A poll for our cuckold crowd

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

The fantasy for me would be my wife having more sex and me getting to act on my bi desires. I would lean in more to the hotwife side of things

What would turn me on is knowing that another man (presumably attractive and not desperate) finds my wife hot enough to want to have sex with her. That "validates" my belief that her beauty isn't only in the eyes of this beholder, so A. Also, since I too have Bi desires, I'd definitely want to share that other cock.

 

[darkride]

I am under no illusions - I know I am no stud. I am not big down there; I'm not athletic; I am very much a nerd. Whilst I, err well, used to last longer than 10 minutes (screwy knees these days are not helping me), it's not like I'm holding my wife upside down while 69ing, or even just pinned against the wall, or pounding her into next week.

A long time ago when we had a heart to heart about our sex life, which resulted in us exploring online with a Dom guy from the other side of the planet, it was he whom taught my wife how to squirt. He had us try a bunch of new things, and it left me with no doubt that I wanted her to submit to a proper Dom guy in "real time", who could give her experiences that I could not, as I am just the quiet, mild and not well endowed nice guy. (And noting that submission is not something I am forcing upon her - she very much likes to submit in the bedroom...)

That was where cucking started for me... Although, as I've gotten older, and more and more bi curious - I have to add that my ideal situation these days would be not just being cucked, with the guy fucking my wife, but for him to also be Domming me...

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

To quote Rodney King (in the most respectful way), "Why can't we all just get along?" I'm not at all into being Dominated. So, as an "equal rights" kind of guy, to me, it's all about "exploiting" what is desirable and feels good for all involved.

 

[MorlockIam]

c. They have needs you cannot/will not fulfill.
d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment.

More D as I am a submissive and being able to offer my lady the option of seeing others if she wishes is an extension of my submission to her. I do not wish to watch or take part but I do like hearing about it afterwards.

In terms of C, different lovers bring different qualities whether it be physical or abilities. So she would have options there as well to explore different bodies and styles of sex.

 

[DevilInDetail]

A then B, but also G - the idea of her being slutty appeals, the closer to an x-rated porn star the better

 

[Matt3427]

d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment.

Difficult to explain that but it's how it makes me feel. I don't even join in.

 

[Mike130]

I would enjoy watching them play. Watch the enthusiasm and energy she puts into fucking another guy. Not into the humiliation part, but would enjoy licking her afterwards to see what another man’s cum tastes like.

 

[marriedpervs]

Lit forums are replete with men (less so women) who want to live a cuckold/cuckquean lifestyle. I have seen lots of posts to that effect. I see fewer cuckqueans, but they bubble up occasionally.

For those who crave and/or have it, I am curious what it is that makes it desirable to you. To that end, I wanted to create a poll but replies will do fine. I have some preassembled responses but feel free to add your own or add nuance where I missed it.

a. You enjoy watching them at play.
b. You enjoy humiliation/exploitation play.
c. They have needs you cannot/will not fulfill.
d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment.
e. All of the above.
f. None of the above.
g. Other

Perhaps unnecessary to say but I will nevertheless: the intent of this poll isn't to judge anyone who has or wants to live this lifestyle. I am the possessive sort, so seeing so many cuckolds--which I feel is at the opposite end of the possessive spectrum--was surprising. Attribute it only to an inquisitive nature, please.

HI MRaith. Woman's perspective here. Hubby is a total voyeur but I also suspect some kind of cuck, because he adores watching me be fucked. He joins in almost always, and there's no submissive angle, but he adores me playing the boss in all these scenarios and I am good with that. More, it turns me on incredibly and always has. So....my respnses to your poll questions:

a. You enjoy watching them at play. - He does. I adore being watched. I'm definitely an exhibitionist sexually, but he is the voyeur and I know gets off watching me prepare, dress, tease and fuck.
b. You enjoy humiliation/exploitation play. I do a little, yes. I like to make him tell me how much he likes to watch me fuck. It turns me on and I know he gets really excited when I talk this way during sex with him or with others when I hunt and play.
c. They have needs you cannot/will not fulfill. - Not really - we want, we seek, we find, we enjoy.
d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment. - Definitely. I feel totally empowered and hot when playing.
e. All of the above.
f. None of the above.
g. Other

 

[Twalter22]

A is not an option the few times I have watched had nothing to do with my desires
B has evolved into my main way of experiencing intimacy
C Has always been true

 

[MeganFachs]

For my husband he says b and c and g - it supports his sexual self identity as a sissy. He finds humiliation very erotic (which took me a long time to come to terms with, to humiliate him as he craves while I love him and never want to hurt him) and humiliated for being a lingerie and dress-wearing sissy is his love language. He also doesn’t feel he’s able to satisfy my needs for a male lover (fucking) though he’s an admirable gurl-friend who has learned to lick me with the best of them.

