.

At least you have her in position and taking a playful spank. I'd make it as pleasurable as possible for her and gradually turn up the heat... I hope your get your wish and soon.

PP

 

[BlondeRose]

I never have had a hand spanking except for when I was a kid and didn't enjoy it .... But something tells me I just might enjoy a good ole fashion hand spanking now.

 

[Homburg]

A quick question for ya'll though. My man's hand swells up a bit if we go at it very long. Is there anything we can do to decrease this from happening?

Try a glove. I would suggest a driving glove or golfing glove. Get a better quality one and it will still transmit the touch sensations, while providing a bit of a buffer between his hand and the impact.

 

[PaterPriapus]

I never have had a hand spanking except for when I was a kid and didn't enjoy it .... But something tells me I just might enjoy a good ole fashion hand spanking now.

Ah, BlondeRose, what a difference between a spanking as a kid, and a spanking delivered for erotic purposes. You are in for a delicious treat. There may indeed be some vestiges of the naughty little girl receiving punishment mixed with the woman seeking sexual fulfilment. I'm not sure... Best left to Freud and his cronies... Just enjoy, then enjoy the aftermath..

PP

 

[BlondeRose]

Ah, BlondeRose, what a difference between a spanking as a kid, and a spanking delivered for erotic purposes. You are in for a delicious treat. There may indeed be some vestiges of the naughty little girl receiving punishment mixed with the woman seeking sexual fulfilment. I'm not sure... Best left to Freud and his cronies... Just enjoy, then enjoy the aftermath..

PP

Well the thought of it is very appealing. But first I got to find me a "spanker" to even see if I would really enjoy it.

 

[curiousirish]

I'm definately not a spanker...............but I do love a good spanking..

 

[PaterPriapus]

I'm definately not a spanker...............but I do love a good spanking..

And we thank God for that......curiousirish..
PP

 

[the_mgp]

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[Harmony_1985]

When we plan to do spanking, he makes me wear a certain pair of panties and rather than pull them down, he pulls the sides up so it makes like a thong shape to start with then pulls them down after a while.

 

[PaterPriapus]

Love it.. but there has to be a bit of technique to it. Just throwing me down and slapping the bejesus out of my bum doesn't do much for me unless one of my tops is dealing out a punishment. In that scenario, I'd say it's probably pretty effective

But I'm getting sidetracked.... one of my favourite things is to be pulled down into a lap, have my hands tied/pinned behind me, pants pulled down and then slowly and sensually spanked Follow that up with some fucking or fingering and I'm blissed out

I'm certain that I would be blissed out restraining then re training you as well mgp. It is a ritual, isn't it. Procedure and technique are at the soul of it. Beats the hell out of a Japanese tea ceremony..
PP

 

[PaterPriapus]

When we plan to do spanking, he makes me wear a certain pair of panties and rather than pull them down, he pulls the sides up so it makes like a thong shape to start with then pulls them down after a while.

What a lovely little detail... It certainly brought a wealth of images and flashbacks... Thanks. Very arousing...
PP

 

[PaterPriapus]

Well the thought of it is very appealing. But first I got to find me a "spanker" to even see if I would really enjoy it.

Dear BlondeRose

There are spankers aplenty. Finding a spankee seems more of a concern. If you are curious then I feel sure you would enjoy it... Thanks
PP

 

[celticsunspiral]

Love it.. but there has to be a bit of technique to it. Just throwing me down and slapping the bejesus out of my bum doesn't do much for me unless one of my tops is dealing out a punishment. In that scenario, I'd say it's probably pretty effective

But I'm getting sidetracked.... one of my favourite things is to be pulled down into a lap, have my hands tied/pinned behind me, pants pulled down and then slowly and sensually spanked Follow that up with some fucking or fingering and I'm blissed out

i have to agree mgp. The technique has got to be there. i have had both, a hard spanking delivered with no finesse and .... it just HURT, but take a little time a couple of stinging swipes and a wondering hand....mmmmm so good.