Rickstrasser
Really Really Experienced
- Joined
- Dec 17, 2008
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Nice story!I'm not sure if this is a personal ad or a story, but it's an introduction to see who would enjoy chatting or sharing with me in the future, so I thought I'd put it here. I'm a happily married (for nearly 20 years) and very horny straight guy who loves a bit of online sexual distraction from time to time. My wife is very kinky in bed, but less sex driven on a day to day basis than I am. She knows I enjoy online distractions from time to time (and I will even share some with her when she's in the right mood), but mostly just accepts I'll blow off steam, so long as I don't "hook up" with anyone (which I'm not here to do). Plus I usually come back to her more horny and adventurous, which she rather enjoys. So first a bit about what I am looking for here on Lit, then I'll share a bit about me, then a bit about us and her, because I love to talk about havng sex with my wife and don't get to do it with our real life friends!
Like any red blooded straight guy on here, I'd happily chat or maybe even cam with a willing lady, although my work and family life don't give me much time for that. I love erotic fiction - graphic, but imersive and well written- and will eventually get around to editing and sharing some of what I've written in the past for my personal enjoyment. Also to reading more of what's here once I find some authors I enjoy. I'm a big porn fan and have a large personal collection. Most is vanilla MF sex, although I have full folders of threesomes, small groups and lesbian porn as well. Love to watch attractive women enjoy pleasuring themselves as well.
I have a huge blowjob and facial fetish, and most of my porn collection is dedicated to that kind of material. The most attractive feature of a woman to me is her face, so I love to see pretty faces sucking on hard dicks, and then dripping in hot sperm. But I'm also turned on by women enjoying sex rather than being used (except when that turns them on) so I'm into BJs and facials as part of an intense mutual sexual experience, rather than the "how wet can she get" bukakae thing. A little bit of gagging can be hot (as I remind my wife when she "messes up" a blowjob), but too much of it is a turn off.
The only rival in gigabytes to my porn collection is my homemade porn collection, with pictures and videos of my wife and I over the last 15 years. I'll talk about how it came about later, but it is mostly blowjob and facial content that we have filmed ourselves. One of my favorite hobbies is editing our videos into hot music videos, including mashing her up with other girls (pornstars, online amateurs, whomever). She's my personal pornstar and is the focus of about half my maturbation time these days. We have very occasionally and selectively shared some of that content with other couples online, so that is something that is possible with the right person. Usually this has involved trading private videos, and then making a mashup video of our wives performing together shared just between us. I have also shared a few of her pics and videos with guys to masturbate to and cum on, as I enjoy seeing other guys get turned on by her, but again that is very selective.
I'm open to chatting with guys, girls or couples about our wives, oral sex, filming sex and favorite porn, etc. I also enjoy writing real-life fantasy stories about myself, my wife and other people we connect with online- I like to make these realistic portrayals of how it would "actually happen," if these fantasies were realized, trying to include innocuous, but personal details that make it feel real to the people reading about themselves. So although I doubt I'll ever actually share my wife, it's still a hot fantasy.
I'm not into stories about incest, rape, family porn (except that my wife's younger sister is a babe and I've written a few fantasies about getting together with her, and had some achingly explicit dreams that had me running for a keyboard and some tissue). I don't have any gay tendcies, but do like the look of a big throbbing cock if it's inside of or getting ready to fill up or splash over a sweet looking young lady...
A bit about us as a couple- both sexually inexperienced when we married, but I had a long hobby in internet porn before then, with a porn collection that's still growing from the early days of free sex videos online. I put all those years of research to good use on our wedding night (being clever enough to mostly tell real sex from performative, and having read a lot of books on actual human sexuality in my youth as well). I knew enough to make sure she had a REALLY good time and learned to love sex from her first few experiences. I intentionally focused on her from a sexual point of view for the first few months of marriage and it was "mission accomplished" if I do say so myself to get her hooked on riding the hubby-train. Happy accident- she's multi-orgamsmic! From that point on for the next 10 years our sex life was about regularly exploring new things together and finding out what we liked. There's probably some good stories in here for those who like tales of the innocent girl trying new things for the first time, because since then, she's tried just about everything I can come up with (that doesn't involve another person in the room- maybe someday we'll get there).
Over the course of our marriage we have gradually moved into oral sex (that was first obviously, but took her a bit of warming up), sex toys, mutual masturbation (I got to watch the first time she ever gave herself an orgasm), facials, photos and filming, light bondage, porn, sex in public places, some online sharing, and anal sex. Naturally we've drifted towards some favorites that make up most of our sexual encounters. For us that is a lot of foreplay (kissing and caressing), repeated breast and nipple sucking, extensive back and forth mutual oral edging in multiple different positions, and eventual vaginal sex in missionary, cowgirl or doggy to finish off. We like to do a lot of position changing when we can, but we are both so heavily oral focused at this point that we often have no edge left to ride by the time I'm pushing my cock between her legs, and neither of us lasts long after the first few thrusts. We'd probably have exclusive oral sex more often, except my wife's favorite way to orgasm is riding cowgirl with a butt plug in her ass, so we often finish up that way. No way my cock can hold off when she gets grinding me in a hot orgasm with a big old plug squeezing me too, so we usually cum simultaneously.
I was very careful introducing her to facials because I wanted her to be okay with them. We worked up to it for a while, spraying her tits, a splash here and there on the chin, telling her how hot it looked. I started emphasizing how visually turned on I was by oral sex and watching her suck me, and how the most intimate part of her was her face, and how sexy it would be to put my orgasm directly on her face (all how I truly feel). Eventually she agreed to try a full facial and to let me film it. There are two videos on two back to back occasions that I consider our first facials. The first I'm straddling her face as she's on her back, and she rubs it out over her cheeks and chin while holding me in her hand. The second she's kneeling in front of me and I control the spray in very classic porn fashion. This time the first blast flew right over her head onto the floor and splashed into her eye. She was giggling uncontrollably as I finished covering her. I mean seeing sperm fly out of a guy frantically jerking himself above your head is funny, right? Luckily that didn't turn her off to the experience, and after some discussion on how to better avoid her eyes, she agreed to facials as a semi-regular activity. She didn't love it (and I've always told her it was optional), but she could see how much I loved it, and wanted to keep doing it for me. I think that's the right way to "talk a girl into it." In fact, I'm terrible at missing her eyes, but she's gotten used to that too. Her favorite part of facial night is watching my face while I'm cumming, so she's always looking right up at me smiling with her eyes open. That of course makes it so much better, and is the reason I've insisted on filming almost every one so I could relive it many times. Had a good decade of nearly monthly blowjobs with facial endings to enjoy and film, so I feel like a pretty lucky guy. The last few years due to family and all that other life stuff we don't do it as much, but she still knows it's my favorite when I've earned a favor, or whenever we get out of town together.
As for porn, my wife didn't really find much enjoyment in it, and wasn't super thrilled with me using it when I started bringing it up to do together. That was part of how we started filming together more regularly, so I could jack off to her instead- which I did, and still often do! Eventually she tried watching more with me a few times- I got her pretty hot on a few nights. She never got very interested in continuing, but was eventually ok with me using it, just usually doesn't want to hear about it. I think the body types in porn highlight her own self-conscious body issues too much- I always hope my video mixes of her help her see she's as hot as (if not more so) than a porn star faking enjoying a fuck for some cash!
So that's a bit about me and us. Hope to poke around for a while, share some stories (true and made up), and hear those of others. Feel free to PM if you think we have interests in common, or comment on this thread, but I'm not going to hand out facial pics or videos of my wife without a bit of relationship and trust developing, so please keep that in mind too.
-Shane.
