Addicted?

[goodsonformom]

Addicted--no. But I enjoy the people and banter so much. I've made some friends here. I'm a social person so this is a great way to connect too.

*winks* at INL........

 

[goodsonformom]

Lit is a big part of my life...I have friends here, I can express my feelings, I'm comfortable...
Here I can come and go with ease...for me Lit is uncomplicated.

Then there is the sexual part of Lit
I have learnt a lot about my self as a person, and the variety found in the world.
I have had very enjoyable conversations
I can be desired and desire

Lit is important to me, saying I was addicted would be to frivolous

You are the best Bound......but you already knew that........

 

[goodsonformom]

Addicted... I wouldn't say that I'm addicted...but I do like Lit. It is an awesome place to find others that have the same interests as you, pick up some new ones, and maybe learn a thing or two. Being a writer, it's so easy to get inspired by the site....and then there is the people. The people are pretty great and are very inspirational as well. I have met some really great folks here that I consider more than friends. It's very easy to enjoy Lit and it's full of some very talented writiers. LITEROTICA.... YOU ROCK!!!!!!!!

Perfect!............But that is you BBG...........

 

[goodsonformom]

I am addicted to Lit? No, my participation has not remained consistent.

When I first started in January, I was on every day to post, ask questions, trying to figure everything out.

Now, I come on to hang out when I am bored or ill, because I am on the computer a lot I am on here a lot. I don't NEED Lit, and I don't think to myself, "I can't wait to get on Lit" It just happens.

So, no, I wouldn't say I am addicted. I do appreciate those who answer my questions.

Is it fair to say that some individuals may be addicted to me?

Interesting........

 

[goodsonformom]

Oh LORD YES!!! (If it gets any worse I'm personally going to be hip deep in laundry, cat box and dishes....) Actually - I started on the boards doing research for a story I was writing. But then a thread caught my eye that was a fetish (shared with my SO)......and then another.....and another. Then I started "meeting people and making friends" (I KNOW, but what else CAN you call it?) Then one particular thread started that's always been sort of an unfilled need that my SO and I don't share.....and the group of people on that thread began to feel, in some ways, as real (or more so) than others that I interact with on a day-to-day basis. I recognized 'the addiction' at least a couple of months ago. Do I feel guilty about it - what is the point of that? It's nothing I hide from my SO and he's also a LitE member and free to check up on me any time he wanted. Do I try to rationalize it (other than the occasional "but it's RESEARCH???" ) - No. Was I almost happy when my laptop was down for a few days because I was crazy bored and got so much work done around the house - including a LOT of writing - you bet. As soon as I got my laptop back was it plugged into LitE again (my personal FaceBook) - Absolutely! Would I change any of it - NOT FOR THE WORLD!

Wow........fuck the "laundry, cat box and dishes"....I say..........I love the way your mind works....................

 

[goodsonformom]

I am not addicted to anything.Except maybe breathing......

I know....I know....Well I know you to be a very intriguing young lady.....you don't suppose we all could convert you.......hmmmmm.........after all......we are always looking for new recruits......

 

[BBWangeleyes]

I know....I know....Well I know you to be a very intriguing young lady.....you don't suppose we all could convert you.......hmmmmm.........after all......we are always looking for new recruits......

Addicts go to meetings. I hate meetings.

 

[goodsonformom]

Addicts go to meetings. I hate meetings.

No meetings.......I promise.....no meetings......only outings and field trips......I promise.......and maybe some unexpected fondling.......

 

[DaddyJohn]

We all come here for a reason....some because we're in search of intimacy with another......some for companionship...a connection...some for the the shear desire to be lustful.....sexual....

Once here....can we escape the draw....the compulsion...the obsession to walk away...what keep's you coming back...is it a person...a fetish...an act...images....stories?

Are you addicted?....

If so when did you recognize it....do you find ways to rationalize your cravings....can you be humorous about it....do you have guilt ridden feelings? Share with us about it.......be honest......

