A good hand spanking

[lil_slave_rose]

i love a hand spanking more than being spanked by anything else. i agree with the others who said it is more personal that way. right now, as most of you know, i'm not in a D/s relationship i'm back to be "nilla" mostly anyway. the other night my man showed me a side of him i didn't know existed!

i have been totally stressed out after losing my job, trying to find another one, dealing with kids etc... and we were laying in bed and i started crying, he asked me what was wrong and i told him i didn't know. He sat up on the edge of the bed and told me to lay across his lap. i looked up at him in shock because this is NOT something he's ever done or that i've ever asked him to do. he gave me a look and said did you not hear me?

so i laid across his lap and he started rubbing lightly on my cheeks and then without warning he brought his hand down HARD smacking me with all he had. i cried out and i felt his cock growing underneath me. *sigh* i'll stop it here i think you all get the point. but i was shocked and it was EXACTLY what i needed. he knows that my last relationship was of the kinky variety but he has no idea the extent so when he did this out of the blue, it totally shocked me! it was a VERY nice surprise though. yea, a bare handed spanking is the best!

 

[HarlotMinx]

Moon and I have been having trouble on this subject actually.... She really has to put her weight into it. In the end her hand hurts more than my butt. We've tried implements but I have a bad tendency of breaking our canes and paddles, including a 1/2 thick wooden cake doohicky-paddle (the name escapes me, they're used for removing hot cakes or pizzas from ovens). Actually recently we've taken to using a old steel hairbrush which works wonders. I always found spankings to be down right relaxing, only thing more likely to calm me down is a liberal application of hot wax.

-poppet

 

[LadyC]

I sometimes wear a soft, calf skin glove when spanking a lovely behind....I get some of the same sensations as barehanded, but it allows me to spank longer and harder. The touch of leather is often loved by the one receiving the spanking.

 

[HarlotMinx]

I sometimes wear a soft, calf skin glove when spanking a lovely behind....I get some of the same sensations as barehanded, but it allows me to spank longer and harder. The touch of leather is often loved by the one receiving the spanking.

I know exactly what you're talking about, moon has a lovely pair of vampire gloves, it helps her stamina while also tenderizing my rear. It's a delightful benifet to both of us.

-poppet

 

[hisgypsy]

i haven't read every single post on this thread, so maybe someone has already mentioned this, if so i apologize.

there are times when i am very stressed, and when that happens and i can't find a good release, my Master always knows that a long, hard OTK spanking with his bare hand will do the trick. somehow it releases everything in me, who knows why, but all i know is that i feel like i haven't a care in the world afterwards, he takes it all from me somehow.

and on the other hand, when i have done something to displease him, generally because i've talked back or disobeyed intentionally, a spanking puts everything back into perspective. i'm immediately back where i should be, where i'm happiest.

anyway, i vote a good hand spanking beats just about anything else out there!

 

[jenamapat]

I'm very curious about this type of spanking...its a shame that I have no one that would try with me. My husband has tried but it wasn't what I needed. But I've watched vids online and I get really turned on watching them.

 

[LadyC]

I'm very curious about this type of spanking...its a shame that I have no one that would try with me. My husband has tried but it wasn't what I needed. But I've watched vids online and I get really turned on watching them.

There is nothing like a good flat of the palm on a bare behind for erotic stimuli, but yesterday was my 39th birthday and yes I got spanked....thirty-nine flat of the hand whacks from my husband and one to grow on from my naughty niece Jena. Jena cheated. She used a paddle....Ouch! It wasn't supposed to be erotic, but I was turned on like mad. I couldn't be satisfied, at least not until the sun was coming up! That was an extremely happy birthday!

 

[HarlotMinx]

So I have a question for you, Moon has gotten to the point where she's almost going to start refusing me spankings. We've tried bare hands and normally she ends up in more pain than I am. We tried implements but I tend to break them all... so far I snapped a couple canes ranging from wood to plastic, a plastic hair brush, bent a metal hair brush, a 1/2 thick wood paddle, and one of those wooden pizza trays you lift hot pizzas out of the oven with. We now have a frying pan in our toy bag and even that looks like it's not lasting long, moon's taken to calling me leather bottom. Now we have toys that I can't break, but I think she's getting a bit disheartened by the trash can. I was wondering what people might recommend for strong long-lasting toys. For normal play we tend toward the sjambok, bull whip, or solid steel paddle. I've recently considered investing in a wooden cricket bat.

