a question for Doms/Tops/sadists

[rexfelis]

I used to think it was A, but I recently got a taste of B... I think I'm more of a sadist than I realized. I think for me, it would be at least a 5:1 ratio until I am more experienced, but I'd say I like both.

 

[MechaBlade]

a: that even tho she's in pain, she wants it, she craves it, she may be crying or whimpering in pain but you can see the utter raw lust in her eyes and you know she's enjoying the sensations and wants more...

b: or that shes not enjoying it, she wishes it would stop, but she is taking it for you because you're her Master/Dom. maybe she enjoys submitting, but the actual pain and violence-she just wants it to be over.

Ideally, in the large scheme of things, her feelings don't matter, only the deliciousness of her tears and red marks.

However, in practice, I'd like her to enjoy it, as this would increase my confidence that we will be able to do it again.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

I think that its a combination of A and B

 

[rosco rathbone]

when you are playing with your sub/slave..not talking about discipline, but play- when you slap her so hard she gasps and there is a red mark on her cheek...when you whip her so hard she is crying..when you fuck her ass so hard she is screaming in pain and bleeding- which turns you on more:

a: that even tho she's in pain, she wants it, she craves it, she may be crying or whimpering in pain but you can see the utter raw lust in her eyes and you know she's enjoying the sensations and wants more...

b: or that shes not enjoying it, she wishes it would stop, but she is taking it for you because you're her Master/Dom. maybe she enjoys submitting, but the actual pain and violence-she just wants it to be over.

im just curious. personally for me if i was a top, i think id enjoy it more that they wanted it and enjoyed it. id ont think id enjoy it nearly as much if i thought they hated it and were only submitting to the extreme pain because i was their master.

i know as a sub, i love to see that he is enjoying what he's doing to me...enjoying the look of pain on my face. thats why i hate to be blindfolded-i like to see his facial expressions of pleasure at my pain

*disclaimer-using a female sub for example and the sake of brevity-i know there are male subs and Femdoms

Not A or B. I'd rather rape someone for real, but that isn't right. So I make do with play.

 

[ownedsubgal]

Rosco, if you ever decide to shut off the controls and go out and rape someone for real, will you come back and tell me about it (in excruciating detail, please)?? just wonderin'.


...like Etoile's Daddy, i think my Master would answer b. He doesn't subject me to anything physical expressly for my pleasure...just not his style. if i happen to get some amount of personal pleasure out of something, he's fine with it, occasionally even tickled with it, but it's never his goal in anything, and it has no effect on his own pleasure. so often i'm just "taking it" for him, whether it's a beating for no reason other than he just needs to beat me, or loaning me to a hard or sadistic Dom for a few hours. it's about suffering for him, while remaining unfailingly obedient.