Well......after an eye opening night......I can honestly say........I am not addicted......close? Yes, but not addicted........I don't remember totally why I started on the boards......I know that I have learned a lot about myself........I have made some connections with some people......some of whom I now count as friends........but I also know that I could leave........would I be anxious......a little.....not because of missing posting in a thread.......I would be more anxious that people here might be worried.......wondering if I were ok..........and honestly......I would miss them.......our interaction.......but if I did chose to leave........I would let those people know of an alternative way to keep in touch...........maybe I am addicted to the people.......rather than the site........THAT is a possibility.

 

[goodsonformom]

Well......after an eye opening night......I can honestly say........I am not addicted......close? Yes, but not addicted........I don't remember totally why I started on the boards......I know that I have learned a lot about myself........I have made some connections with some people......some of whom I now count as friends........but I also know that I could leave........would I be anxious......a little.....not because of missing posting in a thread.......I would be more anxious that people here might be worried.......wondering if I were ok..........and honestly......I would miss them.......our interaction.......but if I did chose to leave........I would let those people know of an alternative way to keep in touch...........maybe I am addicted to the people.......rather than the site........THAT is a possibility.

You're a good man DJ......Proud to call you a friend.......

 

[DaddyJohn]

You're a good man DJ......Proud to call you a friend.......

Same here G.....

 

[sweet_secrets4u]

When I first joined lit, which is only a few weeks ago, It was like a new toy, I didn’t want to put down.
My husband is away for a year, so I have plenty of time on my hands. I came here for no particular reason than because I was bored and horny. I flittered here from reading the stories.
I like to read peoples shared experiences,, and I, in turn, share mine.
There are a few people I converse with here. But surprisingly, especially since I wasn’t looking, I found, or rather he found me, someone who has become so very special. Hence my signature.
I don’t consider myself addicted to lit, but there is an attraction there, and a big part of the attraction is the people here, and their contribution to the site.

 

[mojo23]

If jumping on Lit first thing when you wake up means your addicted then yes I guess I am

I joined Lit only last December first so I could comment anonymously on some of my favorite author's stories. Then I checked out the forums coming across a thread on a topic that really turns me on although it is fairly taboo. After reading the thread it gave me the confidence to post a reply saying that "hey I am into this too" and the responses and encouragement I got back (thank you to peachesmelba and SpicyVixen) was amazing!

That first thread and the encouragement help me go back and comment on my favortie stories with my public profile. It also opened up a new door to new friends to have fun with in a whole new way. A place where I can express my deepest desires ahd play out my fanatasies with no fear of ridicule.

So yeah I guess I am addicted to Lit but really it's the stimulating conversations that keeping me coming back for more

 

[DarkPleasures]

Are you addicted?....

Am I addicted? Yes. Lit has been pulling me in since 2000. Even when I've "gone away", I find myself coming back. Only a very, very small few (less than handfull) know all my screen names over the years. Yes, there's been more. No, I will not "tell all of you" who else I am and if that offends you, sorry. Not going to budge on that one.

Anyway, Lit has had its ups and downs...but as I said, I always do keep coming back.

The phrase has been mentioned on this site before, and I realize that I do fall under the category as well... I am an attention whore. More than once in my "career" here I have had over 10,000 posts to a name. And though I am bisexual, I do crave attention from men - mostly. Then again, if a woman is not local, it's been rare that I've been "interested" in her. *shrugs* The men; however, do not have to be local.

 

[~Elizabeth~]

When i first joined Lit years and years ago, i felt like i was addicted, yes...because i was online all the time having fun with the people i met and became friends with. Then i took a 5 yr hiatus from the site. Having only come back in like the last year, i wouldn't say i'm addicted, as i could walk away again easily, i think.

Addicted to a certain thread...now that is an entirely different matter. lol

 

[goodsonformom]

When I first joined lit, which is only a few weeks ago, It was like a new toy, I didn’t want to put down.
My husband is away for a year, so I have plenty of time on my hands. I came here for no particular reason than because I was bored and horny. I flittered here from reading the stories.
I like to read peoples shared experiences,, and I, in turn, share mine.
There are a few people I converse with here. But surprisingly, especially since I wasn’t looking, I found, or rather he found me, someone who has become so very special. Hence my signature.
I don’t consider myself addicted to lit, but there is an attraction there, and a big part of the attraction is the people here, and their contribution to the site.