 

[Fune_Meretrix]

Bisexual woman here. I like being a Cuckquean because I like the humiliation of it. I have some really intense humiliation kinks and being a Cuckquean is up there. Especially if the other woman is mean as hell. So… B, A, and then D.

 

[Ksgirl11]

It is my ultimate fantasy to be a cuckquean atleast once..him fucking her as mainly she degrades and humiliates me in every way possible..being used by them solely to get them ready for each other and clean them up. Sucking his dick clean afterwards and licking his cum from her pussy or ass..

 

[amigayorbi]

Lit forums are replete with men (less so women) who want to live a cuckold/cuckquean lifestyle. I have seen lots of posts to that effect. I see fewer cuckqueans, but they bubble up occasionally.

For those who crave and/or have it, I am curious what it is that makes it desirable to you. To that end, I wanted to create a poll but replies will do fine. I have some preassembled responses but feel free to add your own or add nuance where I missed it.

a. You enjoy watching them at play.
b. You enjoy humiliation/exploitation play.
c. They have needs you cannot/will not fulfill.
d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment.
e. All of the above.
f. None of the above.
g. Other

Perhaps unnecessary to say but I will nevertheless: the intent of this poll isn't to judge anyone who has or wants to live this lifestyle. I am the possessive sort, so seeing so many cuckolds--which I feel is at the opposite end of the possessive spectrum--was surprising. Attribute it only to an inquisitive nature, please.

It’s all a fantasy right now, would still answer assuming if it becomes a reality.

a. May be May be not, there is a different thrill I assume to her wanting her privacy and being on her own.

B. Have thought of it, I could take it and like to a certain extent but don’t know where the line would be.

C. I do feel someone can please her sexually more than me.

d. Not sure , don’t think so.

What are my results?

 

[Kenrychard]

My feelings were a desperation response to a situation I lost control over. I started off confident and wanting to share my wife for HER pleasure with another man in MFM play. ( I had been the extra guy for two married couples when single and really enjoyed how much the wife would orgasm with two men pleasuring her). But over the course of our play during 15 years I went from sharing her, to watching and listening from outside the room and then feeling, smelling and tasting his semen in her after, to her going elsewhere and only bringing home a cum soaked pussy as "sharing" with me. I got so obsessed with what she was doing with the other guy ( He had a lovely 9 inch cock I had seen in a couple of pictures ) and hurt that I wasn't invited to share with them that I ended masturbating while she was gone to fantasy's of finally being called and invited to come, but only allowed to watch from a chair in the shadows as they fucked, teased with a view of her cum filled pussy when they finished and told I could clean her up as long as I cleaned both, and so sucking their mixed juices off his cock and then licking her clean as well. I even got to the point of imagining him getting hard again as I licked and sucked him clean, and my wife telling me I had to suck him off and swallow every drop.
I never did get invited, and I finally blew up and divorced her. But for YEARS that fantasy intruded every time I tried to masturbate, and eventually I just accepted it. It is still my number one turn on, imagining myself only allowed to watch as my woman fucks another guy, permitted to lick them both clean, and if I do that well allowed to get them both off again with my mouth. For years I could only cum masturbating if I imagined him ejaculating in her pussy or in my mouth, never my own cock involved at all. SO:
A lot of a: I really enjoy watching her pleasured
b: For some reason I don't actually feel humiliated... I should and would expect to.. but I actually feel that if I got to go down on her and on him that I am the winner LOL.
c: Only a little. He did have a much nicer cock, but I never had any trouble pleasuring her. She started branching out at MY urging.
d: I guess that was my response to b, except it never truly happened so I was never empowered. The closest I got to empowered
was writing the fantasy in detail for my wife( on the way to her being ex) to read and seeing her freak at how different my response was than she expected. She thought I had gotten jealous, I was never jealous, just left out.

 

[betabrad]

Lit forums are replete with men (less so women) who want to live a cuckold/cuckquean lifestyle. I have seen lots of posts to that effect. I see fewer cuckqueans, but they bubble up occasionally.

For those who crave and/or have it, I am curious what it is that makes it desirable to you. To that end, I wanted to create a poll but replies will do fine. I have some preassembled responses but feel free to add your own or add nuance where I missed it.

a. You enjoy watching them at play.
b. You enjoy humiliation/exploitation play.
c. They have needs you cannot/will not fulfill.
d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment.
e. All of the above.
f. None of the above.
g. Other

Perhaps unnecessary to say but I will nevertheless: the intent of this poll isn't to judge anyone who has or wants to live this lifestyle. I am the possessive sort, so seeing so many cuckolds--which I feel is at the opposite end of the possessive spectrum--was surprising. Attribute it only to an inquisitive nature, please.

