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I have climaxed will riding my fella's dick.
... But I will mention this to add to the discussion and I feel this is a big part of sex we all forget about, the mind. I know of past gfs and women on lit here that say the guy getting extra hard just before orgasm turns them on enough to orgasm themselves. In other cases it is the feeling of cum spurting inside that sets them off, I feel in each instance it is the mind that is so turned on, that is what causes the orgasm. And getting the mind turned on, starts way back hours before in foreplay both physical and verbal in my opinion. ...
I have climaxed will riding my fella's dick.
Maybe I am somewhat unique/fortunate in that I most always climax with my husband inside me and very frequently we climax together. I have never struggled to achieve orgasm and hubby is both a skilled and patient lover. I believe we have perfected the art of "timing"!
Often, the moment she knows that she is going to have a profound orgasm is the moment I set off a sensation inside her vagina with my fingers during our play just before I penetrate her; in fact it's that sensation which prompts her to say 'come into me'. I pressed her about exactly where in her vagina and she feels its 1.5, 2 inches inside. That makes me wonder if it's when I'm putting some pressure on the 'inside' of her clitoris when I do this.
For my own part I must add here: I have had to learn a lot about avoiding over-stimulation with my fingers which sets off an unhelpful sensitivity for her there. When I have done that, the likelihood of her orgasming later is much reduced.
Simon
This thread is about so much more than technique, so much more than the minutes before and during a woman’s total bliss on her man’s cock.
Yet it’s a discussion about getting to that situation:
a man and a woman coupled penis-in-vagina,
and she is experiencing a climax which began within her
and is radiating to every part of her being
and it’s fantastic for her and for him.
Orgasms can be fabulous however they happen: oral, hand, clitoral stimulation, vibrators – but there is a kind of ‘holy grail’ in all this: a woman’s orgasm on a man’s cock while all that is going on at that moment is the pair of them are fucking like crazy. The joy builds intensely and explodes unforgettably.
So, have your say:
about context, relationship and attitudes;
about foreplay and technique which may be helpful;
about the time it might take;
about the things a man needs to understand or learn or master;
about a woman allowing her own release;
about the difference age can make, for the woman and for the man.
Hi everybody
In first, I would say that I'm a French man, and my english is far from perfect - sorry for this - and I might misunderstand you, because of my lack of vocabulary, and that I seldom express myself in English ....
But I'll do my best to share my experience with you ....
Hope this will help some of you. Cheers
So, in conclusion, what happened :
- A very good feeling, and later a great love
- A good listening from my side of her wishes, and no shame nor shyness from her side to say me what she would like me to do, or better what to do and when .... Useless to say that now, no need to guide me as I know her on the tip of my fingers - and tongue too -
- And from her side, a great letting go, because she fully trusts and loves me
... I once brought a guy to climax just clenching and relaxing my pelvic floor. I'm quite proud of that ...
On a psychological note, I feel so much more connected when we do this. We mutually masturbate and lots of other thing but the best feeling in the world is slowing down near point of orgasm so you can breathe well enough to kiss. Then as you're kissing the orgasm finally arrives.
It doesn't happen often because realistically, I want to be able to take deep breaths and moan but I guess in a way that makes that moment more special. Feel more loved and loving..brings the butterflies back from first meeting
An interesting paper related to this discussion:
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3894744/
^^^^^ "By contrast, women's orgasms in intercourse are highly variable and are under little selective pressure as they are not a reproductive necessity."
We got ripped off!!!
God/higher power is a dude!
"Particularly intriguing is the notion that orgasm solely from sexual intercourse seems most likely to occur in women who may have been exposed to the lowest levels of prenatal androgens. Exposure to higher levels of androgens does not preclude orgasm, but may result in easier orgasm from direct stimulation of the clitoral shaft or glans, than from stimulation of the vagina or internal clitoral structures in close proximity to the vaginal walls. "
And if you are a female with have a male twin... maybe not so good for certain things, anyway.
On a psychological note, I feel so much more connected when we do this. We mutually masturbate and lots of other thing but the best feeling in the world is slowing down near point of orgasm so you can breathe well enough to kiss. Then as you're kissing the orgasm finally arrives.
It doesn't happen often because realistically, I want to be able to take deep breaths and moan but I guess in a way that makes that moment more special. Feel more loved and loving..brings the butterflies back from first meeting
I climax fairly easily if my mind and body are engaged. Clitoral orfasms are amazing and all but I always feel unfinished; insatiable when actually, it's because I want to feel the weight of a man on me and his cock deep inside. Missionary position works well for this and is my preferred position unless I'm feeling sexy/dirty and want it from behind.
I have fairly strong pelvic muscles that clench and kinda push a man back out, until he knows this is what happens and accommodates. Spent quite some time trying not to do that in beginning of relationship so could have sex that wasn't interrupted by my pushing him out. But in a way, it taught us both new things, like using it to prolong sex and also that if I can't clench around him, I don't orgasm as well. I mean it all happens but I don't get that deep feeling where you feel empty from tension being released.
I think he's learnt to enjoy the massage and not be scared of being crushed or something. I once brought a guy to climax just clenching and relaxing my pelvic floor. I'm quite proud of that
For me context has never mattered much. Timing to climax together is easier when you know the signs of your partner obviously, so in that case if I'm behind or trying to catch up from last orgasm I stimulate other areas or use pelvic floor to slow him down.
i find it harder to climax on top because I'm so self conscious so wouldn't recommend that position but any other is good.
"Particularly intriguing is the notion that orgasm solely from sexual intercourse seems most likely to occur in women who may have been exposed to the lowest levels of prenatal androgens. Exposure to higher levels of androgens does not preclude orgasm, but may result in easier orgasm from direct stimulation of the clitoral shaft or glans, than from stimulation of the vagina or internal clitoral structures in close proximity to the vaginal walls. "
And if you are a female with have a male twin... maybe not so good for certain things, anyway.