Not everyone is addicted........But I believe most people who come here regularly do so because of the people......it's a natural thing to be drawn to a community of like minded people.......and someone with whom you have an emotional bond......Thank you sweet_secrets4u........

 

[goodsonformom]

Am I addicted? Yes. Lit has been pulling me in since 2000. Even when I've "gone away", I find myself coming back. Only a very, very small few (less than handfull) know all my screen names over the years. Yes, there's been more. No, I will not "tell all of you" who else I am and if that offends you, sorry. Not going to budge on that one.

Anyway, Lit has has its ups and downs...but as I said, I always do keep coming back.

The phrase has been mentioned on this site before, and I realize that I do fall under the category as well... I am an attention whore. More than once in my "career" here I have had over 10,000 posts to a name. And though I am bisexual, I do crave attention from men - mostly. Then again, if a woman is not local, it's been rare that I've been "interested" in her. *shrugs* The men; however, do not have to be local.

Thank you DP.......I have always loved your honesty and candor......you are a very genuine girl.........your posting says it all......Thanks for posting ......

 

[DarkPleasures]

Thank you DP.......I have always loved your honesty and candor......you are a very genuine girl.........your posting says it all......Thanks for posting ......

Thank you for your kind words.

 

[goodsonformom]

When i first joined Lit years and years ago, i felt like i was addicted, yes...because i was online all the time having fun with the people i met and became friends with. Then i took a 5 yr hiatus from the site. Having only come back in like the last year, i wouldn't say i'm addicted, as i could walk away again easily, i think.

Addicted to a certain thread...now that is an entirely different matter. lol

The idea of walking away seems simple at times......but I know I always walk back....Been there done that......many times......Thank you for the lovely post.....and for the postings you do in that "maybe...Addicted...thread"......

 

[DarkPleasures]

The idea of walking away seems simple at times......but I know I always walk back....Been there done that......many times......

Nice to see that I am not alone in that one, as well.

 

[goodsonformom]

Nice to see that I am not alone in that one, as well.

*Nods*..........I for one had always missed you like others when they walk.....always hoping to see them again........I'm love this persona and always look forward to you posts.......

 

[Lexi_6]

more....

I have only recently joined LIT, am I addicted? hmmm…. I think I might be, I check it first thing in the morning, at least once before lunch, lunch time, about mid day, again before leaving work and off & on throughout my evening.
LIT has opened and assisted me in processing events from my life that have been difficult to accept, now not only do I accept them I realize without them I would not be the person I am today, and I love who I am. LIT has helped me to express my desires and needs, it has helped rid me of the shame I had felt and has strengthened my marriage. Maybe I am addicted to LIT but I have never known of an addiction that had so many positive affects. I LOVE LIT!

 

[goodsonformom]

I have only recently joined LIT, am I addicted? hmmm…. I think I might be, I check it first thing in the morning, at least once before lunch, lunch time, about mid day, again before leaving work and off & on throughout my evening.
LIT has opened and assisted me in processing events from my life that have been difficult to accept, now not only do I accept them I realize without them I would not be the person I am today, and I love who I am. LIT has helped me to express my desires and needs, it has helped rid me of the shame I had felt and has strengthened my marriage. Maybe I am addicted to LIT but I have never known of an addiction that had so many positive affects. I LOVE LIT!

Good for you girl.........

 

[Emmcee20]

I have only recently joined LIT, am I addicted? hmmm…. I think I might be, I check it first thing in the morning, at least once before lunch, lunch time, about mid day, again before leaving work and off & on throughout my evening.
LIT has opened and assisted me in processing events from my life that have been difficult to accept, now not only do I accept them I realize without them I would not be the person I am today, and I love who I am. LIT has helped me to express my desires and needs, it has helped rid me of the shame I had felt and has strengthened my marriage. Maybe I am addicted to LIT but I have never known of an addiction that had so many positive affects. I LOVE LIT!

That's the addiction I want! Great reflective philosophy Lexi.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Of course I'm addicted

Otherwise, what would be the point?