For me , mostly c. And a little bit of b. I’ve come to accept that I’m just not good in bed - I have a small penis that cums in just a few seconds. I accept that I just can’t satisfy a woman in bed with my penis. I’ve only been able to pleasure women with my mouth and tongue. I’m single right now and I just think that most women probably prefer to be fucked real good, something I’m just not able to do. Plus, I also just have submissive tendencies too. I think I was just made for a cuckold relationship.

I do have things that I can offer a woman, but just not in bed. I want a relationship with a woman, but would a woman want a man who can’t give her a good fucking if she can’t fuck other men ?

 

[UtilityCurve]

"(a)" all the way!

 

[Lonelyinwa]

Lit forums are replete with men (less so women) who want to live a cuckold/cuckquean lifestyle. I have seen lots of posts to that effect. I see fewer cuckqueans, but they bubble up occasionally.

For those who crave and/or have it, I am curious what it is that makes it desirable to you. To that end, I wanted to create a poll but replies will do fine. I have some preassembled responses but feel free to add your own or add nuance where I missed it.

a. You enjoy watching them at play.
b. You enjoy humiliation/exploitation play.
c. They have needs you cannot/will not fulfill.
d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment.
e. All of the above.
f. None of the above.
g. Other

Perhaps unnecessary to say but I will nevertheless: the intent of this poll isn't to judge anyone who has or wants to live this lifestyle. I am the possessive sort, so seeing so many cuckolds--which I feel is at the opposite end of the possessive spectrum--was surprising. Attribute it only to an inquisitive nature, please.

A and c would be the 2 top answers for me.

 

[ADIDAS00]

Lit forums are replete with men (less so women) who want to live a cuckold/cuckquean lifestyle. I have seen lots of posts to that effect. I see fewer cuckqueans, but they bubble up occasionally.

For those who crave and/or have it, I am curious what it is that makes it desirable to you. To that end, I wanted to create a poll but replies will do fine. I have some preassembled responses but feel free to add your own or add nuance where I missed it.

a. You enjoy watching them at play.
b. You enjoy humiliation/exploitation play.
c. They have needs you cannot/will not fulfill.
d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment.
e. All of the above.
f. None of the above.
g. Other

Perhaps unnecessary to say but I will nevertheless: the intent of this poll isn't to judge anyone who has or wants to live this lifestyle. I am the possessive sort, so seeing so many cuckolds--which I feel is at the opposite end of the possessive spectrum--was surprising. Attribute it only to an inquisitive nature, please.

I have another thought on this. Cuckolding is kind of like topping from the bottom in a way. The cuck is actually the more powerful person because nothing bothers them. Their wife is with another man and instead of getting jealous or mad, they get aroused. It’s the ultimate power….they’re untouchable in a way.

 

[Sgts19]

I fit more into the Stag category but always fucked their wife as well.

a. You enjoy watching them at play. For sure or listening
b. You enjoy humiliation/exploitation play. Not a chance
c. They have needs you cannot/will not fulfill. Yes little light below the belt
d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment. In a way. Look who's going home with me not you
e. All of the above.
f. None of the above.
g. Other

 

[sundown1]

a. You enjoy watching them at play.
b. You enjoy humiliation/exploitation play.
c. They have needs you cannot/will not fulfill.
d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment.
e. All of the above.
f. None of the above.
g. Other

A) yes, I would very much like to catch her playing with her self, and of course I want to see her with a big cock.
B) to a point. I don't want to be made fun of, but something like, " baby he's so much bigger, you like watching him give me what I need."
C) pertains to A and B
D) hmmm I guess so.
G) other, yeah, I like to watch, maybe participate, help her make him cum, if ya git my drift...

 

[artgorden]

Lit forums are replete with men (less so women) who want to live a cuckold/cuckquean lifestyle. I have seen lots of posts to that effect. I see fewer cuckqueans, but they bubble up occasionally.

For those who crave and/or have it, I am curious what it is that makes it desirable to you. To that end, I wanted to create a poll but replies will do fine. I have some preassembled responses but feel free to add your own or add nuance where I missed it.

a. You enjoy watching them at play.
b. You enjoy humiliation/exploitation play.
c. They have needs you cannot/will not fulfill.
d. You feel empowered as a byproduct of their empowerment.
e. All of the above.
f. None of the above.
g. Other

Perhaps unnecessary to say but I will nevertheless: the intent of this poll isn't to judge anyone who has or wants to live this lifestyle. I am the possessive sort, so seeing so many cuckolds--which I feel is at the opposite end of the possessive spectrum--was surprising. Attribute it only to an inquisitive nature, please.

A, B, ang G. The other thing is that I get to suck her bull's dick.