-poppet

 

[LadyC]

So I have a question for you, Moon has gotten to the point where she's almost going to start refusing me spankings. We've tried bare hands and normally she ends up in more pain than I am. We tried implements but I tend to break them all... so far I snapped a couple canes ranging from wood to plastic, a plastic hair brush, bent a metal hair brush, a 1/2 thick wood paddle, and one of those wooden pizza trays you lift hot pizzas out of the oven with. We now have a frying pan in our toy bag and even that looks like it's not lasting long, moon's taken to calling me leather bottom. Now we have toys that I can't break, but I think she's getting a bit disheartened by the trash can. I was wondering what people might recommend for strong long-lasting toys. For normal play we tend toward the sjambok, bull whip, or solid steel paddle. I've recently considered investing in a wooden cricket bat.

-poppet

I wear tight fitting, calfskin gloves, my palm receives the pleasure of spanking without much pain, and whomever is receiving the whacks.....it's like the bare hand.

 

[mia_ow]

Someday, I'd like to meet a man who can make me hold still for this.

 

[LadyC]

Someday, I'd like to meet a man who can make me hold still for this.

Ever consider lying across the lap of a woman for good old fashioned spanking?

 

[hisgypsy]

Ever consider lying across the lap of a woman for good old fashioned spanking?

i've never considered it, but wouldn't rule it out.

 

[SatinPaws]

I wear tight fitting, calfskin gloves, my palm receives the pleasure of spanking without much pain, and whomever is receiving the whacks.....it's like the bare hand.

this is divine and delicate and sumptuous

 

[Adakgirl]

I had read so much on here about how wonderful and erotic hand spankings are and how so many enjoy the hell out of them...I wanted one and I wanted one bad. When I went to visit a man for I think it was 15 days, I asked him to please give me one. He refused, he didn't want to do it, he was vanilla and just not into it. So I let it drop, but mentioned it on and off. The night before I left for home he finally gave in...just to shut me up.

Never bug someone to spank you who does not want to do it. He decided to teach me a lesson and IT HURT LIKE HELL! He has huge hands and he wailed on my ass hard! I had to fly home the next day with a very very sore butt, still red with the welts his hand left.

It was not a fun or enjoyable experience for me at all. Next time I will be sure... if I have to ask, to ask someone who is willing AND knows how to do it erotically.

 

[Myskaninen]

ya... so true its not just the force involved in a good spanking

 

[lil_slave_rose]

I had read so much on here about how wonderful and erotic hand spankings are and how so many enjoy the hell out of them...I wanted one and I wanted one bad. When I went to visit a man for I think it was 15 days, I asked him to please give me one. He refused, he didn't want to do it, he was vanilla and just not into it. So I let it drop, but mentioned it on and off. The night before I left for home he finally gave in...just to shut me up.

Never bug someone to spank you who does not want to do it. He decided to teach me a lesson and IT HURT LIKE HELL! He has huge hands and he wailed on my ass hard! I had to fly home the next day with a very very sore butt, still red with the welts his hand left.

It was not a fun or enjoyable experience for me at all. Next time I will be sure... if I have to ask, to ask someone who is willing AND knows how to do it erotically.

the welts and soreness is what made it erotic for me. i LOVED feeling the welts and knowing they were there. i loved every single bruise, welt, mark, etc... but especially those left from the spankings. it's alot of what made me feel "owned" and reminded me who i belonged to. so i guess this falls under different strokes for different folks

 

[LadyC]

I had read so much on here about how wonderful and erotic hand spankings are and how so many enjoy the hell out of them...I wanted one and I wanted one bad. When I went to visit a man for I think it was 15 days, I asked him to please give me one. He refused, he didn't want to do it, he was vanilla and just not into it. So I let it drop, but mentioned it on and off. The night before I left for home he finally gave in...just to shut me up.

Never bug someone to spank you who does not want to do it. He decided to teach me a lesson and IT HURT LIKE HELL! He has huge hands and he wailed on my ass hard! I had to fly home the next day with a very very sore butt, still red with the welts his hand left.

It was not a fun or enjoyable experience for me at all. Next time I will be sure... if I have to ask, to ask someone who is willing AND knows how to do it erotically.

As I posted above to HisGypsy, try lying across the lap of a women, especially one who enjoys receiving nearly as much as giving. And an erotic spanking is more the simple pain. It is pain delivered with love....each slap of the palm on the lover's behind measured and often soothed with a moist, loving kiss and perhaps a bit of a nibble. Of course, a spanker must not forget a occasional caress of a woman's exposed pussy by finger or tongue.

 

[hisgypsy]

I had read so much on here about how wonderful and erotic hand spankings are and how so many enjoy the hell out of them...I wanted one and I wanted one bad. When I went to visit a man for I think it was 15 days, I asked him to please give me one. He refused, he didn't want to do it, he was vanilla and just not into it. So I let it drop, but mentioned it on and off. The night before I left for home he finally gave in...just to shut me up.

Never bug someone to spank you who does not want to do it. He decided to teach me a lesson and IT HURT LIKE HELL! He has huge hands and he wailed on my ass hard! I had to fly home the next day with a very very sore butt, still red with the welts his hand left.

It was not a fun or enjoyable experience for me at all. Next time I will be sure... if I have to ask, to ask someone who is willing AND knows how to do it erotically.

I have found that an erotic spanking works best if it starts off slow, and works its way up to something harder and more intense. If he started out hard and fast, no wonder it wasn't enjoyable. To me, those are the ones used for discipline and punishment, and it is meant to be felt long afterwards.

Some like it, some don't. I tend to find pleasure in any kind. And you can find other posts that talk about the bruising and marks left.

Good luck, there's someone out there who will be happy to oblige you.

 

[hisgypsy]

As I posted above to HisGypsy, try lying across the lap of a women, especially one who enjoys receiving nearly as much as giving. And an erotic spanking is more the simple pain. It is pain delivered with love....each slap of the palm on the lover's behind measured and often soothed with a moist, loving kiss and perhaps a bit of a nibble. Of course, a spanker must not forget a occasional caress of a woman's exposed pussy by finger or tongue.

And I never thought I'd say this, but I'm more and more intrigued.

 

[PepperoniPizza]

Definitely one of the more erotic threads on here.

I would do this. I think I've always wanted to but didn't fully realize it. I have a FWB who got rough with me a while back, while we were having sex and I was on top. I found I really liked it and encouraged him to do it more. I don't know if he was comfortable with it, but he complied and he was very good as I was really turned on by the whole experience. I'd like to take it further . . . although for the first time, doing it with someone I've never been with before and don't really know seems more appealing. That way, in the unlikely event that I decide I don't like it after all, then I just leave and never look back.

I don't think I'd like the whole "you're a naughty girl and you need to be punished." That seems unnecessary. Actually, I'd prefer no talking at all.

And as far as a woman doing it, I doubt that would do anything for me. For this reason:

When a man spanks me, when I'm draped over his lap to receive the ass warming slaps of his big, powerful hand, I love the feel of his cock hardening under my belly. Once, as I squirmed from his blows, rubbing his hot cock, the guy spanking me came.

Now that is just HOT . . .

 

[Myskaninen]

yea I have noticed that the spankee have grinded against my cock also very enjoyable from the spankers side

 

[ms_sub_liminal]

When a man spanks me, when I'm draped over his lap to receive the ass warming slaps of his big, powerful hand, I love the feel of his cock hardening under my belly. Once, as I squirmed from his blows, rubbing his hot cock, the guy spanking me came.

now that would be awesome. i have a new mission in the bedroom...

 

[alabamagal]

The Perfect Spanking *sigh*

I just recently learned the pleasure of receiving a spanking. Bare handed. My spanker really know how to do it. A couple of smacks. Then a caress. And Then...He would occassionally raise his hand quickly as if the was going to give me another lick but would lightly rest his hand on my behind. Whoa. What a turn on. I never knew what to expect! Ahh for the good old days!

 

[missym1977]

l like them online havent got the guts to do it for real yet
missym1977
you can IM me if you wan tto play
mrssppacemanspiff0874@yahoo.com

 

[midwestyankee]

Since we're talking technique...

One little addition that I've enjoyed is best suited for a point about 2/3 of the way through the spanking session in which your female spankee is draped across one thigh, mostly lengthwise. Have her raise her hips off your leg and then press two fingers from your non-spanking hand into her pussy. Dig your fingers into the front floor of her vagina and use them to grip the pubic bone. then return to your spanking, holding her thusly until you're finished.